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Chapter 749 Because I Need You

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    There seemed to be no impatience in Qing Yunfei's tone.

    ——"Then, shall we read together?"

    Chu Lihua smiled slyly.

    ——"My God! I didn't read books so seriously when I was in school."

    Qing Yunfei immediately threw his head on the bed and howled.

    ——"There is a saying that life is long and learning is old. It is rare to have such an opportunity to study hard at home."

    ——"I think there is really nothing to learn about tourism. After a while, it will be fine."

    ——"No, in my opinion, this matter has a great impact on our tourism industry, and the time will be farther than we imagined. We must also make other plans.

    Therefore, at this time, learning to improve yourself is the best investment.  "

    As Chu Lihua said, she went to pull Qing Yunfei.

    ——"Don't make noise, I'll wake up Xiaoqi later."

    Qing Yunfei quickly hid.

    ——"Okay, don't read the book today, let me tell you a new word. nlp."——

    "What is nlp?"

    Qing Yunfei felt that as long as he was not allowed to study, he could cooperate with Chu Lihua very well. Anyway, he just asked casually.

    ——"nlp is an English acronym. It is an acronym of three words.

    n, literally translated as "nervous", refers to our "body and mind".

    You know, the mind is responsible for thinking, the body is responsible for execution, and the mind and body are connected to help us control sensory organs and functional systems to maintain contact with the world.

    The second letter, l, literally translates to "grammar", referring to the language patterns and grammatical rules used in the connection between the mind and the body.

    The third letter, p, literally translates to "program", referring to the fact that our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are nothing but habitual patterns that can be improved by improving our "thought" software.

    That is to say, by changing our thinking and behavior patterns, breaking the inertia, so that we can achieve more satisfactory results in our lives.

    To sum up, nlp is the study of how our brain works. By knowing how our brain works, we can cooperate and improve it, thus making life more successful and happier.

    So, we can sum it up in one word, nlp is "physical and mental grammar programming".

    As long as you learn nlp, you won't be so repulsive about learning.  "

    ——"After a big detour, let me study! In fact, when I was young, I studied very well at the beginning, and I also loved learning. Later, when I entered junior high school, I couldn't understand some classes, and then I slowly  I hate studying."

    Qing Yunfei had no choice but to tell the truth.

    ——"This is because your psychological quality is not good, and you have such a strong self-esteem at a young age, that's why

    In fact, I asked you to study with me, and there is no other meaning.  It’s just that one person’s learning efficiency is not as good as two people working together. Otherwise, why come to school and gather students together to study?  "

    Chu Lihua knew that Qing Yunfei had too much self-esteem.  I don't know if this is a common problem of men.

    —— "Okay, then I will reluctantly accompany you."

    "Thank you husband!" Chu Lihua quickly kissed Qing Yunfei, and then quickly let go to strike while the iron is hot.  "There are five areas we want to improve now, which are:

    Belief systems, self-worth, systems and levels of understanding, communication, and emotions.

    A belief system is very important because it underpins our behavioral patterns.

    What is belief? Belief is a subjective judgment, a law that we think maintains the operation of the world, a reason to explain and support actions, and a subjective logic law for various relationships in the world.

    It may be a bit abstract to say so, let me give you an example.

    When you think "how things should be" or "this is the way things are", you are building your belief system.

    For many people, belief sometimes equals truth, and they think that things are the way they are and must be.

    Many people's beliefs are absolute and cannot be questioned. In fact, this is also the source of confusion and trouble for many people.

    I don't know if these are useful to you; but I always have that hurdle in my heart, so I pay special attention to learning in this area.

    If you don't, then you just listen to what I said, if you can understand what I said, it proves that I understand thoroughly.

    You know, a belief is what you think the world should be like, not sayingYou know, the world is indeed what you think it is.

    Just like, subconsciously, sometimes I always feel that God is unfair. My eyes are like this, but my mother is still like that.

    But now, I don't think so anymore.

    How great the universe is, everything happens for a reason.

    Being able to distinguish subjective beliefs from objective reality, that is, "should be" and "as it is", and recognize that they are two different things, is the certification of a certain level of wisdom.

    No belief is absolutely valid in all situations, and most beliefs can help us grow and deal with the situations that arise in our lives.

    However, there are also a small number of beliefs that were not properly digested or absorbed when we accepted them, or lacked a comprehensive understanding.

    So this kind of belief will become a stumbling block in our life, so we call it "obstructive belief".  Most of the things that bother you are blocking beliefs.

    Some people treat some beliefs like gods in religion, and are willing to suffer for a long time to hold on to these beliefs.

    For example, someone is in an unhappy family, but she refuses to divorce, because in her belief, divorce is equal to a failed life.

    I think that the reason why my mother opposed our divorce so much before is also because of this understanding.

    This is the trouble that obstructive beliefs bring to people. If you really have such a great ability to endure pain, why not use this power to do more and better things?

    This is like, I am in Beijing and want to come to Kunming, but now I firmly believe that I should go north. Even if I insist on walking all the way, it is impossible to reach Kunming; then, my persistence is obviously not worth it.

    "Blocking beliefs" can bring bad experiences to people. Only now do I understand that only by constantly examining my own beliefs and figuring out which of them are blocking beliefs can I have a better life.

    Yes, sometimes, people need to change their beliefs.

    What I have to do now is that everything in the past is in the past.  I forgive everything.

    However, I will definitely have times when my will is weak and not firm. At this time, I need you around me to remind me from time to time.

    However, many times, your intentions are good, but the way you speak will make me more annoying and counterproductive.

    Therefore, I beg you to study with me and wake me up as a mentor when I am weak.

    Faith should be a tool that a person possesses, and its function is the same as other life tools, which will allow me to have a successful and happy life.  "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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