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Chapter 745 Xiao Qi's Laughter

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    Chu Lihua paused to see Qing Yunfei's reaction.

    ——"Then these so-called useful books, are they really useful? Should I fully believe it? If I believe it, does it contradict what you just said."

    ——"Actually, this is not contradictory. If you can, if you really understand the theories of other book authors, you will gradually evolve your own thoughts."

    ——"Then I still have my own thoughts if I don't study!"

    ——"Unwashed thoughts are like gold mixed with sand, with too many impurities."

    ——"Well, your mouth is really Maybe it has something to do with you reading more than me."

    Qing Yunfei surrendered.

    ——"Following what I just said, each of us is unique. However, we tend to regard ourselves as unique,

    However, we tend to judge others by ourselves, thinking that others are the same as ourselves, but forget that everyone else is unique;

    This is also the fundamental reason why we especially like to use our own coordinate system to evaluate others.

    It is very easy to do so, but it will lose the cognition of existence, the value of existence and the love of existence.

    Understanding other people is the basis of many kinds of creativity.

    If a novelist does not understand others, the works he writes are ridiculous.

    If a manager does not understand others, he cannot be innovative in management.

    The ability to understand other people and the world means that one can see other beings as they are.  "

    Looking at the thoughtful Qing Yunfei, Chu Lihua felt very relieved.

    There are not so many criteria for judging in life. What is a good life and what is a good partner; it is nothing more than, if you are hungry, I will cook for you;  I'm sick, I'll get you medicine;

    Even if you are upset, you can scold him a few words.  Down to earth, stronger than anything.

    Therefore, as long as you tolerate Qing Yunfei's mouth, then subtly influence him by setting an example.  Life is sure to get better.

    Xiao Qi's crying interrupted the two of them, and Chu Lihua hurried over to pick her up.

    It turned out that it was urine.

    Chu Lihua was just about to turn around and go get diapers.  Qing Yunfei has already handed it over.

    Like himself, he slowly began to accept Xiao Qi.

    ——"Help me get some warm water, and I'll help Xiaoqi wash up."

    Pass the replaced one to Qing Yunfei, Chu Lihua said casually.

    After a while, warm water came.

    Qing Yunfei stayed behind to help Chu Lihua.

    Soon, it will be a hundred days since Xiaoqi Chu Hanxi picked her up.  From her point of view, the day she came to this home was more meaningful than her birth.

    Although she can't go out to take pictures of her every day, Chu Lihua decided to take pictures of her herself.

    After all, life is only once.

    Although, Chu Lihua used to hate the kind of parents who put their wishes on their children; but she still couldn't help but record these photos of Xiao Qi's growth that she once wished so much.

    Chu Lihua knows that only by raising a child can one know the kindness of parents; in her case, raising a child should be the final salvation.

    The relationship between myself and my parents is still so unsalty, and it has a lot to do with the upbringing when I was a child.

    Now, Chu Lihua decided to learn from her own experience and lessons.  Use the most scientific method to raise Xiao Qi.

    "I love you so much, so I treat you in the best way I think, but I didn't expect to hurt you."

    Such logic can often be heard, as if love is an extremely dangerous thing that often leads to harm, and the more you love, the easier it is to cause harm.

    However, the real truths in this world are very simple, and one of the simplest truths is that love can only lead to good results, not harm, and it must not be love that causes harm.

    Doting is excessive love, which is our usual understanding of doting.

    This understanding can be dizzying, and some parents feel overwhelmed.

    According to psychology, when a child is young, the less care is taken, the greater the harm, but too much love is doting, and doting will also cause many evil consequences, so what should we do?

    Chu Lihua used to think that doting was excessive love, and that's how her mother treated her younger sister, Chu Lifang.  She used to be very envious of her sister.

    However, after in-depth understanding of some doting cases, Chu Lihua has doubts about this statement.

    People who grow up in doting tend to haveA chain reaction:

    First: Frustration quotient is low. Once encountering setbacks, serious avoidance behaviors are prone to occur, such as hiding at home and not going out; isn't this the case for Chu Lifang now?

    ? For some reason, I lost or lost my job in Kunming.

    Anyway, my mother said she would help Chu Lifang find a job in the kindergarten over there in Huashan.

    Second, after hiding at home, they have a very strong temper, and it is easy to lose their temper at their parents, and if they are serious, they will punch their parents.

    Chu Lifang has seen many times that her mother's nose is not a nose, and her face is not a face, and she is used to it.

    When thinking of this, Chu Lihua felt a little happy——Mother!  The child you dote on the most is not the one who is most filial to you.  I don't know if you will regret the decision you made now?

    The most famous example of doting is the Yang Lijuan incident, but Yang Lijuan's behavior is not the craziest.

    The craziest stories can be seen repeatedly in social news on Sina.com, and there is often a pattern:

    A child who grows up spoiled becomes an unfilial son, and often asks his parents for money. If he refuses to agree, he will fight with him. In the end, he either beats his parents to death, or he is beaten to death by his parents or relatives.

    Chu Lihua couldn't help but shuddered all over, hoping that such things would never happen again.

    ——"Chu Lihua, what are you doing? Didn't you want to take pictures? Why are you in a daze? Don't tell me, why do I now feel more and more that this child looks a bit like you!"

    ——"I was with you when Xiao Qi was born, you won't forget, right? Besides, there should be marks left on the stomach after giving birth."

    As Chu Lihua said, she immediately pulled up the hem of her pajamas, exposing her belly.

    ——"Look at you, you get excited when I say it. It feels like you've read all those books for nothing."

    ——"As soon as you said this, I thought of Qin Jiu, so my reason disappeared."

    There was grievance in Chu Lihua's voice.

    ——"Actually, what I want to say is that Xiaoqi and you are really destined, otherwise how could it be possible that two mothers and daughters who are not related by blood would look somewhat similar."

    Qing Yunfei pulled down the hem of Chu Lihua's pajamas to prevent her from freezing.

    ——"I'm sorry, I'm still too sensitive to some aspects. I will change it in the future."

    Chu Lihua lowered her head in shame.

    ——"Haha, I hope you don't have the courage to admit your mistakes and never change."

    Qing Yunfei laughed and patted Chu Lihua's head.

    Even Xiao Qi, who was lying on the side, giggled-

    "Do you think I'm you?"

    Chu Lihua, who was laughed at by her husband and children, punched Qing Yunfei.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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