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Chapter 744 Attitude is the most important thing

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    Later, there was news on Weibo that it was not enough to wear a mask, but also goggles.  Because many medical staff are not wearing goggles.

    God!  They only wore masks when they went out to the supermarket before, what should they do if they were  Especially with Xiao Qi.

    Children and the elderly are the most vulnerable groups.  These words made Chu Lihua break out in a cold sweat.

    Xiaoqi, Xiaoqi, you have to be good!

    For her parents, Chu Lihua can only pray that various TV stations can popularize the importance of wearing masks and washing hands frequently.

    Because, because of this matter, Chu Lihua has been scolded several times, but it is of no use.

    ?On the Internet, college students who have returned to their hometowns have made appointments with friends from all walks of life years ago, and are about to start a rare gathering, eat, drink and celebrate the new year.

    Unexpectedly, after this happened, I had to stay at home, the long-planned party was cancelled, and I was stuck at home every day, and the school was not allowed to return to school early, so I could only endure the nagging of my parents:

    "Wake up and eat!"

    "Why are you still looking at your phone?"

    "Why are you so decadent? You don't look like a college student!"

    I feel that this incident didn't make me crazy, my family made me crazy.

    ? Professionals who have been accustomed to being busy all the time had to stay at home after this incident.

    At the beginning, I couldn't stay idle, like a spinning top that had been spinning at high speed suddenly stopped, and I was a little at a loss.

    Some people become very lazy, depressed, feel that they can't do anything, like a useless person.

    In some moments, they even began to doubt life inexplicably, and they thought it was a bit ridiculous when they thought about it.

    Uncles and aunts who can't go out can't get together with relatives, so they can only play mobile phones at home.  Faced with the complicated and contradictory gossip on the Internet, some people can't tell the truth from the fake, and feel that the end is coming. They become panicked and cynical.

    Some even listened to various rumors and began to hoard food, causing problems such as insomnia, irritability, and bad temper.

    Putting down the phone, Chu Lihua calmed down instead.

    In this period, the best thing is to stay at home obediently and cooperate with the country.

    Others are not issues that I can worry about.

    Qing Yunfei also sent a video to his mother to tell him about the mask.

    However, they were very cooperative over there, because they watched the news on their mobile phones and knew the seriousness of the matter.

    ——"Now, the only thing we can do is to stay at home. However, for us, this is not necessarily a bad thing. We can use this time to enrich ourselves."

    Chu Lihua and Qing Yunfei who hung up the video said.

    ——"Learn your Maslow theory again?"

    ——"Unexpectedly! Young man, I still remembered a name. Not bad, not bad. A child can be taught."

    Chu Lihua first ignored the disdain in Qing Yunfei's tone.

    ——"To be honest, I have almost forgotten it, and now I want to know who Maslow is?"

    ——"Maslow is my idol, he had a bad childhood, but he unexpectedly grew up to be an outstanding great man.

    He once said of himself:

    I was a deeply unhappy child, my family was a miserable one, and my mother was a horrible person.  I had no friends, I grew up with libraries and books.

    However, it is strange that, having lived such a childhood, I was not mentally ill.

    In childhood and adolescence, Maslow had always had low self-esteem because of his thin body and big nose. He said: "I never had any sense of superiority."

    It has something to do with his father, Samuel, who once asked everyone at a large family gathering, "Isn't Abel the ugliest kid you've ever seen?" Abel was Maslow, and his full name was Abraham  Maslow.

    For Maslow, Samuel was a "non-existent father". He was unwilling to go home and had a cold relationship with the children, but in the end Maslow reconciled with his father.

    When his father was old, he lost his job, spent all his savings, divorced his wife, and then lived in Maslow's home.

    They got on well, and Maslow said he was "a good old fellow, and we were friends until he died".

    But for his mother, Maslow has always had an unshakable hatred. After his mother died, he even refused to attend her funeral.

    He described his mother as a cold?An ignorant and malicious person, he feels that the mother seems to be keen to "drive the children crazy", and the reason why the father is indifferent to the children is to avoid her.

    Although my father has a good income, my mother will lock the refrigerator with a lock, and she will only open the refrigerator when she is in the mood to make something for herself.

    Mothers will not approve of their children, always say to the children "you don't know what is right", and often threaten the children "God will punish you".

    She destroyed Maslow's beloved records, and brought two kittens brought home by Maslow to death in front of the children

    Such a family background did not prevent Maslow from becoming one of the most influential psychologists, and he obviously has an independent personality.

    And I obviously didn't have such a miserable childhood as his, so I think I used to be too hypocritical.

    ?As the saying goes, when heaven is about to place a great mission on people, they must first suffer from their will, exhaust their muscles and bones, starve their skin and skin, empty their bodies, chaotic their actions, and gain what they cannot do.

    This passage can be memorized in junior high school, and you know what it means.  But the real understanding and understanding is now.  "

    ——"But I didn't have a bad childhood. On the contrary, my childhood was as comfortable as going up the mountain to catch snakes and going down the river to catch fish."

    ——"If that's the case, I'm still very grateful to you for listening to what I just said. If, before, you would have interrupted me long ago. Mr. Qing, thank you for your change.

    However, Maslow's spiritual essence is not only these.

    He taught people how to have an independent personality.  "

    Chu Lihua suppressed the helplessness in her heart, and spoke nicely to Qing Yunfei.

    ——"Independent personality? What does this have to do with me, I have always been very independent!"

    ——"Autonomy is not simply being self-centered, but having your internal evaluation system.

    When deciding your own affairs, try to make up your own mind.  You should seek advice from others, but the final decision is yours.

    Give up your dependence on those around you, give up your superstition on authority, culture and even fashion.

    In this regard, I did very badly.  "

    Seeing that Qing Yunfei was silent, Chu Lihua continued.

    ——"Maslow believes that "autonomous people are completely open to their own experience". He believes that experiential things such as intuition and feeling are the most reliable part of our understanding of ourselves, others and the world.

    If they are unreliable, it is only because you distorted them when you knew them.  Try to accept experiences as they are, and the more you do, you will find that they are incomparably accurate and never deceive you.  "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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