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If something really happens, who will help you? A lot of friends, who can you rely on? At this time, you will sigh: "When you use your friends, you will hate less"!
Therefore, a real network doesn't care how many people you know, but how many people know you; a real friend doesn't care about getting along with nothing at ordinary times, but cares about helping each other at critical junctures.
Good friends, bosom friends, and affectionate friends are your rare but precious "wealth" of friendship. Because they have the character of integrity and kindness and compassion, old-fashioned, warm-hearted, understanding, and they do things for others without expecting anything in return, but only for peace of mind.
Therefore, a great writer who has a deep understanding of human nature also said: It is enough to have a confidant in life!
On the contrary, the easy betrayal of friendship is the truth of life. The friendship of many friends is mixed with more interests, and as a result, the friendship is bruised all over.
The most confusing and sad thing is: Why do those friends who usually have a "iron" relationship refuse to extend a hand of friendship when encountering misfortune?
Why borrowing money and repaying money will change integrity and friendship, and turn friends into strangers or even enemies?
Thinking about Yu Xiaqiu in the past, she broke up this friendship with herself inexplicably. Think about Zhang Guo, because he calculated 10,000 yuan for himself, so he no longer contacted him.
It turned out that she really failed as a human being.
Over the years, I have never had a true friend.
As for Yang Jinmei, Chu Lihua suddenly remembered her fellow villager.
Chu Lihua suddenly realized that she was really too ignorant of the world before.
Days are so muddled, but I still think I'm doing okay.
Finance, not just one.
At the annual meeting that year, another big sister at the same table. It should be possible to find out a thing or two from her.
As for the other two financial girls, one is extremely lofty and the other has eyes above the top. It may not be easy to make friends now.
——"Sister Jiao, are you there? I want to ask you something."
That's right, the big financial lady, everyone calls her Sister Jiao.
It's been a long time since I sent it, but there is no reply.
Shouldn't it? The eldest sister still looks very kind.
It took more than an hour for the reply from over there to come.
——"I was busy just now, so I didn't see it."
——"Is it because of helping children with homework?"
Chu Lihua remembered that Sister Jiao was already married, and she heard that she had two children, and the older one seemed to be in elementary school.
——"Yeah! It's really a headache. When I was a child, I didn't have to do my homework so hard. Today's children, really, when I don't do my homework, my mother is kind and filial, and when I do my homework, I will fly like a dog."
——"The main reason is that children nowadays are very smart and have their own ideas, unlike when we were young, we only knew how to listen to our parents. We are afraid that if we don't obey, we will be beaten or not liked by our parents.
There are children like today. They are very smart and know their parents' love for them. Is it just tossing in this way?
By chance, when I went to Peking University to attend lectures on weekends, I happened to take some notes on psychology. I'll sort it out and send it to Sister Jiao now, take a look, it may be useful for the way parents and children get along. "
After Chu Lihua sent it over, she immediately began to search for the previous notes.
If she hadn't remembered it at the time, but because she wasn't married and had children, she didn't pay much attention to it, and now she just made a voice chat, so that she could show her sincerity.
What I want to know is considered a company secret for finance.
If you don't get a little bit of admiration from Sister Jiao, you probably won't get an answer to the question you want to ask, but will cause yourself some trouble.
Once Liu Yujiao and the others found out about their inquiring about the commissionthe matter would probably be even more difficult.
——"Really? I didn't expect you, Lihua, to be so motivated! Then tell me quickly, I'm almost pissed off by this little devil, but I still can't beat or scold you."
Sure enough, the reputation of Peking University is different. After receiving the reply, Chu Lihua quickly copied and arranged the notes she found, and then pasted them into the dialog box and sent them.
——"All conflicts between parents and children are defined by Drakes as a term called "struggle for power".
The reason why there is a struggle for power is that there must be inequality. From the perspective of parents, let's see how to solve the problem of power struggle in family education.
There are different methods in different situations. At that time, the professor talked about four methods.
& nbsp; When parents discipline their children and have power struggles with their children, most of the time it is because the children got into trouble and became disobedient. But the parents don't know that the child may be because he is still young and lacks ability, and he doesn't intend to make trouble.
At this time, if you want to avoid power struggles, you must use the first method we introduced. Parents must learn to separate people from things and learn to encourage their children.
Everyone knows that children need encouragement. However, the time when children need encouragement the most is not when they get grades, but when they fail after trying hard and courageously.
If the best time to encourage children is missed, the effect of encouragement will be greatly reduced, or even counterproductive.
For example, three-year-old children can learn to dress and button their own clothes, but their movements are very slow, but if the mother is in a hurry to go out, she will help the child put on the clothes.
It is very rare for such a young child to have a chance to do something by himself.
? Seeing his mother buttoning up his clothes three times, five times and two times, the child will feel that he is useless. If such frustration accumulates, he will give up his efforts to button up his clothes.
In the future, if the mother lets the child dress himself, the child will resist, and the mother and child will fall into a state of conflict, which is the so-called power struggle.
In the same scene, if you want to avoid power struggles, mothers should use encouragement instead of "urging" or "doing it for you" to solve the problem.
?Real encouragement contains two meanings: one is to avoid humiliating or overprotecting children, so as not to discourage children; the other is to clearly express support for children's courage and self-awareness beliefs.
Encouragement with technical content should be: when a child makes a mistake or fails to achieve the expected goal, we try not to say words that make the child "feel like a failure".
Mom's words should separate "things" from "people"-for example, "It's normal for you to not button up properly, and Mom was like you when you were a child", "I'm glad you have been working hard to button up".
In this way, the child will feel that he is recognized. Although he has not mastered the button-tying skills, his mother did not despise me. We need to know that every failure is just that the child's experience and skills are not enough, and has nothing to do with the child's personal value and ability. "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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