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Chapter 547 Reflect on Yourself

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    Lin Xueying's expression began to warm up when she said this.

    Chu Lihua was also moved by Lin Xueying's tone. Obviously, they are the people the other party wants to find now.

    In fact, love should be just one of the attachment relationships, it does not have gender restrictions.

    At this moment, Wu Ming and Qing Yunfei appeared alternately in Chu Lihua's mind.  However, Wu Ming seemed to have blurred, but Qing Yunfei was still alive.

    "True and full love will definitely allow people to experience their own inner changes. This change is accompanied by pain and is voluntary."

    I have forgotten that I read this passage from that book, but at this moment, Chu Lihua seems to have just begun to know what true love is.

    "Among the new faces we have loved, there is always the shadow of the old love When we choose a lover, we are actually choosing the closest person according to the ideal model."

    As more and more people come into contact with, when choosing a lover, I also change from passive acceptance to actively looking for the right person around me.

    This has nothing to do with this person's attitude towards himself, but because he just fits his own soul.

    Love is not a narcissism in disguise.  Appreciating differences is the beginning of growing together and staying together happily.

    ? Like Lin Xueying and Jack, following their deepest thoughts, being together in a simpler way, not afraid of the eyes of the world, will instead inspire the most authentic self.

    Everyone will encounter the torrent of growth, should we avoid it or face it?  There is no standard answer.

    What we can do is to know ourselves in this process, understand ourselves, and find our inner answers.  Start from the heart and open up a path of self-realization.

    Chu Lihua stood up and walked towards the rooftop, the shadows of the two tightly hugging behind her dragged on the ground.

    The faint smell of smoke was gone in the air, Chu Lihua immediately took a deep breath.

    After exhaling the turbid breath, Chu Lihua looked down. Although it was the world that was blurred before, it gave Chu Lihua a feeling of enlightenment.

    What is love?  Having experienced so much and learned so much, Chu Lihua began to organize her thoughts.

    The initial sprouting of love is actually falling in love with the person you imagined, and turning the fantasy into various tulle to cover that person's head, so that what you saw at the beginning was the image you thought it was.

    And the development of love is the process of uncovering the tulle layer by layer. Gradually, you will find that the person seems to deviate from the original imagination, and you keep wondering if something has changed about that person?

    There are two results. One is that it is unacceptable that this sudden change breaks the original good imagination and leads to a separate ending.

    The other is to accept this change. After seeing the original face of that person, you can still appreciate and accept yourself who likes this person now and stick to this relationship.

    Although getting along with Qing Yunfei now is more and more like an intimate relationship, but Chu Lihua dare not take a step forward.

    Afraid that one more step forward, one step closer to losing again.

    Past experiences, traces of heartache.

    However, memories are not for going back to the past, but for a better future. The past is the past after all, time will not turn back, and there is no regret medicine to buy!

    In the process of recalling what I have experienced, I will see many reasons why I am who I am now, and this is also a process of checking for omissions and filling in vacancies.  This is probably the so-called growth.

    Recalling childhood trauma is not to arouse the wounded consciousness, but to find those lost fragments, happy fragments, neglected happy fragments, and heal the pain of many years in this way. This is the so-called untie the bell.  people.

    So, from now on, reflect on the past, transform your heart, and welcome new happiness!

    What is marriage, you are looking for a partner, not a dream.  Even though you were with such a person at the beginning, after a long time, you insisted that he become another person in your imagination.

    Just like Wu Ming, he knew who he was from the beginning, but he became more and more unscrupulous and demanding in the process of getting along slowly.

    Although, his parents were the ultimate reason for the separation.  However, the accumulative complaints must be the reason why he finally made up his mind to leave his parents.  Otherwise, in modern society, how could it still be the era when parents can trap their children?

    Or, in fact, they did not see the real existence of this person at all, but put the "good things" in their hearts with great happiness or pain." and "bad things" imposed on each other.

    I am just falling in love with a fantasy person.  The problem is that no one wants to be reformed, so the partner is bound to fight with himself, which causes all kinds of conflicts in marriage and love.

    To resolve these conflicts, one must see clearly one's unrealistic expectations, see the real existence of the other party, and learn to get along with the real existence of the other party.

    Therefore, the love born of getting along with the real existence of one's own true existence and the other's true existence is the most down-to-earth and true love.

    More likely, in the process, one's self will also grow.  In a sense, marriage is a process of rebirth.  Because, it is a newly born small family.

    Since, the family environment when I was a child affected my later personality.  Then it might be possible to let the newly formed healthy family heal everything.

    Then, the next step is to fully understand Qing Yunfei's hidden character, strengths and weaknesses.  At the same time, she also exposed her shortcomings in front of him and showed him her true self.  Then, watch how this ambiguous relationship develops.

    If he is really MrRight, then, being with him, he will slowly heal himself, and at the same time give him a better self——

    "What are you doing?"

    Chu Lihua knelt down and sent Qing Yunfei a WeChat message.

    ——"Are you waiting for the interview?"

    ——"Don't you want to do a Beijing outing by yourself? I'm here for an interview with a small company that does this. The small company is not so streamlined, and the division of labor is not clear. You can learn more. We can't fight unprepared.  "

    Before Chu Lihua asked the reason, Qing Yunfei sent it by himself——

    "Wish you all the best!"

    ——"I definitely will. With my work experience, such a small company must be my dream."

    Well, this man is not sure whether he is confident or arrogant.

    ——"It's the first time I've seen such a smelly and shameless person like you, no wonder you are so unforgettable."

    Chu Lihua's reply was no longer a compliment as she thought.

    —— "Wait for my good news!"

    ——"I hope the cowhide is not blown!"

    After returning, Chu Lihua stood up and went back alone.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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