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Chapter 481 Is it important to be well-matched?

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    What Watermelon said this time shocked everyone.  Before, all she told were other people's stories!

    This time, everyone pricked up their ears quite carefully.

    ¡ª¡ª"His friend once said privately that there is too much difference in family income between the two of you, and there are many gaps in all aspects.

    But he said: "In Roman mythology, Neptune is Poseidon, you can make dessert with marshmallows, and there is nothing else that can conquer a cat except catnip. These are all she let me know."

    The reason is very nonsensical, but what he wants to say is that we complement each other and always see the best in each other.  Although sometimes there are some discrepancies in consumption, I really can't afford the gifts he bought, but this does not affect our enjoyment of sweet love.

    Both of us have a copy of "The Story of the Sahara" on our bookshelves. What I yearn for the most about the love between Sanmao and Jose is not the love between life and death, but this moment, it is you, it is you, it is you.

    There is a very classic passage in it,-

    Jose said: Do you have to marry a rich man?

    Sanmao said: If I don't love him, I won't marry him even if he is a millionaire. If I love him, I will marry him even if he is a multimillionaire.

    Jose said: After all, you still have to marry a rich man.

    Sanmao said: There are exceptions.

    Jose said: What about me?

    Sanmao said: The only thing you need is enough money to eat.

    Jose thought for a while and said: Do you eat a lot?

    Sanmao replied cautiously: Not much, not much, and you can eat less in the future.

    Therefore, don't equate "the right family" with the other party's thoughts and views.  This may be one of the influencing factors, but it cannot be directly equated.

    ?Like each other, have the same frequency of thinking, and the same three views are equal to a good match, and liking is the prerequisite for a good match.

    In fact, I have always felt that the love of adults, bread and roses are just needed.

    But when broken down, bread and roses have an order of appearance.

    Bread is the further foundation of this relationship, and roses are the beginning of love.

    Many people think that "the right family" is a necessary condition, because they feel that if the gap is too large, all kinds of contradictions and differences will always arise in the future, and sooner or later they will lose to daily necessities.

    This is also to not waste each other's youth. If we can't get together in the end, it's better to never start.

    But I was thinking, if a relationship can't go to the end, shouldn't it start?

    We underestimate the power of love itself.

    The separation between me and my ex has never made me regret choosing to be together.

    He later wanted to go abroad for further studies, and his family also had immigration considerations.  I will not return to China for development within a few years. I mentioned the separation. In fact, this is the ending we all know.  After all, the distance after that is not just as simple as a flight to Australia.

    We have been separated for a long time, and now I still have regrets and sadness when I think about it.

    I have asked myself many times, if I knew we would be separated, would I still be with him?

    My answer: I will still promise him.

    It's not just him, every "predecessor" of mine, even if the ending is known, even if some breakups are not decent, those who have not come to fruition in the past should not be denied.

    I believe everyone has had:

    There is always that one person, even if he does not go to the end with you,

    You still don't regret holding his hand.

    In my opinion, "the right family" is at best a sufficient but not necessary condition for love.

    Just like Weibo reader Er Dong said: "The necessary conditions are too harsh in my opinion."

    ? I think consider the other party's material conditions, family conditions and other practical issues before dating.  correct.

    Everyone has the right to choose. I want pure love, and you want the right partner, all of which are personal choices.

    There is no distinction between high and low, nothing more than left and right.  The point is to figure out what it is you want most.

    For me, who believes in love, I like it but get cold feet, it's really embarrassing!

    You might think that this kind of "desperate" love is full of childish and unrealistic dangers.

    But falling in love has never been a business that is sure to make money and never loses. The difference is whether you want to avoid gains and losses or put all your eggs in one basket.

    The former may not necessarily win, and the latter has at least devoted himself to it.

    Perhaps naive, but the words "beginning with heartbeat" are powerful enough.

    These days, the chances of true love falling are much lower than working to get rich.???

    If you meet, promise me: grab it!  "

    No one thought that the carefree watermelon had such an experience, and at the same time, could have such a pure state of mind.

    ¡ª¡ª"You are talking about love. If you can get married like you are in love, you don't need to consider the conditions. There will be no breakup and divorce in that day, right?

    Of course, I also hope that everyone can continue to believe in love before considering marriage.

    Love does not need to be matched, marriage is absolutely necessary.  If you start willfully, then you have to bear the result.  "

    Cherry's little face, which was still beaming just now, was a little melancholy now.

    ¡ª¡ª"To be honest, if it was me a few years ago, I would definitely sneer when I saw these four words.

    Isn't this the most important condition for the traditional "Chinese-style blind date"?

    This kind of view is too outdated

    Not to mention the freedom of love, in this era where online dating can be sweet and sweet, it is too narrow to insist on this feudal thinking.

    However, now I have experienced several not-so-violent, but really disturbing love affairs

    Alas, the ancients never deceived me.

    Only those who have experienced emotional ups and downs will understand that the so-called "good match" is not simply a match of material conditions, but more about software that is invisible and cannot be measured by established standards.

    For example, my sisters have become particularly rational in terms of emotions since they failed in the five-year long-distance love race.

    She now adheres to one sentence:

    "The beginning of rationality, the maintenance of sensibility."

    There was a boy who pursued her before, and she had a good impression of her, but after asking about his family background, she flatly rejected the boy's pursuit.

    The reason is very simple, it does not meet the condition of "good match".

    She herself is considered a wealthy family, her parents are in business, and she owns three properties in our second-tier cities, and there is another house in her hometown waiting to be demolished.

    The boy who was chasing her was from a small town family and couldn't afford the down payment on the house. The boy's average salary was only 3,000 to 4,000 yuan. The living backgrounds of the two were too unequal.

    However, this kind of behavior of asking about the other party's family background before confirming the relationship is somewhat too sensitive.

    The boy felt that the relationship between the two of them had been sentenced to death in advance because of family reasons?

    This is too realistic and too snobbish.

    However, after asking my friend carefully, I understood her concern.

    Family background more determines a person's cognition.

    The "good family" that everyone emphasizes is actually the family environment and growth experience.  "

    Chu Lihua, who hadn't spoken for a long time, suddenly expressed her opinion.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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