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Chapter 480 Who is right?

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    Everyone was silent for a while, not knowing how to speak-

    "I thought, maybe, I know why your parents objected.

    How about listening to me tell a story first?  "

    Dulian is indeed wise and responsible, and she was the first to break everyone's silence.

    Of course, when she said this, the others all stared at her blankly, waiting for her next words.

    Dulian thought about the words for a while, and then spoke.

    ——"Speaking of which, I had a class reunion, and it was a bit embarrassing because of the topic of living together as a couple.

    Every year, the party class flower is the focus. This year, she has a boyfriend. We gossip and jokingly ask her where she and her boyfriend are, when they are going to get married, and what is going on at home. Is he handsome?  handsome.

    During the chat, I found out that Banhua and her boyfriend are living together, and the rent is aa.

    A classmate blurted out: "What? This is too unfamiliar, isn't he still having sex with you??"

    Ban Hua's face was a little uneasy:

    "It's not because of money that I'm with him. Besides, are there any problems with rent aa and love aa these days?"

    The classmate opened his mouth, but did not speak. The scene was very embarrassing

    Afterwards, this classmate secretly told me:

    "I really don't agree with cohabitation aa. In this case, do you need aa for utility bills? Do you need aa for washing and cooking? Do you need aa for having children?

    ?Life is very realistic. It is useless for a person to say that he loves you every day. Money is the most direct way to express his feelings, but he is not even willing to pay the big money (rent). How can he say he loves you?  "

    ——"I can understand your classmate's thoughts. Love has long since lost its sacred aura, and it has been slammed to the ground by reality——

    A well-prepared birthday party, a romantic and sweet travel vacation, a warmly furnished room for twoSweet love is always supported by money.

    We have long passed the idealized age, and we all understand that only with sufficient material support can love be safe.

    However, I don't quite agree with her point of view.

    I think the so-called aa is just a consensus reached by two people based on their respective economic conditions at the time.

    Does talking about money really hurt feelings?  Living together with aa means that the other party is stingy and doesn't love you?

    Not necessarily.  "

    Although Cherry disagreed with Durian's statement, she didn't refute immediately, but agreed first and then refuted.

    ——"My girlfriend's last relationship was ruined like this.

    The two lived together for a period of time. The boyfriend's financial situation is good, with a monthly income of 12k, and the woman has just graduated, with a monthly salary of only 4k.

    The rent for two people is 2k per month, so the boyfriend naturally covers the daily expenses such as rent, water and electricity.

    Although the money is not a big burden for the boyfriend, the girlfriend still feels a little guilty.

    So the daily housework is all covered by girlfriends, and I usually take care of my boyfriend's feelings very carefully, but this relationship seems very awkward to me

    I always feel that there is something between the two people, maybe it is the unequal psychological status?

    Perhaps the filter of money is too thick, and everything changes after a long time.

    The relationship between the two collapsed because of a gathering of friends.

    ? On a certain weekend, a few good buddies of my boyfriend came to play at home, and my girlfriends were busy taking care of me. The brothers were a little embarrassed at first and wanted to help.

    The boyfriend waved his hand, "It's okay, it's okay, let's play our game."

    The girlfriends cooked a few special dishes, and also prepared melon and fruit snacks to serve the bureau.

    The boys were so turbulent that they played until the early hours of the morning before leaving.

    My girlfriend happened to be on her menstrual period that day, and her dysmenorrhea was also quite severe.  After it was over, the boyfriend was on the sofa playing with his mobile phone with his legs crossed, and he didn't pay attention to the messy table.

    The girlfriend was very uncomfortable, so she could only sigh, and got up to clean up.

    Without raising his head, the boyfriend said, "Shouldn't I just wash a few dishes?"

    So you see, financial independence is the confidence for people to maintain a balance in their relationships.  "

    Watermelon also agrees with Durian.

    ——"Of course couples need aa, not just money, but also aa in terms of emotion, responsibility, and attitude.

    You are willing to understand my emotional needs, and I am willing to share your financial contributions; the trivial things in life are no longer an exclusive obligation of one person.

    Two people respect each other?, Supporting each other gratefully is what a sweet relationship should look like.

    Today's girls have the financial ability to support their lives and have enough material to choose a lover. They don't care how much a boy spends for her.

    Because their focus is on emotional and spiritual communication—

    And these things cannot be bought or replaced by money.

    Finally, what I want to say is, don't think that "talking about money hurts feelings" is an extreme rhetoric.  In love, although money is not the premise, it is the basis for going on.

    It is not money that will hurt your relationship, but the lack of "comfort" in your relationship.

    Two people get along comfortably and comfortably, so they don't think that raising money is "unspeakable"~

    Love is for enjoyment, not for entanglement.

    A smart girl will not lose everything in a cherished relationship.

    What do you think?  "

    Durian made the final summary.

    ——"I think, I know how to convince my parents. I will tell them that the so-called "matched family" does not necessarily mean happiness, and what I want is pure love."

    Cherry smiled sweetly.

    ——"For the "good match", I think I may have more say.

    We all long for pure love, but subconsciously set "trigger conditions" for each relationship.

    ? By making "matching right" a necessary condition for love, you're reducing the likelihood of true love from the start.

    Every relationship of mine ends for a variety of reasons, and there is only one reason for the beginning.

    like.

    It took four months for me and my ex to establish a relationship, and we had a general understanding of each other's family situations before we started.  To be honest, the difference is not a star and a half.

    His parents are a company executive, a businessman, and a real middle-class family. My family is an ordinary family in a second- and third-tier city.

    He is from the prestigious school 985, and I am an ordinary girl who graduated from the second university.

    From a secular point of view, the two of us are typical "misfits".

    But I really like it, those seemingly realistic and distant "gap" are not so important anymore.

    At that time, I didn't think about how many difficulties the two of us had, how many difficulties we faced, and I didn't even have time to think about the future.

    In mind only:

    I really like him now.

    I never felt "inferior" when we were together.

    ? Add one saying that the right family can create an evenly matched love, but I believe: people who love each other are evenly matched.

    I don’t know how many times his salary is mine, but I know that he likes to eat sukiyaki the most and drink apple-flavored eye-catching drinks. He will remember that I like to watch unpopular movies and feel dizzy when I smell celery.  "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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