A relative of Long Xiaoyun followed them, and his studies have not always been very good. Since entering junior high school, due to his love of play, his academic performance has always failed to improve.
This day, Long Xiaoyun was playing games in the living room, and the phone rang, and it was the teacher who called to attend the parent-teacher meeting, so Long Xiaoyun simply cleaned up, and drove to the parent-teacher meeting!
As soon as he arrived at the school, the teacher said to Long Xiaoyun, "This child has ADHD and can't even sit on the bench for three minutes. Not only did he not study well, but it also affected other students. You'd better take her to the hospital for a look!"
After hearing this at that time, Long Xiaoyun felt very uncomfortable. There were forty-five students in their class, and only Long Xiaoyun's little niece performed the worst, and the teacher showed a disdainful expression.
At that time, Long Xiaoyun was so angry, I really wanted to take the teacher out and talk to him, or I wanted to fight him, so that I could release my sullenness in my heart!
Anyway, the little niece is a child after all, and the teacher was relieved when he spoke. He felt that being a teacher was really blinding him. Thinking of this, Long Xiaoyun clenched his fists and gritted his teeth!
But Long Xiaoyun still held back, instead of getting angry with the teacher, it is better to let your own children study hard, fight for yourself, and for me, Long Xiaoyun!
On the way home, the little niece carefully asked Long Xiaoyun what Teacher Long said. Long Xiaoyun really wanted to tell him the truth, and then slowly teach him a lesson!
However, Long Xiaoyun reflected on it. As a parent, he should discover its advantages in the details of life and guide him to the sunny zone!
So I told my child, "Today you were praised by the teacher. The teacher said that you could not sit on the bench for one minute, but now you can sit for three minutes. The other parents are very envious of me, because you are the only one who has improved in the class."
After the child heard this, his body naturally relaxed, and the corners of his mouth involuntarily raised. It can be seen how much he longs for the teacher's praise in his heart!
A few days later, I went to the school to inquire! My little niece's ADHD recovered without treatment! At this moment, Long Xiaoyun smiled, "Why is that?"
At another parent meeting, the head teacher said to Long Xiaoyun, "there are more than 50 students in the class. For this final exam, your child is paiming forty-eight. I suspect that he has mental problems. You'd better take him along." Go check check"
It was these words that made me burst into tears when I walked out of the school gate. The little niece followed silently along the way, with a look of trepidation, and when I returned home, Long Xiaoyun was sullen!
In fact, Long Xiaoyun is very angry, whether he is angry with the teacher or the child, in short, he is so depressed that he almost collapses! Even so, Long Xiaoyun still controlled herself!
After all, adults can't deal with things in a hurry. After thinking about it, I think there is always a good way to solve these things!
Long Xiaoyun did not say a word while cooking, the meal was ready, and the little niece sat in front of the window and watched obediently but refused to move her chopsticks. What the child said had an effect!
After pondering for a while, he said to them, "The teacher is full of confidence in you. He said that you are not a bad boy. As long as you work hard, you will definitely catch up to the top ten in the class!" At this time, Long Xiaoyun saw the dim eyes of the little niece The child became brighter!
At this time, I saw my little niece happily picking up chopsticks and snoring to eat. I have never seen his food so sweet and delicious. Maybe it is because of the teacher's praise!
From this point, Long Xiaoyun is really sure that children cannot only be considered from the perspective of criticism. In fact, praise can make a child progress and excel.
Since then, she has always worked very hard and studied hard, and her grades have been improved step by step. At a parent meeting later, Long Xiaoyun listened to the teacher read the list of poor students, but unexpectedly, until the end He didn't even hear his little niece's name!
Long Xiaoyun was a little uneasy, so he went to ask the teacher, and the teacher said to him, "Although your child has made some progress, it is still dangerous to take the key high school according to the current grades."
This time Long Xiaoyun will not be as angry as the previous few times, because he knows what his children are like, and others have no right to comment, so Long Xiaoyun will always stand on the side of the children and always believe in his children .
Knowing that the child has made significant progress, Long Xiaoyun was very happy, so he said to his little niece on the way home, "The head teacher is very satisfied with you. He said that as long as you work hard, you are very likely to be admitted to a key high school.
These words are encouragement to the child, and at the same time, Long Xiaoyun also said these words to himself, because he believes in his little niece.
In a blink of an eye, golden autumn is here! My niece graduated from junior high school,?Zhen was admitted to a key high school in the county with excellent grades, since the day he entered the high school gate.
The child set a goal for himself. In the future, he plans to enter Beijing University, or Tsinghua University. In fact, once a person has an ideal, he will have motivation. Although the child's grades sometimes fluctuate after high school Low!
But the little niece is very conscious and diligent in her studies. Several times it was past twelve o'clock in the night. Long Xiaoyun woke up after a nap and found that the child hadn't rested yet, so Long Xiaoyun knocked on the door to urge him to sleep. The answer I can get is that it is still early, let me study for a while!
That's it, the child's academic performance began to rise steadily. One time, my little niece did not perform well in the exam. After returning from school, she told Long Xiaoyun openly, "Something happened, something happened, I failed the math test this time."
Instead of blaming him, Long Xiaoyun encouraged him and gave him timely advice. Since then, the child has been a top student in the class, and also a "three-good professional" in the mouth of his classmates. Later, he also served as the class monitor and extracurricular representative.
Later, the child passed the hard work. Got the highest grade ever in this year's exam!
because of this! Long Xiaoyun is full of emotions. In fact, he always feels that the art of criticism is necessary for the good effect of children's education. Nowadays, children have a strong sense of duli, and have a strong self-esteem and villain mentality. If criticism is not good, it will backfire!
Therefore, children should be encouraged to discover their strengths and let them grow up healthily in a relaxed and pleasant environment. As a parent, Long Xiaoyun can really teach children well!
He does not criticize regardless of shortcomings when he finds shortcomings, but compares them on the original basis and affirms the progress of the child. When the child is encouraged, he will correct the shortcomings in time and strive for greater progress! (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com