After Yi Xiaohai returned to the dormitory, he was alone on the balcony in a daze.
He needs to think calmly about how he should choose.
"What troubles have you encountered?"
Ge Hua took a cigarette and handed it to him and asked.
¡°When I encounter something, I¡¯m a little hesitant about what to choose.¡±
Yi Xiaohai smoked, and Ge Hua helped him light it.
"If it's convenient, you can tell me. Although it may not be able to help, but the Three Stooges are better than Zhuge Liang, maybe I can help you develop some ideas"
Yi Xiaohai did not hesitate and told the boss about the choice he faced. However, Jiang Shigui and Gao Xiangyao had special status and their names were vague.
Ge Hua knew who those people Yi Xiaohai was talking about. He blew out a smoke ring, feeling a little melancholy.
"I think your brother Xu is right, being more diplomatic is not a bad thing"
"Actually, I also know this truth, but I always don't want to become that person."
"As long as you live, you will find that you have become what you once hated. You will no longer be enthusiastic about helping strangers, no longer take the initiative to pursue the girl you like, and no longer take the initiative to express your happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy. Maybe it is society. It changes us, and it also makes us grow"
"You have other girls you like, does Sister Yuqing know?"
Yi Xiaohai¡¯s sudden question made Ge Hua laugh dumbly:
"Why do serious questions change the taste of your mouth!"
"I want to tell you that when you are a student, it doesn't matter if you are simple and direct, but when you enter society, especially if your business is very big now, you must consider how to handle all aspects of relationships"
"Even if it is your enemy, you will have many ways to treat it, rather than judging it by absolute right or wrong"
Yi Xiaohai understands,
There is no right or wrong in the world. Different standards, different positions, and different perspectives can lead to different answers. The key to the problem lies in what standards to use to look at it.
But the sense of justice in his heart always affects Yi Xiaohai's judgment.
"You are a smart person, you understand everything, and you also know what to do is the most appropriate choice, but you just don't want to do that"
Ge Hua knows very well,
The fact that Yi Xiaohai's business can be so big and that he can properly manage a huge network of people proves that he knows how to deal with these things. It just depends on whether he is willing or not.
"If you want to continue to expand your career, you need to be more diplomatic. Being diplomatic does not make you bad, it just changes the way you handle things"
Yi Xiaohai was silent,
He took a puff of the cigarette, and the smell of nicotine stimulated his nerves, making him feel better.
"Boss, what do you think I should do about this?"
"Tell Jiang that the words have been brought. As for your brother Xu's choice, you cannot interfere. At the same time, tell him that you are not enemies. As for how you want to prove that you will not be enemies with him, you need to think about it yourself. ¡¡±
"Brother Xu and Uncle Gao and I are always on the same page. Even if I say I don't want to be an enemy, the other party may not believe it."
Yi Xiaohai was asking Ge Hua more like asking himself.
"You tell him that you will not participate in the fight, and let him believe that you will not. As long as he is a smart person, he will not deliberately drag you into the water, but will try to avoid conflicts with you. This is a good thing for you"
Although the family is in decline, Ge Hua knows a lot because he has been exposed to it since childhood.
He knew very well that Yi Xiaohai should not be too involved in these matters, which was why Xu Dong reminded him.
Yi Xiaohai understands these principles, but he always feels that doing this is a bit sorry for Gao Xiangyao.
"Boss, thank you"
Ge Hua patted his shoulder:
"Actually, you really don't need to worry too much. You just change the way you deal with things. Your original intention and position have not changed. The other party will understand, and the two parties are not overly tied. If something happens to one party, the other will also It won¡¯t involve you too deeply, and you can also give the other person a hand¡¡±
Yi Xiaohai looked at the darkness in the distance and sighed, because he knew that what Ge Hua said was reasonable and he should really consider this issue seriously.
It would be a bit silly not to do it when you know it will be beneficial but to insist on it.
"Do you know why our family declined?"
Ge Hua suddenly asked Yi Xiaohai.
"I heard from Uncle Ge that he seemed to have offended someone."
"I think I offended too many people"
Ge Hua smiled bitterly.
"When my dad was young, like you, he had a clear-cut stance, so he offended many people. Later, the Ge family's life changed, and he refused to adapt. The two families were in bad luck together, and all the people my dad had offended before jumped out. If he could have stayed out of the matter and helped secretly, both families might not have declined"
Ge Hua thought that every time his father thought about these things, he felt a little regretful, and he also felt a little unmotivated.
"So, as long as your original intention remains unchanged, sometimes being softer and more diplomatic will be good for you and the people you want to protect."
After Ge Hua finished speaking, he entered the dormitory, leaving Yi Xiaohai alone to think about it
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This night, Yi Xiaohai didn't sleep well, he thought a lot.
The competition between Jiang Shigui and Gao Xiangyao will soon become fierce. Since he and Gao Xiangyao are highly tied, they are likely to be affected.
Why Xu Dong suddenly said these words to him may be because it is inconvenient for him to have a very clear position in this matter, or he has his own plan.
If this is the case, it would be wisest for Yi Xiaohai to leave it as soon as possible.
He finally made up his mind.
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"Sixth, get up quickly, it's almost time for the school team to gather"
Yi Xiaohai was thinking about something last night and didn't fall asleep until around 4 a.m., when he was dragged up by Xue Peng.
This morning, I am going to Jinling University of Science and Technology to participate in the group draw, and the competition will start immediately. .
The Nanjiang Province preliminaries have entered the second stage and the group competition system has begun.
??The 6 winning teams in the third round and 2 teams from the 6 losing teams will be selected. A total of 8 teams will be divided into two groups to compete. The top two teams in the group will advance.
Yi Xiaohai and the others gathered in the school gymnasium, got on the minibus, and headed to the University of Science and Technology.
In the car, Wu Dongqing introduced them to the other seven teams.
"Yesterday afternoon, the two teams that advanced from the loser group, especially Jinling University of Information Technology, were very strong. The reason why they entered the loser group was because they lost to Suzhou University and only lost 4 points"
"In addition, Zhongwu University was second last year and participated in the regional competition. Its strength cannot be underestimated. Moreover, they have a newbie this year who is very powerful"
"Of course, the host Jinling University of Science and Technology is the most competitive team this year and is also very strong"
Wu Dongqing¡¯s preparations have been very thorough and he has a certain understanding of each team.