They are all elders. When they speak, Huang Shaowen can promise to treat them politely. As for the issue of interests, this has to be discussed separately. They cannot be allowed to promise to go out with support.
We chatted for a long time, but the words were actually not very nutritious. They just talked about the past of this man named Huang, what outstanding achievements he had in history, and looked forward to the future. He also praised Huang Shijie, that is, Grandpa Huang Shaowen, and how many people were sitting around. They all belong to Huang Shaowen's grandfather's generation, so they can naturally comment on Huang Shaowen's grandfather.
Of course, this is just a compliment, after all, Huang Shijie is not an ordinary person, and Huang Shaowen, a grandson, is not an ordinary person either.
Huang Shaowen didn¡¯t feel bored either. Anyway, it was just chatting, some not talking at all. You can also learn something about recent events in many families in the village.
Everyone will go to the county to open a restaurant. Whose child looks promising? Someone wanted to imitate Huang Dayan and start a fruit plantation, so they chose peach trees, but they had to wait two or three years, and they didn¡¯t know whether they would succeed in the end or not. If it can't be done, it will really be a huge loss.
I can probably lose all the money I made from farming in the past few years.
Everyone was encouraging, and Huang Shaowen gave an analysis and asked his opinion whether growing peaches could be done. Huang Shaowen didn't know it very well, but in his impression, there seemed to be a township here later, and it seemed that it really became the land of peach blossoms.
This is just the impression, but whether they can succeed or not depends on their own efforts and whether they understand the technology. Huang Shaowen suggested asking Liu Changxin.
"Well, Technician Liu, now he is Mr. Liu, how can we have the chance to ask him for advice? Otherwise, Shao Wen, you are familiar with Mr. Liu, you can help ask."
"The poor plan shows up", although it is a bit harsh to say this, but basically this is what they always think. The real question will never be raised at the beginning. It must be wrapped with layers of onion skins, and then test you bit by bit. Finally, the conversation will be happy, and all your true needs will be exposed to you.
At this time, because the conversation is going well and the relationship between the two parties is good, it doesn¡¯t seem to be difficult for someone to make this request, so there is a high probability that you will not be embarrassed to refuse directly.
It¡¯s just that no matter who you are, this feeling of being tricked will always feel a little uncomfortable.
"I just came back and I still don't know where Brother Liu is. I'll ask later and I'll tell you some news. You can also go to the village chief and ask him to help ask. Doesn't the Four Seasons Company cooperate with the village? Or directly If you look for an agricultural machinery station, the technicians there will definitely understand this, and Brother Liu may not even be here in Baima now."
Huang Shaowen didn't care much about being tricked. He just felt that they were a bit narrow-minded. Their narrow understanding of relationship issues prevented them from taking the normal path of asking others directly. Instead, they thought of saying that they knew Liu Changxin. Allow yourself to help deliver the message.
" Such a trivial matter also depends on relationships. Huang Shaowen can still understand it. But the fact is that when people do things, the first thing they shouldn¡¯t think about is relationships.
Because, in the actual exchange of interests, relationships are the biggest cost in doing things. If you can't use them, try not to use them. You must use your relationships only when it is most critical.
Otherwise, one person will feel that you do not value him, and the other person, using guanxi means forming a relational value exchange, and you must return it next time. If you cannot use reciprocal personal connections to help him solve the problem , then you can only use money.
But here comes the question, how do you use money to measure your relationship with others? You definitely can't discuss it with him and say: I will give you as much as you think our relationship is worth.
Negotiation is impossible, and your own judgment is prone to errors. No matter how small the error is, it will leave a little uncomfortable feeling in the other party's heart. This discomfort will expand and eventually lead to the end of the relationship between the two parties. .
The reason why some people's paths become narrower and narrower is that they continue to use relationships and think that their connections represent their own success, or that they will definitely succeed.
There is a kind of person who also has a large number of personal connections, but you will rarely see him using them. But it is this kind of person who will always have connections to pull him back when he is moving forward, no matter how low he encounters. Get back to the top.
The grievances and rebellion, the trees are scattered, maybe I really have to think about it, because it is not good enough.
People who are so powerful, do not want to ask themselves to ask for a fortune, they just let themselves help themselves. To some extent, it is a very unsightly manifestation.
? ?However, from another perspective, Huang Shaowen also understood their approach. I've already planted peach trees, so I don't need to make a fortune for the time being. My most urgent need right now is for you to tell me whether what I'm doing can work.
"It's enough. We don't have to have too many interactions. It's just that simple. I'm just using you temporarily. Why do you want to do so much? It's boring.
People who read a lot have their own way of thinking, and people who haven¡¯t read a lot also have their own way of thinking. Big people always like to talk about various truths, while small people only want to be able to solve real problems.
"Look, don't listen. The phone is right here. You can just call Technician Liu no. What's the point in doing that?"
Huang Shaowen didn't have any trouble in his heart, but he wanted to laugh a little bit, and he actually laughed. People are talking to you with a smile, how can you not laugh? Don't hit the smiling person with your hand.
"Okay, okay, okay, I'll call one right now and I'll ask for you, haha." Huang Shaowen got up and walked to the counter of the canteen.
¡°I just asked myself to make a phone call to ask for help, and I didn¡¯t even mention paying for the phone bill.¡± Huang Shaowen couldn¡¯t help but curse in his heart.
Just as he was about to pick up the phone, the phone rang and he thought about it. Guo Baoguo answered the phone, handed it to Huang Shaowen and said, "Zhang Jianwen, it's yours."
Huang Shaowen always felt a little strange when he heard this, but he still didn't think much about it and answered the phone, "Brother Zhang, where are you busy?"
On the other end of the phone, Zhang Jianwen said "Ouch, ouch" as soon as he heard this, "Brother Wen, can you please stop making fun of me? I can't help but scare you. I'm here in Hongze County now."
Huang Shaowen smiled and said, "What are you doing there? Can you still fish in the middle of winter?"
Zhang Jianwen explained on the other side of the phone: "No, the new contract I signed here is to build a large fishing ground. There are a few bad guys causing trouble. I'm here to deal with it."
"Prickly heads" are all relative. Huang Shaowen is definitely not the kind of person who listens to wind and rain. Huang Shaowen knows who Zhang Jianwen is. Huang Shaowen also knows what some "thorny heads" look like.
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