People will have different ideas at different times and under different circumstances. But one thing is certain, when the whole body and mind of a person are in a balanced and stable state, basically the person's mind can think in a more noble direction.
This is very consistent with the needs theory proposed by Maslow.
This December is a very special month. Last month Lao Er called him and said that he had received Huang Shucheng and his party who were going to eastern Guangdong to participate in the National Games.
????????? In fact, he doesn¡¯t have anything to pick up with the kid, and the opponent is specially organized by the provincial team. Huang Shaowu didn't want to come. When he was in his hometown, he wasn't very familiar with people with the same surname.
From the time I went to college to working after graduation, I rarely went back. I really can¡¯t say that I have a deep relationship with my family back home. It was just that the boss had specifically warned him during the summer vacation, so Huang Shaowu finally took the initiative to contact Huang Shaoyu, and the two of them found Huang Shucheng's team together.
His father came with him, and the child had to prepare for training, so the three peers just had a drink and chatted for a while.
Huang Shucheng performed very well at the Youth Games before, winning two gold medals and one silver medal. With his outstanding performance, Huang Shucheng almost became the most praised person in Huangzhuang besides Huang Shaowen.
Of course, although the talent of this commendable child was discovered by Huang Shaowen, this does not prevent everyone from praising and admiring him.
?? Huang Shaowen¡¯s kind is too good to be good, it¡¯s too far away, and jealousy is meaningless. Huang Shucheng is a gifted person, you can't be jealous even if you want to.
However, in the past two years, many parents have banned their children from playing in the water every summer vacation as they did in the past. It was Huang Shaowen who asked the village chief to pay more attention to the situation of children playing in the water. In addition, Gao Liang almost fell into the water before, causing the death of both him and Huang Shucheng.
In the end, this matter was not really let go, and nothing happened.
Huang Shucheng is indeed very good and trains very hard. But unfortunately, the Youth Games are different from the National Games. At the end of the day, Huang Shucheng participated in three competitions and finally only won a silver medal in freestyle.
The results were not very good, but compared to his age, this also made the provincial team coach very happy.
Huang Shucheng himself was not very happy, because he had said in front of Uncle Shaowen before that the silver medal given to Uncle Shaowen would be his last silver medal.
As a result, just one year later, I was slapped in the face.
After the National Games concluded, Huang Shucheng learned that Uncle Shaowu could contact Uncle Shaowen, so he made a special call to Huang Shaowen. Maybe it was because Huang Shaowen was the first person to appreciate his shining points. When he joined the cram school, Uncle Shaowen took them to play in the fields and rivers, which made Huang Shucheng feel that this was what he was destined to be in his life. Important people.
In short, after Huang Shucheng lost, he just wanted to tell Uncle Shaowen his thoughts as soon as possible. "Uncle, I promise, I will swim faster next time, really."
The child's tone of assurance was so firm that Huang Shaowen felt that he could even see the look on his face when he said this. Maybe there are still tears in your eyes, and your heart is filled with energy, as if today's failure can represent your entire life.
If you live to Huang Shaowen's age, you will actually understand that countless important moments that you have thought of are nothing more than that. All the earth-shaking and vigorous events are, in the final analysis, nothing more than a contest between oneself and oneself. Later you will find that to outsiders, the "war" in your mind is nothing more than a burst of loud firecrackers during the Spring Festival. When they explode, you just want to hide aside and watch from a distance.
If you want to speak, you have to speak loudly and try hard to make the people around you hear you more clearly.
"You're like this even after you won the silver medal, so what do those people who didn't even get the bronze medal think?" Huang Shaowen's words directly made Huang Shucheng hold back his tears.
He really hasn¡¯t thought about this problem. By the way, my teacher has told me since I was young that nothing is difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb. No pain No gain.
Every time I praise those students with good grades, I always spare no effort to use the best words about them. Then call on everyone to learn from them.
Huang Shucheng¡¯s grades were not very good, and he always felt that he was not an outstanding person. After finally gaining the advantage that I have now, of course I want to show my abilities well and make myself an excellent person in the eyes of others.
This is not a pursuit of fame and fortune, but an attempt to prove something to the world.
But it¡¯s also not a good balanced mentality. UpdateThe important thing should be that swimming is a hobby of his, and he enjoys the speed and carefree feeling when swimming.
Of course, as a sports competition, no matter what the so-called spirit and principles are, they can¡¯t compare to one thing, and that is competition.
Competition is the most important and eternal in sports competitions. The problem is that players must have a good mentality in order to compete better and not be too extreme. Sometimes it is too extreme, but it may not win the competition.
"Xiao Cheng, it's a happy thing to win a medal. Although we didn't get the gold medal, we can get it again next time. The most important thing now is to have a good rest and pay attention to adjusting your body. If you don't pay attention now, put your body If you mess it up, how will you participate in the competition next time and win the gold medal?
First of all, you need to understand this basic point and calm down. "
Huang Shaowen didn't know if Huang Shucheng, at his age, could listen to what he said. But thinking about it, I still have to say it. Whether he understands it or not, it is good to remember that he said such words, and it will have a certain impact on him in the future.
The key issue lies in Huang Shucheng¡¯s coach. The coach is the most critical person to guide him. But Huang Shaowen definitely can't control this matter. Can I still take care of the affairs of the provincial team?
"This teacher Huang is right. Shucheng, now you know why I don't let you train." Suddenly, an adult's voice came from the other end of the phone.
It didn¡¯t sound like Hong Shumin¡¯s voice, but it could be heard from the words that the new coach seemed to pay great attention to Huang Shucheng¡¯s mentality.
A coach who can notice this is a good coach. If it were someone like Ma Jiajun, it would really be "untiring" to destroy people.
Professional matters are left to professionals. Although Huang Shaowen is Huang Shucheng's psychological support, he can only say a few words to comfort him. The rest of the matter must be left to their provincial team to handle the rest.
Nowadays, when children go out, they basically study in Jinling. But it happened to be the time when I was in junior high school, so it was time for a new environment. Huang Shucheng should still be able to adapt. His parents visit him once a month. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com