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Why did the trainee teacher ask Chunyang like this?
Actually, you can think of it if you think about it deeply.
"These young people must have listened to other teachers' gossip in the office. They were really curious, so they had the courage to ask directly.
Chunyang has been married for several years and has no children. Other teachers in the office are more worried than her client.
Some teachers think that Chunyang shouldn¡¯t give up children for work. No matter how important work is, it will definitely not be as important as his own life. Now when you are young, you can still talk about struggle. When you are older and want to have children in a few years, you can¡¯t. I will definitely regret it to death.
Some teachers think Chunyang Beier is great. She has done many things that others cannot do. Even if they don¡¯t praise her, there is no need to talk behind her back.
Some teachers are particularly curious about the attitude of Chunyang¡¯s husband¡¯s family if she doesn¡¯t have children. They always see Zhien coming to deliver meals to Chunyang. The couple must be very affectionate. What about the other people in the family, don¡¯t they have any objections?
Chunyang guessed why the trainee teacher did this, and was quite helpless.
Wherever there are people, gossip is inevitable, and I accidentally became the center of gossip.
She said to the trainee teachers: "Let's not talk about whether they agree or not. The child was born to me, so it is not too much for me to have veto power, right? After all, my wife is very supportive of my work. It is right not to have children for the time being. We made the decision together, and although our family members were anxious, they respected our choice."
Chunyang¡¯s ¡°one-vote veto¡± theory really shocked the trainee teachers.
They had never heard this before.
Chunyang smiled and explained: "Although I alone can't give birth to a child, it's not wrong that I have contributed more to the whole process of giving birth to a child. I am the one who has to endure hardship, and I am the one who has to suffer." , of course it is up to me to decide whether to have children or not. I have been saying that men and women are equal for so many years, so where should men and women be equal? ??Of course having children must also be considered!"
The trainee teachers all gave Chunyang a thumbs up, and the foreign language trainee teacher even said with admiration: "Principal Li, I can really learn a lot from you. After I came here, I feel a little more confident than before."
"You are all so good, why are you not confident?" Chunyang said with a smile: "Don't talk about far away, let's just talk about you. How many of your peers are studying in college like you? Do you know that you are already among your peers? If you stand out from the competition, you should be confident."
"Principal Li, you are not much older than me, why are you so open-minded?" asked another trainee teacher.
Open-minded?
Almost no one has ever described Chunyang like this, and she even tasted the word "pin" carefully.
Then, she shook her head and said, "I don't seem to be very open-minded! I'm a bit of a jerk, I accept death, and I like to get into trouble, so regardless of whether it's work or life, I always have troubles, and there's nothing I can do about it."
Although she said this, these trainee teachers still admired her very much.
Some things cannot be explained clearly in words. These trainee teachers just think that Chunyang is great and unique. Chunxi Primary School with her is positive, and Dahe Middle School with her also has a bright future.
After chatting with Chunyang, all the intern teachers felt that they had gained something, especially the foreign language intern teacher.
When there was no one else, she secretly told Chunyang that she was actually very dependent on her partner, because in so many years since she was a child, it seemed that her partner was the only one who truly cared about her, and her parents, grandparents, and relatives did not take her seriously. One thing, she was able to study in the Normal College only by being beaten.
How dependent is she on her partner?
She told Chunyang that she couldn't imagine living without him.
She is particularly unconfident. She always feels that she can¡¯t do anything well without a partner, and she can¡¯t accomplish anything. She is just a fool who only gets into trouble.
The more Chunyang listened, the more he felt that something was wrong. He always felt that something was strange, but he couldn't tell clearly what was strange.
"You are young, beautiful, well-educated, and very professional. Why should you not be confident? Look at the people around you. How many are better than you? Don't be unsure. You are really great." Chunyang He said it from the bottom of his heart.
However, the foreign language trainee teacher was still very unconfident, and she began to count the "stupid things" she had done with her fingers.
She was uncoordinated and couldn't dance or sing. She even ran away. She would always sit in the corner and watch quietly when there were any activities at school or in the class. She didn't know how to dress up and was always the most frumpy girl in the class. She understood. Not as much as others, except for professional knowledge, others sayThe teacher called her aside and chatted with her alone.
Chunyang praised her for being brave and for being independent. He also said that no matter what happened in the future, she could make her own choices like today, without looking at other people's faces or caring about what others think.
"That partner of yours is not as good as you at all!" Chunyang was not afraid that the two of them would reconcile in the future. She was not a human being inside and out, so she expressed her inner thoughts: "His teaching level is not very good, he is quite arrogant, and he looks down on us. Not only do the teachers at Dahe Middle School look down on the students of our school! If such a person really became a teacher, I would be afraid that he would teach the students badly."
"He, he has always been like this, always loving to offend people, but actually he has a good heart." She also explained for her partner.
Chunyang disagreed and said: "Do you think it is a small matter to look down on students? It is not a small matter at all. Think about it, if when you were studying, there was a teacher who kept looking at you with his head and talking about you. If I keep calling you stupid, will it dampen your motivation to study? Without motivation, how can you pass the exam?"
The trainee foreign language teacher said nothing. She lowered her head slightly, as if she was thinking about something.
Being able to think is a good thing.
Chunyang gave this example just to knock her out and make her realize that her lack of confidence may be related to her boyfriend's constant attacks.
How to rebuild self-confidence?
That, of course, is to let her see her own importance and make her realize that she is really good.
The students¡¯ reaction was the most direct.
Whether the teacher teaches well or not, and whether he is friendly or not, can be directly reflected in the students.
Students all fell in love with her foreign language classes. It was a rare opportunity for a trainee teacher to take classes. The teacher who taught her was not very good, but she also wanted to learn professional knowledge from her, so she was given more opportunities to take classes.
Because she has many opportunities to interact with students, students have very different feelings towards her. She is gentle and doesn't lose her temper very much, but she is able to control the most difficult students in several classes. Every time she finishes class, other teachers will praise her and ask her for advice on how to deal with those students. A few naughty students.
In this way, she will naturally become more and more confident, and at the same time, the number of times she mentions her partner will become less and less!
Chunyang told her that she didn¡¯t need to envy anyone, because her excellence was enough for others to envy her.
Everyone has seen the changes in the trainee teacher, and they all admire Chunyang's attitude in handling this matter.
???????????????????????? At first, some people thought she was meddling in other people¡¯s affairs and that she shouldn¡¯t interfere in other people¡¯s affairs. But now, no one thinks it is wrong to interfere in this matter.
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Chunyang herself doesn¡¯t know when the teachers at Dahe Middle School started to have such blind trust in her. This is a good thing, and it is not a good thing.
Trusting her will facilitate her future management work.
But there is no one who does not make mistakes. If there is no one around her who can ask questions, then her mistakes will never be corrected.
Chun Yang accidentally got into trouble again, and Chunyang felt that he was quite ridiculous like this.
Zhien said: "It's not funny at all. People who can reflect on themselves will always make progress. You will definitely get better and better."
With Zhien¡¯s auspicious words, Yunhe held a commendation meeting for outstanding educators in November. Chunyang became the only educator in Dahe Township to be named and commended, and he also received a certificate of honor.
Don¡¯t underestimate this small certificate of honor. With it, it will be much easier for Chunyang to work with the township. The township¡¯s attitude towards her is different from before.
Chunyang is the best at climbing along poles. While her certificate was still warm, she quickly applied for several teacher establishments with the township, hoping to dig more holes for Dahe Middle School so that good carrots could come in in the future.
Several pits were relatively difficult, and in the end only one was given.
"One will do, it's better than nothing."
What Chunyang didn¡¯t expect was that someone would soon want to jump into this pit.
The foreign language intern teacher took the initiative to talk to Chunyang and expressed her intention to work at Dahe Middle School after graduation. She hoped that Chunyang could help her retain this position.
Although some of them are against the rules, special things should be done and the introduction of talents is a big deal. If there are any problems in the future, Chunyang is willing to bear all the consequences! (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com