???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? of a normal family, with a few strong men working together, is like this, but it is even more miserable for a family like the Yu Yougen family, which has long been separated and lived alone, without its backbone.
When Guo Xiuxiu considered remarrying, she was forced to have no choice but to do so.
"You can't leave the two children that Lao Yu left to her to starve to death. No matter whether your life is good or not, if you remarry, at least the children can have a stutter and not starve to death."
Although Guo Xiuxiu later gave up the idea of ??remarrying because of Yu Quangen's strong opposition, she still remembered Yu Yougen's support.
She usually treats her two sons as equally as possible, but inevitably, she is still a little partial to the eldest son.
It¡¯s not that Yu Quangen doesn¡¯t know, but he has a big heart and doesn¡¯t care at all.
The ten fingers are still long or short. Besides, his mother has not done anything unfair in eating and dressing. She just gets scolded a little more often for being naughty and mischievous. There are few people in the village who have not been beaten or scolded. Yeah, what's wrong with being beaten and scolded? Anyway, Yu Quangen has been scolded before, but he is less scolded for being obedient.
For Yu Quangen, it is not painful or itchy at all.
But Guo Xiuxiu never expected that when she wanted to remarry, her younger son, whom she had never paid much attention to, would be the first to agree, while her elder son would rather disagree.
She couldn¡¯t figure out this question for any reason. She looked at Yu Yougen as if he were a stranger and murmured, ¡°Why?¡±
It¡¯s just that they haven¡¯t lived together for more than two to three years, and this eldest son has become a bit strange.
Sun Yuzhou looked at Guo Xiuxiu worriedly and asked in a low voice: "Are you okay?"
Sun Yuzhou has confessed about her family affairs, and Guo Xiuxiu has not hidden her own affairs from her. Seeing that Guo Xiuxiu looks shocked now, she is afraid that she may not be able to bear the stimulation.
Yu Yougen didn¡¯t want to answer his mother¡¯s question. He watched Sun Yuzhou go to help his mother, and reached out to pat Sun Yuzhou: ¡°What are you doing? If you act like a gangster at your age, be careful. I will report you to the Public Security Bureau and have you shot.¡±
Guo Xiuxiu slapped Yu Yougen's hand away, and said in a sharp and harsh voice: "Tell me, why? You were willing before, why are you not willing now? I just found a wife to live with and take care of each other. What happened again?" If the child doesn't interfere with anything, why are you dissatisfied?"
Yu You didn¡¯t want to answer this question at all. Being provoked by Guo Xiuxiu¡¯s behavior of pressing the question and protecting Sun Yuzhou, he simply said directly:
"I agreed before that I couldn't live any longer. Instead of the three of us, mother and son, starving to death together, if you just marry someone else, the three of us can live well? Why don't I agree? Who would want to starve to death if we can live well? If the second child hadn't died, Brain, we didn¡¯t have to suffer those years at all.¡±
It is really not that easy for a young woman to live with two young sons.
If nothing else, just the fact that some second-rate men try to take advantage of widows can make a conservative woman have a nervous breakdown.
Fortunately, their village is Yujia Village, and most of the people in the village have the surname Yu. Guo Xiuxiu lives with her late husband's two sons. Although some people gossip behind their backs, they are still willing to take care of them in life. They really can't survive anymore. The one who bought two sweet potatoes from the grain house was finally able to survive.
It was really rare at first, until Guo Xiuxiu started to use her own skills to serve people around Fangba at weddings and weddings. People would always send some food, eggs, meat, etc., although it was not much, but the eggs and meat were replaced by Coarse grains are more than enough to feed the mother and her three children.
In this way, as the brothers grew older and worked harder and harder, the family's life improved.
Otherwise, in the family like them, seriously, one of the two sons can marry a daughter -in -law.
She was not the only person in the village who was also widowed or whose wife had died and was raising children alone. But in those days, except for the two sons in his family who were married to wives, only those with daughters could exchange marriages with other families. In exchange for one or two daughters-in-law.
???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? If it were not for the land to be contracted to every household, and that no one should have to worry about food and drink, those families, even in a few years, would not have thought of marrying wives to all their sons.
Even now, there are still people who cannot find a wife.
So the three of them, mother and son, are really lucky.
But in Yu Yougen¡¯s opinion, this is not the case.
Those years of not having enough to eat left a huge shadow on him. Even now that the land was divided, he opened a shop with Yu San's care, and even bought a house in the county to prepare for a rainy day (Yu Quangen didn't know it yet) ), he was also very uneasy, always afraid that if something happened, he would go back to the days of being hungry and full.
Of course, ?It's not without benefits that his wife is better now, at least now his mother can enjoy happiness by following them.
So he didn't understand: "I can understand why you married someone else if you couldn't live in the past, but now our family is not short of money. Not only do we eat meat every day, we can cut a few taels of meat every now and then, buy a chicken drumstick, and eat an egg." What, life has been so easy, why don¡¯t you just live in peace and enjoy happiness? What do you mean by finding another man? I want to tell everyone that I am an unfilial son who cannot afford to support my own mother, so I kicked my own mother out. Marry someone else and let someone else help me raise my mother?¡±
Yu Yougen really didn't understand, and what he said was very sincere and sincere: "Mom, you are already fifty-one, and you are really not young anymore. If we don't learn how young people in other cities fall in love, let's just be honest. Can't you live a life of your own responsibilities? If you feel bored, you can come over and help me take care of the children. Fangfang and I are often too busy, so you can help us take care of the children. If you think Xiaobao is naughty, why don't you? It looks good, so you can go and help the second child look after the child. The second child is still young, so you can help him see the child grow up."
Guo Xiuxiu never thought that the boss she had high hopes for, who she thought was honest, honest and kind-hearted, would turn out to be so selfish and cold-blooded.
She always thought that the boss asked her to get married when she was young because he was afraid that she would not be able to raise two children by herself. Of course, the fact was that the boss was afraid that she would not be able to raise him and Yu Quangen on her own, but his focus was obviously on using his own family. Mother's marriage in exchange for the chance of their mother and son's survival, no, or the chance of his own survival.
Some things cannot withstand scrutiny and careful consideration.
In the first two or three years when she told everyone that she was not planning to remarry and just wanted to live with her two sons, the eldest son, who was not very talkative to begin with, never said a word all day long, except when she was cutting pig grass with her younger brother. It means digging wild vegetables or picking wheat ears and firewood. During the busy farming season, a teenage boy can do half the labor force of others.
She thought that the boss was sensible and wanted to lighten her burden and make her feel more relaxed. Now that she thought about it, it might not be that the boss was complaining that she listened to the second boss and didn't get married so that she could live a good life.
Guo Xiuxiu feels as if a thousand arrows have pierced her heart.
She closed her eyes and asked: "Boss, we had a hard life in the first few years when I told people that I wasn't going to get married again. Do you blame me?"
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