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The fact that Sister Yu is pregnant has diluted Yu Jiaojiao's irritability and impatience, and also freed her from racking her brains to think of how to refuse Yu's mother to personally help her take care of the child.
To be honest, many people feel that it is more secure for parents to help take care of their children without having to worry about their children being bullied by nannies. However, Yu Jiaojiao feels that she would rather spend money to find a nanny with good character than let her own mother take care of her children.
On the one hand, there are many children at home and they don¡¯t want their mother to be too tired. On the other hand, as the saying goes, it smells far away and smells near.
How many father-son-mother-daughter relationships are originally quite harmonious, but once they live under the same roof, there will be all kinds of dissatisfaction and conflicts. Small conflicts accumulate and turn into big conflicts. In the end, the family is restless and no one is happy.
There is another problem for parents taking care of their children.
Elderly people like to use their own old standards when raising children, whether it¡¯s eating, dressing or even behavioral habits.
For example, the elderly don't care at all that their children need to eat less salt, nor do they care about whether their children are nutritionally balanced. They feel very proud of feeding their children well, but for young parents who have some knowledge of parenting Generally speaking, I would rather my children eat less at one meal and more meals a day, and have a complete variety of nutritious foods.
Food is precious now. Many older people will pick up the rice or vegetables once they fall on the table and continue eating. If the children are raised by the elderly, they will inevitably develop the habit of picking up things to eat.
It¡¯s okay to pick up things to eat at home, but more often than not, children will pick up things to eat outside after developing a habit.
Mothers feel suffocated when they think of their children picking up trash that others throw away and stuffing it into their mouths, which is full of saliva, dust, and various bacteria. Even big-hearted dads can¡¯t accept their children picking up trash and eating it.
Another issue is living habits.
Toilet paper is still extremely expensive and not popular enough. Unlike later generations who would wipe their noses with toilet paper when they have runny noses, today's children who care about hygiene and love cleanliness may blow it with their fingers and wipe it on stones or shoe soles. More often, they just wipe it with runny noses. Use the sleeve head or the back of your hand to wipe it, so except for new clothes that can stay relatively clean for a few days, the sleeve heads of almost all children's clothes are bright and hardened, hardened by nasal mucus.
¡°If these problems are corrected forcefully, it is not impossible to correct them.
The key is also some speaking habits.
??For example, swearing in the street.
??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????by Shen Yu¡¯s smile and her good-natured manner when facing her and her family, and she almost never utters any curse words. That¡¯s because you¡¯ve never seen Mother Yu quarreling with anyone.
Growing up, Yu Jiaojiao has seen Yu¡¯s mother quarrel with others countless times. The vocabulary is rich, the scope is wide, and the words are vicious. To be honest, it is beyond your imagination!
?????????????? If you have the habit of cursing, you can correct it if you are very cruel, but there is one thing that cannot be corrected.
The vast majority of families in China, whether now or in the future, except for a few who pay great attention to the upbringing of their children due to family inheritance or other reasons, most ordinary families do not have a correct concept of child care, especially the implementation of family planning. Later, every family had either an only child or two children.
It¡¯s okay for young parents. They have a higher level of knowledge, a broader vision, and are more in line with society. They understand society¡¯s needs for future personnel and have higher requirements for their children¡¯s education.
But as for the elders, the elders can be said to be completely doting on their grandchildren.
Not only do they dote on their children, but when their sons and daughters-in-law want to educate their children, they also prevent each other from educating their children.
The result is that there are endless bear elders, bear parents, and bear children. Almost every day, various bear families are in the social news.
Yu Jiaojiao and Zhao Pengcheng's family structure is relatively complicated, and Yu's mother is a bit restrained, but it's not like Yu Jiaojiao has never seen how Yu's mother treats her children, especially the youngest Wang Han. She really dotes on them unconditionally and gets whatever they want. What to give, without any objection at all.
Yu Jiaojiao even once suspected that if a child hit Yu¡¯s mother, Yu¡¯s mother would also applaud and say that she had strong hands and hit well.
She didn¡¯t quite remember how Yu¡¯s mother took care of her two brothers¡¯ children. Anyway, from what she saw of Yu¡¯s mother taking care of Wang Han, she really didn¡¯t want Yu¡¯s mother to go.
Yu's mother felt guilty towards Yu Jiaojiao: "I originally said I would help you take care of the child, but now I can't get away from it. You also know your sister-in-law's family, so let them take things from your sister-in-law's hands. How can they be patient? If your sister-in-law wants to go to them for something, you can't even count on them. Let her mother take care of your sister-in-law during the confinement period. She can take care of your sister-in-law and the children to death, and she will eat well. "
Yu Jiaojiao suppressed her excitement: "It's okay, it's okay. Wang Han is not young anymore. At worst, we will send him to a nursery or kindergarten. That means always going to and from school to pick him up. If it's a bit troublesome, you can take care of him at home." We, sisters-in-law, may not be able to have children if we want to in the future."
From now on, we need to plan our children.
Although Yu Jiaojiao does not know the year when strict implementation of family planning began, it will not be too long.
"While the control is not strict now, if you want to have children, have them as soon as possible. You won't be able to have more children in the future."
Yu¡¯s mother glared at Yu Jiaojiao: ¡°If you can¡¯t speak, just shut up.¡±
Look at all the weird things they said.
????????????? She knew that this girl was a bit careless in what she said, but those who didn¡¯t know thought that she, the sister-in-law, had cursed her two sisters-in-law to not have children in the future.
Yu Jiaojiao stuck out her tongue with a smile: "I mean, we can't let my sisters-in-law keep having children, right? They have several more children, and they will all go to school in the future. Can our family afford to support them? Life is so good now, I have to let my sister-in-law and the others enjoy themselves, right?"
Mother Yu thought that raising children now was a headache: "Let's talk about the future."
Yu Jiaojiao pulled Yu Ma back: "Okay, okay, eat quickly, or you will get cold if you don't eat."
As for Sister-in-law Yu¡¯s morning sickness, this problem is a terminal illness and cannot be cured.
The fact that Sister-in-law Yu was pregnant again did not cause much disturbance in the Yu family.
The Yu family is not the kind of family that lacks children. They have stopped caring about children for a long time. Yu¡¯s mother told Brother Yu to take good care of his wife and stopped talking about it. Everyone should eat, drink and joke as usual. Children They are still grabbing meat to eat.
When Sister-in-law Yu returned to the table again, her face was glowing red, and she didn¡¯t look like she had just vomited at all, and it was especially delicious!
You can eat at least two pieces of chicken nuggets with just one chopstick, and your mouth will be glossy after eating.
Not only does she talk a lot, she also eats quickly.
Like a fish!
There is no habit of eating fish here in Shilin County, and everyone is not very good at eating fish.
When a piece of fish is placed in a bowl, it takes several minutes to get a piece of meat into your mouth. Children are even worse. They are afraid of being stabbed in the throat and are completely deprived of the right to eat fish by themselves. If they want to eat, they can only eat the fish bones when adults pick them out. Clean fish meat.
As we all know, carp has quite a lot of small spines. If you want to pick out all the spines, you can't see them with the naked eye. You have to pass them through your mouth again. Then when it is the child's turn to eat, the taste will be the same as what's on the plate. There are already two flavors.
Yu Jiaojiao herself feeds Wang Han like this. Anyway, she doesn¡¯t eat what others have tasted, so it doesn¡¯t matter.
But Sister-in-law Yu is different.
I don¡¯t know how she did it. She was obviously not a fish eater. A piece of fish meat came into her mouth. After a while, only the spines were left and she was spit out. The fish meat was already eaten.
¡° Half of the plate of fish they had here was eaten by Sister-in-law Yu.
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