"I think it's simple. While Mr. Qin is here, ask him out a few more times, get in touch with him, don't worry about what he thinks, and see for yourself whether you like it or not. If you like it, try to catch his heart .¡±
Sha Meijuan suggested.
"You speak lightly. If you say grab it, grab it. The other person's heart is in his body, but not in my hands."
Bai Jianjia said angrily. Seeing a pot of mutton scorpions being boiled and boiled again, Lin Ruqiang was the only one who was eating vigorously opposite them, but Sha Meijuan forced her to eat, and she was very anxious.
Don't you just hate it! For Bai Jianjia, the most irritating thing is that the delicious food in his mouth can't be eaten, and it falls into someone else's mouth.
"Oh, you stupid elm bump! A muscle, I said it all, can you bring out even a third of your professional spirit and treat him as the one you swore to serve successfully Students come, can¡¯t you? At worst, you¡¯ll fail. What¡¯s wrong with that? At least it will leave a trace in Mr. Qin¡¯s heart. For girls, there are only advantages and no disadvantages. Do you still have to think about your old love and give you a different face?"
Sha Meijuan was so anxious that she poked Bai Jianjia's head, and her volume increased by more than an octave.
"Meijuan, you can't think like that!"
Lin Ruqiang, who was gnawing on the sheep and scorpions, heard Sha Meijuan's words, and was shocked to raise his head. He looked at Sha Meijuan in astonishment and finished speaking seriously, then turned his head and said to Bai Jianjia:
"Jianjia, what Meijuan said is right. Lifetime events are very important, and they are equally important to men and women. You still need to put more thought into it. But, as Meijuan said, you can just use it as an doctrine. ha!"
"Oh, what are you worried about? I'm not talking about you, and I won't treat you like this! I'm talking about Mr. Qin, can that be an ordinary person? Of course, Jian Jia will show 120% wisdom and wisdom to deal with it!"
Sha Meijuan blurted out to Lin Ruqiang.
"Ah? Meijuan, what did you just say? What did you say, you wouldn't do this, to him? To Mr. Lin?"
Bai Jianjia has always been careless about her own affairs, but she is super sensitive about her friends' affairs. With just a word from Sha Meijuan, she can smell something different inside.
"Oh, don't say it, don't say it, it's not a worry-free product! Eat and eat. If you think about it after you're full, I won't believe it, and I won't be able to sell you!"
Sha Meijuan saw that the gunpowder hit her, so she quickly changed the subject by eating. Bai Jianjia finally got her wish and ate the sheep scorpion that she had been staring at for a long time.
This dinner party became a full emotional education session for Sha Meijuan and Bai Jianjia. But Bai Jianjia understood Sha Meijuan's painstaking care for her from beginning to end, but could not agree with the emotional advice Sha Meijuan gave her.
She doesn't want too much purpose and utilitarianism in her emotions, and she doesn't think she needs to exchange her emotions and others' emotions for unforeseen needs in her future life.
She just wants to meet someone who can be patient enough to understand her, and can gradually understand and respect each other. Together with the family and people who have a relatively consistent view, we will move towards the final change of life form together in the tunnel of time without fear.
When she came back, she refused Lin Ruqiang's offer to see her off, and took the subway by herself. Looking at the men, women and children sitting in the subway, and the people getting on and off the train, she felt a little confused.
What exactly is love? Marriage, family, what kind of love do we need? Is it because she is too clear and too demanding, or in reality, most people still use love itself as a tool for survival in order to survive?
Isn't love the glorious manifestation of life itself, the existence of an emotional need independent of material survival needs? Or is it that from ancient times to the present, there has been no separation from the material living standards of human beings in the survival and development of society and the function of reproduction of offspring?
Could it be that the true love instinct unique to human beings based on the light of life has disappeared?
She let out a sigh of relief in her heart. She is a strange person. This is the evaluation of her by the person who had a brief relationship with her in college. He thinks that she always thinks differently from others. Maybe she really thought too much, and it was meaningless?
Every time at this time, she felt a cloud of white mist floating in her heart, and she didn't know where to go.
"You think too much because you read too little!"
She suddenly remembered a sentence she read in a book. It seems that when she goes back tonight, she should study hard. Although she often feelsShe has turned her life into a philosophy, and her business into a philosophy, but this only shows that the education in college was very good, which gave her some core qualities of Chinese subjects, which deepened into her soul, but she The confusion in life where she is going, but no one can give her real guidance, she can only rely on herself, and she can't see clearly.
Back at the residence, she called Zhang Lan back, and sure enough, Zhang Lan also asked about her meeting with Qin Kexin in the afternoon, but she just said it superficially, and didn't say much. She could tell that Zhang Lan wanted to have an evening chat with her, but Zhang Lan was really busy recently, so she had to hang up the phone hastily, telling her to wait for her call tomorrow.
She thought about it, and when she was confused, she still called Qin Wanfan.
She parroted the rumors about her in the company that Sha Meijuan told her before eating the sheep and scorpion with her chopsticks, and the tips and suggestions she gave her afterwards.
"Then what do you think?"
This is the first sentence that Qin Wafan will say when he talks to her.
"I, I don't know, that's why I'm asking you!"
She and Qin Wanfan have long become the kind of people who can talk about everything, and they are the most relaxed when they talk, and they don't need to hide any emotions, such as the confusion at the moment .
"I think, what Meijuan says is Meijuan's opinion, and you still have to listen to it, but how to listen and what to do after hearing it is still up to you."
Qin Wafan is a prudent person, he sincerely hopes that his words can make Bai Jianjia see clearly what he really wants in his heart from his confusion.
"If I want to follow my own ideas, then I don't want to worry too much about such troublesome things."
Bai Jianjia hummed twice. She really can't think about too complicated interpersonal relationships and emotional events, it seems that her brain has not yet opened up about this.
Of course, this is a kind of intentional or unintentional self-repression after her own emotions were accepted by the surrounding environment and herself from a peripheral point of view, and the resulting lazy thinking about emotions. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com