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Chapter 972 Is it Time's Fault?

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    Is life the same?  Do you have to go through many detours before you understand the true meaning?

    We have longed for the waves of fate so much, only to find that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of our hearts We have longed for the approval of the outside world so much, only to realize in the end that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others  It doesn't matter!

    The reason why some people continue to grow is that they definitely have the power to persevere.

    Good at reading, willing to work hard, not only read, but also take notes.  If a person wants to grow, there must be a reason, and the effort and accumulation behind it must be several times that of ordinary people.  So, the key lies in yourself.

    Are Mr. Yang Jiang and Mr. Qian Zhongshu in love with each other and a perfect match from the very beginning?  Or after years of precipitation, slowly getting along with each other?

    Heartbeat is definitely the beginning of union, but it is impossible for two people to be completely compatible, right?

    "Intimate Relationship" said that the key to a happy marriage is not to have a "normal" personality, but to find someone who is compatible with you.

    For example, your other half has some mental disorders, but if you can tolerate the special side of the other person, and treat and even resolve those mental disorders of the other party with care, love and respect, your marriage will be full of vitality.

    This point of view is easy to understand. For example, there is such a couple. The man is very sensitive to power issues. He hates others overriding him and instructing him. Fortunately, his wife never tells him what to do. They get along well after ten years of marriage.  Had a great time.

    If his wife is an authoritarian woman who likes to order him and try to tell him what to do, the results will be disastrous.

    Therefore, there is little connection between general mental disorders and failure in love.  The key to a happy marriage is not having a "normal" personality, but finding someone who is compatible with you.

    If so.  In fact, the two are "incompatible".

    The temperature at night was very low. After a while, Chu Lihua felt a little cold and shivered.

    ¡ª¡ª"Chuchu, let's stay in the tent first, anyway, we have plenty of time, if we don't see enough, we will continue tomorrow."

    The caring in Liu Xingting's words is real, and it is completely different from Qing Yunfei's feeling of caring, but he has to use unacceptable words to express it.

    One is really warm, and the other oh :-(

    If so, I can reunite with Liu Xingting earlier;

    If, I am not in such a hurry, I want to marry myself out while I am young;

    if¡­¡­

    Chu Lihua suddenly remembered a line of lyrics - it was the fault of time, so we can only miss it.

    Is it really the fault of time, not the reason of personal choice?

    Chu Lihua walked into the tent silently, Liu Xingting saw her go in, and followed her into his tent.

    In fact, Chu Lihua's tent is specially used for watching the stars. She can also look up at the starry sky while lying down.

    However, for Chu Lihua, whose eyesight has not fully recovered, it is still not so clear without the help of a mobile phone.

    By coincidence, at this moment, Chu Lihua suddenly thought of Yu Xiaqiu, maybe her actions would not annoy her so much?

    The marriage at home is maintained, and I enjoy the nourishment of love with my lover outside.

    Chu Lihua shivered suddenly, frightened by her own thoughts.

    So, I think Qing Yunfei is only suitable to be a husband, the kind without love?

    So to speak, I also had an affair

    In Chu Lihua's view now, affairs are usually not about sex, but about seeking understanding, respect and care, which are what marriage should provide.

    Affair is a symptom of a dying marriage, not the cause.  The end of the marriage is doomed long before either of the couple cheats.

    People are used to treating the cheating party as the wrong party, and they hate this kind of empathy.  Few people think that one spouse's derailment may be caused by the other spouse.

    When a person does not get understanding, respect and care from his spouse, it is possible to look for it from others.  So, an affair is a symptom of a dying marriage, not the cause.

    Although I still feel guilty towards Qing Yunfei, but

    ?understand, respect, care

    Qing Yunfei only cared, but what about himself?

    Their husband and wife often start a conversation with harsh language, and the conversation often involves criticism, contempt, defense, cold war, and criticism of the spouse andMarriage has a deeply negative perception and so on.

    Obviously, if these signs appear in a marriage relationship for a long time, it indicates that such a marriage relationship is more dangerous.

    Obviously already divorced, why is it always like this

    Chu Lihua didn't know what to do.

    In the books I have read, three methods have been introduced. Ha, it¡¯s not that I haven¡¯t tried to rescue, but I have failed.  .  .

    The first method: activate your praise system.

    Compliments are a very important factor in maintaining a relationship life.

    The praise system refers to the fact that both husband and wife retain some basic feelings, and feel that the other party is worthy of respect, love and even admiration.

    If a couple's praise system is still functioning, their marriage can be saved.

    But what Chu Lihua got from using Perfection was Qing Yunfei's sentence - don't mess with me.

    Chu Lihua still remembers such an example in the book: the husband is a workaholic and doesn't care about family affairs, and the wife takes care of the children full-time to do housework.

    After a long time, the wife couldn't bear her husband's indifference and neglect. In order to avoid family troubles, the husband could only seek happiness from work.

    After a long time, the two felt that they could not go on and wanted to divorce, but fortunately, they decided to try marriage counseling before the divorce. How did the marriage counselor solve the problem?

    He asked them to talk about their early love life, and the husband recalled the long struggle he had to make himself acceptable to his wife and her family.

    The wife had never heard her husband say these things. In order to win her heart, the husband had worked so hard and worked so hard. She was overjoyed and the husband and wife reunited.

    Why is the problem solved like this?  Because of the good memories of early life, the husband thought of the loveliness of his wife back then, and also let the wife see the love and importance her husband had for her, and the long-lost sweet feeling came back.

    Soon, the husband rearranged his work and spent more time at home with his wife and children, and they lived happily ever after.

    So, often the best way to test whether a couple's praise system is working is to observe how they view their past. By reflecting on and talking about the past, those long-buried positive emotions can be unearthed.

    Recalling the good times in the past is also a way to ease the conflict between husband and wife.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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