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Chapter 913 accept yourself, accept you too

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    When Chu Lihua stopped laughing, Liu Xingting said, "In addition to the problem of self-survival, 'too much kindness, blessings slip away', when it comes to family safety issues, you must also stand up bravely to protect your family from harm."

    Chu Lihua smiled again, from the bottom of her heart, "Liu Xingting, thank you very much tonight! Treat me like a family member."

    Liu Xingting also laughed, "I haven't done enough, otherwise, it wouldn't be 'being', but 'yes'."

    ——"If I tell you, I am actually worried that I am not good enough and not worthy. What would you think?"

    ——"That's so interesting. Just now, someone was still saying, 'It's not perfect, but it's beautiful!' Unfortunately, in the blink of an eye Alas! Some people are always lip service. They won't use it in practice at all  .”

    Chu Lihua was stunned, then stopped the twin stroller, and suddenly yelled at Liu Xingting, "After you leave, I will try to learn how to go to Internet cafes, and I will ask everyone who might know you to ask for your QQ number. But  , If I miss it, there will be no chance for me to make it up."

    ——"No, we met at that time, we were too young. Only when we met again did we know how to cherish.

    Didn't Mr. Ji Xianlin say that many things take a long time to prepare.  like us.

    That law is called the lotus law.  The lotus bloomed in full bloom on the 30th day, but only half bloomed on the 29th day.  And many people give up on the 10th day, 20th day, or even 29th day.  Finally, there is no chance to see the magnificent scenery of the pond full of lotus.  "

    After what happened just now, Chu Lihua actually doesn't care so much about other people's eyes.

    ——"Will you wait for me?"

    ——"Wait until when?"

    ——"When I was free. After all, although I am divorced now. However, the legal judgment has not yet come down. I can't commit crimes yet."

    ——"Haha, with your words, it's not a problem. Chu Lihua, I finally waited for you. Actually, I never dreamed of this before. Especially after I came to Xinjiang, I gave up. I didn't expect  Hahaha, God treats me well!"

    ——"Hmph, so you're planning to give up."

    Chu Lihua pretended to be angry, but she felt a little uncomfortable.

    ——"In your words, all wishes come true. Although I gave up on the surface, I still miss you in my heart. Otherwise, how could I attract you here?"——

    ""secret"?!"——

    ""secret"?!"

    The two were unanimously excited.

    Liu Xingting tried to hug one of the twins, perhaps because he was an obstetrician, Apple was very obedient in his arms, and his expression was still smiling.

    Chu Lihua saw all this in her eyes and was happy in her heart.

    Do you also want a complete home?  Little angels!

    Chu Lihua thought of "taking down" Qing Yunfei for her child before, and learning so many ways to make others fall in love with her.

    It's ridiculous to think about it now, but in fact, it won't be of much help, because no matter how good the theory and method of love are, there is no way to guarantee that you will know what to do in a short time.

    The relationship between two people really needs a long time of precipitation.

    However, the previous study is also very meaningful, because it made Chu Lihua understand what love is.

    Love is actually not as complicated as she imagined, and there is no need for us to become the person we don't want to become in love; all pretense will eventually fade away, and only sincerity is the way.

    I saw some friends around me before. They are all excellent, but they are all troubled by love. Some people clearly long for love, but they dare not take the first step.

    Some people are obviously in a relationship that they are very unhappy, but because of one or another reason, they are unwilling to break up and divorce with the other party.

    There are even some people who have a very good personality and are very good at taking care of others, but they will think too much in a relationship, and they will think about whether they will make the other party too sad after they leave the other party, so they dare not propose separation.

    Even if the other party has made him and her very sad.  Even in our opinion, it has hurt him psychologically and even physically.

    Of course, there is another sad situation, that is, two very suitable people come together, but because the two people don't know how to express love correctly, the relationship becomes the bondage between them.

    ?The love that two people originally had was gradually lost in inappropriate expressions and unworthy entanglements.spend time.

    Chu Lihua thinks it is too easy to classify, but often there are several situations coexisting in each person's situation.

    Just like her and the previous ones, let's learn from experience in the past.

    So love is of course fate, of course it is the arrangement of fate; of course it is in the boundless wilderness of time, neither one step earlier nor one step later, so you are here too.

    But at the same time, love is also a technology, a science, and a thing that should be treated in the correct way. It does not mean that having love in your heart is enough. Expressing love correctly is as important as having love.

    Love is not a zero-sum game of self-esteem. Chu Lihua thinks this is the most powerful insight she has summed up in 2020.

    Whether it is to suppress the other party's self-esteem or make compromises to please the other party, if there is one party in a relationship with low self-esteem for a long time, then you should let him go.

    Of course, it does not mean that two people must confront each other in a relationship, confront each other, and never give up; but in the long run, for a good relationship, two people must make each other a better person.

    Finally, regarding appearance, Chu Lihua has a sincere feeling.  Because in her own 30 years of life experience, she has never thought that she is a good-looking person; however, appearance has not become a bonus item in her life, and sometimes it does affect other people's first opinion of her.  An impression; but the voice has become her bonus item.

    But that's all. In the end, she still let those who she wanted to be friends become friends with her, and those who hoped that she would like her fell in love with her.

    So appearance will affect the first impression between people, even the first impression for a period of time, but it is really not the final deciding factor.

    Just like Liu Xingting, to be honest, when I was in junior high school, everyone was wearing school uniforms all day long, a young girl who was so dirty (it seems that she can't dress up now??)

    It's just that you have to be a little more patient with yourself and others.  Communication between people is always a marathon, a long-term companionship; so the first one or two kilometers is really not that important.

    I believe that as a person who eventually becomes a lifelong love with junior high school classmates, patience is the best advice time can give.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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