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Meng Xianxiang turned the topic in time, and then continued, "Recently, Lanzhi and I get along well!"
——"Really? It seems that our family of five here is hindering your emotional development. It seems that we have to go out to find a house quickly, and then move out."
Chu Lihua sincerely hoped that Meng Xianxiang would live well.
——"It's outrageous to say this. We were one and lived together all the time. Why did we suddenly move out and waste the rent? When you move out, the room will still be empty. You are not allowed to say this in the future Talk."
Lanzhi also echoed, "Yes, when the time comes, sell this and change to a four or five-bedroom apartment, which will be enough for us to live in."
Meng Xianxiang smiled, deep in his heart he was grateful to Lanzhi. She began to understand herself, and speaking from the bottom of her heart, being able to live with Chu Lihua and Xiao Qi was a family relationship he couldn't let go of.
On the road of life, there are always some unexpected encounters, and there are always some strangers who miss. Fate has gathering and parting, and someone can accompany it, which is a kind of warmth; there is warmth in the heart, and someone can understand it, which is a kind of happiness.
Only when you know each other in the truth can you know each other in your heart;
If you miss the dawn, you can appreciate the evening mist; if you miss the spring flowers, you can accept Qiu Shi; if you miss the sun, you can look up at the stars and moon; if you miss yesterday, you can embrace today!
Seeing the two important women in his life getting along well, Meng Xianxiang felt really satisfied.
Chu Lihua sighed, "Although there are no poems and distant places; but we have ribs and stew."
Meng Xianxiang stood up, "You dog nose is really good, I'm going to see my soup."
Chu Lihua pulled Lanzhi to ask how she and Meng Xianxiang got along these days.
——"Chuchu, I really believe that some people are really kind-hearted. Just like Xiangzi, he doesn't reject me as a child at all."
——"Children are innocent, and he knows that best. Ever have you talked to him about the child's fate?"
——"I haven't yet. When the time comes, let's go for an examination together. Take that girl along. I think she has been reading the books you recommended, and it doesn't seem so hard. She can meet you, really Her luck."
——"I won't talk about these words. I will go with you at that time. It is said that listening to Bach's music during pregnancy will help his brain develop. I have downloaded it before. Let's go and listen together Listen, let's eat."
After returning home after dinner, Chu Lihua couldn't help calling home, "Mom, should you urge Xiaofang to get married?"
——"She doesn't need to worry. Her eyes are fine, so what are you worried about? Just take care of yourself, and you don't have to worry about things at home."
——"I'm not asking, so I'll prepare in advance when the time comes!"
It seems that the man is still hesitating. Chu Lihua really didn't want such a marriage to happen. When the time came, once the truth came out, Xiao Qi's situation
——"Okay, you don't have to worry about it. Just don't let me worry about it yourself. Is there anything else? I'll hang up."
A wry smile appeared on the corner of Chu Lihua's mouth, and finally it was not herself who asked to hang up the phone.
Just as the phone hung up, it rang again.
Chu Lihua didn't even look at it, and then answered, "My lord, is there something I forgot?"
——"What? I'm Yaolivas. Haven't we been together for a long time? I want to ask if you have time?"
——"Great writer! Well, well! I miss everyone so much."
——"It's not suitable to go outside now, we are in Kang Xuming's homestead house, how about it?"
——"Okay, that's it. You can agree on a time and send me one. I can do it anytime."
After hanging up the phone, Chu Lihua immediately revived with full blood, no longer sleepy after dinner, and began to prepare for the party.
By the way, let's send out this exciting news in their small group of four.
The fastest reply was Laneige.
Then Meng Xianxiang called, "Lanzhi, don't play with your phone all the time, it's not good for your health."
Chu Lihua immediately refuted for Lanzhi, "The radiation from mobile phones is not as much as that of TVs, refrigerators, and hair dryers."
Meng Xianxiang: "But you are not that close to these things!"
Qing Yunfei: "Daughter-in-law, she is very affectionate, what are you doing here?"
MengXiangxiang and Lanzhi: ""
Chu Lihua sent a message, I understand, I was wrong. Then they flashed away.
When the party was held, everyone went very early, and Meng Xianxiang took the cushions used on the grassland with him.
Everyone is still used to sitting on the ground and gathering together.
Routine, it still starts with Chu Lihua.
——"Today is the first time we have activities indoors. As the weather changes, we will probably be indoors for a long time in the future.
Speaking of the interior, I have a particularly deep feeling recently.
In fact, not only can we learn a lot when we gather together. When each of us is alone at home, it is also a great opportunity to practice diligently.
Moreover, don't always feel lonely as long as there is no relationship interaction.
Shake WeChat, and you can quickly get to know people around you; all kinds of video chat software make you feel like you are close to each other.
However, does this situation make you feel that the living environment is too crowded, the distance between people is too close, and the attention is forced to focus on the outside world, and it has been a long time since you have calmed down and listened to the voice from your heart?
Many people find that they can't calm down to take a good look at their own thoughts and behaviors, review and summarize, why? Because they lack an ability, that is the ability to be alone.
The word 'communication ability' must be familiar to you, but the word 'alone ability' is probably a bit unfamiliar, right?
If you are interested in searching the Internet, you will find that even if books dedicated to how to cultivate interpersonal skills are stacked together, even if they cannot reach the height of Mount Everest, they are enough to challenge a certain famous mountain and great river. What about books about developing the ability to be alone? Very few.
So, what is the ability to be alone? Let us first mention Winnicott, another big name in the field of psychoanalysis.
Winnicott is a famous British psychologist. He was originally a pediatrician, so he has insight into children's psychological development. He first proposed the concept of 'the ability to be alone'.
He believes that if a child likes to be alone and can enjoy himself, it proves that this is a child with a sense of security.
Why do you say that? If a child clings to his mother and refuses to leave for a moment, it means that he is always worried that his mother will disappear, which is an expression of insecurity;
On the contrary, if a child believes that his mother will not disappear, even if he leaves for a while, he will come back soon, he will stay alone with peace of mind and enjoy himself, which proves that he has a sense of security. "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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