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It's just Lanzhi glanced at Meng Xianxiang secretly, and found that he was looking at herself.
"Hmph!" Lanzhi gave him a supercilious look, then turned around.
Meng Xianxiang was puzzled, why did he suddenly annoy Lanzhi so much?
Just because of the family portrait?
Fortunately, Yao Livas did not pause for long, and temporarily pulled back Meng Xianxiang's thoughts.
¡ª¡ª"In other words, whether it is physical pain or psychological pain, dirty words have a certain degree of relief.
Author Emma Byrne believes that this is because when we swear, we more or less mobilize our violent emotions. When a person is in this state, some chemical reactions will occur in the body to increase the tolerance to pain.
To put it bluntly, it is to numb your pain. You can recall that when you slap the table when you are angry and swearing, the pain you feel is definitely different from when you slap the table when you are idle and have nothing to do.
This is the third function of swear words, which can mobilize violent emotions and numb pain. Thereby playing a role in alleviating pain.
However, note that this does not mean that swear words are painkillers. "
ah? no? Everyone who thought they had found the Universal Pain Relief Pill just now looked at Yao Liwasi with a masked face.
¡ª¡ª"Yes, there have been many experiments showing that swearing only has a relief effect on those sudden, short-term pain.
? For example, being scalded or scolded. If it is a long-term illness, such as food poisoning and stomachache, swearing will not relieve it.
And on the contrary, the more you talk, the worse the pain will be. As for the science behind this, unfortunately, there is still no complete explanation.
We just need to remember that, as a last resort, swear words that come out of the mouth can relieve pain. And strategic, habitual swearing is really useless.
What is the use of swearing? We said three things, to increase communication efficiency, reduce the chance of violence, and relieve pain.
Having said so much today, I definitely didn't want to say bad things to everyone. I just want to say that there is such a fact.
As for how we should treat swear words, I actually have a personal feeling. Some time ago, I met a senior stylist and accidentally talked about the topic of Chinese clothing.
I said, 'The costumes are very complicated and I can't understand them at all. ¡¯ But she told me, ¡®Actually, costumes are not complicated, you only need to remember one key word, that is, uncomfortable.
The more luxurious the clothes and the more high-end clothes, the more uncomfortable it will be for the wearer. It's been that way since centuries ago.
For example, if you tighten your waist so tightly, you will feel out of breath when you put it on. Another example is hanging a bunch of heavy accessories on top of your clothes. Or put on high heels and walk with difficulty.
In other words, the price of a sense of luxury is discomfort. But discomfort is just a feeling. The deep meaning behind it is actually restraint.
Because of the stricter restraint on the body, you will feel uncomfortable. This is the characteristic of Huafu.
And from the costumes, did you find anything? It is the development of society. In fact, there has always been a trend, that is, self-restraint. The more civilization develops, the more stringent is man's self-restraint.
Similarly, in a society, in addition to the visible indicators such as academic qualifications, education level, and social circles, there is always an invisible indicator, which is your degree of self-discipline.
The more restrained you are to yourself, the more advanced you are. Huafu is a typical example. '
Therefore, from this perspective, swearing is instinctive. It is a skill not to swear. "
Making an emergency turn, everyone was in an uproar.
And Meng Xianxiang's face is ugly, co-author I am not capable?
I rely on it!
The excitement is still going on.
Judging from the voice, it should be number five. He said, "People who are usually polite and civilized have been promoted, but they are full of swear words; from this perspective, swearing seems to be a kind of power, which breaks the old framework of the past.
I can say that I am no longer tabooed, which reflects a sense of superiority. Swearing is an instinct, and being able to say it without saying it is a skill.
When people are extremely poor, they call heaven, when they are in extreme pain, they call their mother, and when they are extremely angry, they call other people's mother. These are probably instincts. "
The last sentence is incisive. That sums it up really well. Everyone couldn't help applauding him.
Chu Lihua couldn't help expressing her feelings, "My mother has strictly asked our children not to say any dirty words since I was a child, especially when I was a girl.!
When I started swearing with my roommate for the first time after I was in college, I felt that I had broken some kind of bondage, 'I am free'!
My sister was beaten up when she asked my father what a certain swear word meant when I was young. Under such strict precautions, I have indeed been a "good girl" who speaks civilized language for many years!
When I can swear freely and not even be disciplined, I don't seem to like swearing so much.
Perhaps swearing to me is not only a way to vent my emotions, but also a kind of 'freedom'!
Now I can swear, but I choose not to! "
However, No. 7 has a different point of view, "There are many phenomena in this world that we don't understand or want to eliminate. The reason why they have always existed must have reasons behind their existence. That's what swearing is like.
People often say: A door closed by heaven must open a window for you. Swearing is another window for people, because many problems that cannot be solved through normal channels can be solved through swearing.
This may also be a window left by evolution to human beings. It may not be so good, but sometimes it does have its positive effects in it, so it has been preserved. "
¡ª¡ª"That's right, everything has two sides. And they are often contradictory but symbiotic.
Just like what Yi Zhongtian said, the Chinese are straight but tactful, honest but sophisticated, suspicious but credulous, old-fashioned but flexible;
?Being practical but emphasizing loyalty, emphasizing etiquette but lacking public morality, being moderate but going to extremes, beautiful and frugal but fond of ostentation;
? Obey the ancient law but keep up with the fashion, be content but have a dream, burn incense and tell fortunes but have no sense of religion, love to cuddle but love to fight;
Love to be picky but can smooth things over, don't like to meddle in business but love to gossip, know the truth of seizing the day but advocate taking your time, etc., etc. "
¡ª¡ª"Swearing is an instinct. Not swearing is a skill.
I agree with this sentence emotionally, but I object to it rationally, because the ability not to swear, I personally think that anyone who has gone to school actually has it, and it is not a skill.
With the progress of civilization, everyone is repelled by the instinct of training to swear, but in fact, swearing itself has a certain functionality, which means that everyone should control swearing reasonably. "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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