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Chapter 831 The priority of husband and wife relationship

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    Meng Xianxiang picked up the chopsticks and wiped them with a paper towel, "Lanzhi is a little busy recently, let's talk about it later."

    ——"Nurses work hard, and sometimes they are busy. This is why nurses are very attractive, but they are always reduced to leftover women."

    Qing Yunfei's opening just helped Meng Xianxiang resolve the situation, "Yes, I also agree with this."

    ——"Why! So many people like her, how can she become a leftover woman?"

    Chu Lihua didn't quite understand.

    ——"Because the nurse's work is sometimes not available, and she often can't take care of her family. You think, who wants to marry a daughter-in-law, and doesn't know when she will be able to go home all day long?"

    Qing Yunfei deeply agreed.

    —— "Whoever said it, I will care about her feelings. If she can't take care of it, I will take care of it a little more."

    Meng Xianxiang said as if swearing.

    ——"You are a peerless good man, it's different. If all men are like you and me, then my sister won't be in her thirties and won't be able to find her husband's family."

    After Qing Yunfei finished speaking, he smiled triumphantly at Chu Lihua.

    ——"Chuchu, I admit that I am a peerless good man, is Qing Yunfei?"

    Meng Xianxiang looked at Chu Lihua very seriously and asked.

    ——"You are a peerless good man, and of course my Qing Yunfei is also a peerless good man. Otherwise, how could I like him so much."

    ——"Pfft~ This mouthful of dog food caught me off guard. I'm leaving, you two continue."

    As Meng Xianxiang said, he covered his eyes and prepared to leave. After thinking about it, he turned his head and hugged Xiao Qi.

    Xiaoqi, who was eating happily, yelled and protested.

    Meng Xianxiang let go of his hand quickly, "Xiao Qi~ Have you even started to dislike me? I'm your father!"

    Having said that, Meng Xianxiang went into the house by himself.

    ——"Husband, why do you feel that Xiangzi's back is a bit lonely? Could it be that he and Lanzhi have a problem?"

    Chu Lihua stared at the closed door thoughtfully.

    ——"Anyway, there must be something wrong with him. As for the reason, he won't say it himself, so let's stop guessing. You should go for a routine checkup in just two days, and you can ask Lanzhi to ask about it."

    Chu Lihua nodded, "Yes, yes."

    When Chu Lihua went to the hospital for a pregnancy test, Meng Xianxiang and Qing Yunfei took Xiao Qi to accompany her.

    Along the way, Chu Lihua always felt that Meng Xianxiang was a little weird.

    Unexpectedly, after arriving at the hospital, Qing Yunfei asked Meng Xianxiang to go to Lanzhi to help him join the team, but Meng Xianxiang actually said, "Lanzhi hasn't come to work these days."-

    "Didn't come to work? Is there something wrong? Can we help?"

    After speaking, Qing Yunfei helped Chu Lihua to sit aside, and hurried to register.

    ——"Xiangzi?"

    Chu Lihua looked up at Meng Xianxiang who was holding Xiao Qi.

    ——"Let's talk about this matter later. We really can't do anything now. Sigh~~"

    Meng Xianxiang heaved a long sigh.

    Chu Lihua was silent, let's wait until he wants to speak.

    After checking, go back and wait for the result.

    When approaching the door of the house, Meng Xianxiang suddenly handed Xiaoqi to Qing Yunfei, "You guys go back first, I have something to do when I go out."

    Qing Yunfei took Xiao Qi suspiciously, and before he could ask Meng Xianxiang what was the matter, the man ran away and disappeared.

    —— "It feels like something must have happened between him and Lanzhi."

    ? Chu Lihua is thoughtful

    ——"This is obvious, but what is it that makes Xiangzi so tight-lipped and panicked?"

    Qing Yunfei said, shook his head, took out the key and opened the door.

    When I got home, it was time for Xiaoqi to have fun. Fortunately, a layer of baby crawling mats had been laid on the floor, otherwise, Xiaoqi would be able to climb up the floor after a while.

    After Chu Lihua came home, she felt a little tired, so she leaned on the sofa and rested for a while, "Honey, look at Xiaoqi first, I'm a little tired."——

    "OMG!"

    Qing Yunfei exclaimed in surprise, calling Chu Lihua spirited.

    ——"What's wrong? Shouting."

    ——"Come and see your daughter climbing the refrigerator, my God, is this the reincarnation of a monkey?"

    Chu Lihua walked quickly to the door of the kitchen, and Xiao Qi was lying on the refrigerator door.  Qing Yunfei surrounded him with his arms to protect him.

    ——"This is really?What kind of mother and what kind of baby.  "

    Chu Lihua's face was covered with black lines.

    ——"You were like this when you were a child?"

    ——"No, it's her mother, Chu Lifang, who was like this when she was a child. If I didn't pay attention, I fell down. Then I would be beaten, punished to kneel, and even starved.

    ?History is always repeating itself. When one grows up in fear, another one comes.  "

    ——"Actually, I now regard Xiao Qi as our own. If you didn't say that suddenly, I would have forgotten."

    ——"It's my fault, my mentality is wrong, Xiaoqi will be our child from now on. No one can take her away from us."

    Chu Lihua quickly changed her words.

    ——"Chu'er, you are the greatest hero of your family."

    Qing Yunfei shook Chu Lihua's hand.

    Instead, Chu Lihua walked over and hugged Qing Yunfei's waist.

    "Cluck, hug, dad~"

    Xiao Qi smiled happily beside her.

    ——"No, the children are watching."

    Qing Yunfei embarrassedly pulled Chu Lihua away from his body.

    ——"What's the matter! This child knows from an early age that in her mother's heart, father is the most important thing."

    Chu Lihua said with a smile.

    Qing Yunfei blamed, "Nonsense."

    ——"Really, this is conducive to family harmony. German family therapy master Hellinger emphasized that 'in a family, the relationship between husband and wife has priority', and parents must not 'love their children'  while ignoring the spouse.

    In fact, children are happy to see their parents love each other, instead of all coming to him to compete for love.  If the parents love each other, the child will feel at ease to be a happy child, instead of fantasizing himself as an adult spouse of opposite-sex parents, doing things that are very inconsistent with his age group.  "

    ——"What kind of heresy do you see from an expert? Children are children, and what becomes the spouse of adult parents is a mess."

    ——"It's true, the influence of parents on their children is subtle in life. In their eyes, parents don't need to be so successful or powerful.

    For a child before the age of 3, the way her parents get along determines her future personality development.

    In a family, both parents love their children, but at the same time they love each other deeply. They will not neglect their love for their spouses because they love their children.

    In this way, the child will understand that although the opposite-sex parents love him so much, strong same-sex parents are the best companions for opposite-sex parents, and he is just a child.

    Therefore, they will be children at ease and enjoy the love given to them by their powerful parents.  At the same time, they work hard to get closer to their parents of the same sex, knowing that only by becoming like parents of the same sex can they win more love from parents of the opposite sex.

    Psychologists say: 'This psychological transformation is the fundamental drive for boys to become men and girls to become women.  '

    This is also the most effective way for children to pass through the Oedipus period smoothly.  "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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