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However, it is estimated that Qing Yunfei should talk about altitude sickness, ultraviolet rays and so on.
What a caring and considerate son!
Think about it too, his parents have devoted their whole lives to him; but how long have I been by his side!
Only when you think this way will you feel better.
The result was different from what Chu Lihua expected. However, once you express your thoughts and feelings, it will be fine.
The two sat for a while, Qing Yunfei supported Chu Lihua and walked for a while before returning.
Qing Yunfei went to the kitchen to help Meng Xianxiang, while Chu Lihua watched Xiao Qi in the living room.
I really can't afford to hurt a child who can crawl. In the blink of an eye, she crawled to another room.
In order to prevent Xiao Qi from being injured, Meng Xianxiang just bought anti-collision wall stickers a long time ago.
Chu Lihua had thought about this before, but thinking that this is someone else's house after all, it's not good to do so.
Unexpectedly, Meng Xianxiang bought it himself.
And the things at home, where Xiao Qi can go, he dare not put them.
However, Chu Lihua still underestimated her destructive power.
I haven't seen her for a while, so I went to the bedroom to look for her.
God!
She actually pulled poo, and is still poking it with her own bottle! ! !
Chu Lihua is disgusting!
Sure enough, infants and young children will be curious about their own excrement.
Therefore, Xiao Qi's behavior is just a normal phenomenon.
Chu Lihua wanted to bend down to let Xiao Qi deal with it, but, forget it, I can only think about it, bending down is too strenuous now.
¡ª¡ª"Xiaoqi is playing with papa, come and help me!"
Chu Lihua yelled towards the kitchen at the top of her voice.
The youngest one came was Qing Yunfei, "I just let you watch a child, why do you treat it like this? What else do you think you can do?"
Following closely behind, Meng Xianxiang quickly picked up Xiao Qi and ran to the bathroom.
Chu Lihua was very helpless, "Don't you talk like this every time? I don't want to be like this either! In the blink of an eye, she will climb far away, and I can't even catch up. You know that I am in a special situation, so you just do it for me a little bit." Think about it, okay?"
¡ª¡ª"Day by day, I can't help you if you are busy, and it will be a waste of help."
After Qing Yunfei finished talking, he took Xiaoqi's clothes and went to the bathroom.
Then he came back with tools and started to tidy up Xiaoqi's battlefield.
The mouth was not idle, "What do you think is going to be done! The old and the young are not worried, and there will be two younger ones in the future. My life is hard! I will be exhausted sooner or later."
These words were not pleasant to hear in Chu Lihua's ears.
Moreover, there is a vaguely familiar smell.
It feels like Qing Yunfei is a replica of his previous mother!
History is always surprisingly similar!
Why is this so?
Chu Lihua thought about the secret again, and kept thinking about things with that frequency, and would use things that attracted that frequency.
Is this really the case?
Is there any basis?
Chu Lihua really found a basis.
Psychologically, "Once you say a word, you will fall in love with the word you said, and out of the most essential narcissistic needs of human beings, you will push things in the direction of this prophecy, Prove that you are right."
There is also an example in the book, which is a real case.
A woman is a department-level cadre in a big city. She is in good condition in all aspects, but she often goes to work with a bruised nose and a bruised face because of her husband's domestic violence.
?The first husband was violent, so she divorced; the second husband was violent, and she divorced again. When she was divorced for the second time, she was exactly 40 years old, and she vowed never to marry again, because she felt that men were not good things.
But there is a good man who has been pursuing her. This pursuer is not violent to women, he never even quarrels with women. After the lady divorced, he pursued her more attentively, and the lady was moved, so she married him.
Unexpectedly, in the second week after getting married, she was beaten again. She called a few friends to come to see her, and it happened that one of them was a psychiatrist friend.
You can imagine what you would do on this occasion. I guess, nine out of ten people will accuse the domestic violence man. That's what her friends did, and they asked the domestic abuser, "Don't you know how unfortunate she is, how could you do this to her!"
However, unlike my psychologist friend, she did not participateInstead of taking responsibility, ask, "Please tell me, what happened to you guys? Can you give me the details."
That psychiatrist friend also deliberately used the "concrete" dialogue technique.
Concretization is a commonly used method in psychology. It is necessary to figure out the details of a person's words in order to know what the other person means, because words are very easy to be vague and ambiguous.
Details are the devil. Once the devilish details were told, everyone fell silent, and no one blamed this man.
The detail is that they quarreled over trivial matters, like cooking salt incorrectly, the more they quarreled, the more intense the quarrel, the woman said to the man: "Do you want to hit me? Like so-and-so hit me." Like my mother!"
The woman said so-and-so was her father, because she hated her father so much, so she always called him by his first name.
The man said, "How is it possible? It's strange that I quarreled with you like this today. I don't usually quarrel with women."
The woman became hysterical and started yelling: "You just want to hit me! Hit me! Hit me! If you don't hit me, you're not a man!"
When she first yelled, the man didn't do anything, but after she yelled madly many times, the man's head went blank suddenly, and then he punched out, knocking the woman he loved the most to the ground, bleeding from the corner of his mouth.
When the man's head was blank, a very important change actually took place, that is, he was brainwashed.
Originally, he had a positive self-fulfilling prophecy "I am a good man", but it was washed away by his wife's prophecy "men are not good".
A woman predicted that men are not good things, and when she really meets a good man, she will transform him into a bad man, so that although she lives in pain, it proves that she is right . There are no good men at all!
Boom!
When Chu Lihua saw this, she instantly felt her head explode.
She has never figured out how to be a good husband, a husband that she has worked hard to get. In the blink of an eye, you will become someone like this
A self-fulfilling prophecy!
It turns out that everything is connected!
Whether it's secrets or psychology, it's all about the same thing!
In my heart, I always feel very worried and afraid when Qing Yunfei treats me very well, fearing that all this will disappear.
I always worry that everything I choose is wrong.
Even when Qing Yunfei "turned bad", he would secretly say something in his heart, look, he really did. I am right! (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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