Still only Meng Xianxiang was busy at home with the odd jobs he took over from the Internet, and Chu Lihua and Meng Xianxiang were planning their joint creation step by step.
But because of this, the burden of housework fell on Qing Yunfei.
Chu Lihua thought that she could be a happy pregnant woman quietly.
However, things sometimes appear suddenly and inadvertently without warning.
Qing Yunfei suddenly felt that cooking was an annoying thing, and lost his temper a lot.
I really don't know why, so I said I was in a bad mood when I asked.
After that, Chu Lihua and Meng Xianxiang could only offer a few words of comfort, and then they each started to busy themselves with their own affairs.
This time, Chu Lihua began to read various parenting books, gathered the strengths of each family, and selected reliable experience information from them.
Suddenly, Qing Yunfei, who was squatting to choose vegetables, fell to the ground and knocked over a cabinet of things.
Chu Lihua and Meng Xianxiang both ran over when they heard the commotion.
Just as he was about to stretch out his hand to pull Qing Yunfei, Qing Yunfei suddenly said, "What use is there for you."
Chu Lihua froze in place.
Meng Xianxiang turned around and pulled Chu Lihua away.
Back in the room, Chu Lihua couldn't hold back her tears anymore.
¡ª¡ª"Xiangzi, I want to leave here. I really don't want to see him again. What kind of life does he want? If he feels that what I give is not what he wants? Why don't you want to leave?"
¡ª¡ª"Chuchu, don't cry, it's not good for the child."
¡ª¡ª"Why do I live a good life like this? Is it really because everyone is born to suffer?"
¡ª¡ª"No, everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness. Don't think so. No matter how far you look in one direction, you may not be able to see a new direction.
Anyone can discover a gate, but a small gate leading to a secluded path may lead us to see new scenery. Always walking on the old road may not be able to reach new places.
Try to jump out of everything now, and look at this matter from the perspective of a bystander.
In the past, I could always give you a different point of view and help you solve the problems you encountered at that time.
Now, why can't I do it?
Am I becoming stupid?
I think, the deeper reason is that I am always with you, I put myself into your life, I am no longer a bystander. "
Meng Xianxiang's introspection made Chu Lihua calm down.
yes! I used to give advice to many people.
However, every time I encounter my own affairs, which one is not handled in a mess.
Is it self-righteous when giving advice?
However, others really find it useful!
It's a matter of perspective. I always find a way out on my own road, but I can only try one after another and move forward in the process of continuous trial and error.
Many times, instead of moving forward, we are going backward.
There are too many forks in the road, and the number of permutations and combinations is even greater.
In this way, every time I fail, I doubt my ability once, and my high morale is worn away a little bit.
The exit of the maze will never be found.
The correct way is to jump out and stand outside to have a bird's-eye view of the whole situation, so that it is easy to find the way out, and then mark them clearly one by one, then go in and start again.
Should a bad hand really be discarded?
Feelings, it is always said in secret, a person's feelings will attract things with the same frequency.
? On the contrary, during the whole process, did everyone pay attention to their own feelings, and speak out and tell each other about their feelings.
At the same time, when the other party is calm, write down the changes in his feelings after experiencing this incident.
Then, start from the feeling.
Why do you have such feelings, and what kind of attention do you hope to get from the other party?
Men are from Mars and women are from Venus It is said that men are cave animals, and when they are hurt, they need to be given a space to lick their wounds alone.
Women are talking animals, and they want to share everything with each other. And you have to get the response and care you want, so that you can feel comfortable physically and mentally.
Is it really?
I am.
& nbsp; But Qing Yunfei, give him space to lick and lick alone, he is not happy, he feels that no one cares about him, cares about him.
Without giving space, he feels that he has no personal freedom.
Perhaps, what he wants, he should say it himself. What's more, it was done through calm deliberation, not out of anger, or perfunctory in order to complete the task.
Bit by bit, Chu Lihua wrote thousands of words eloquently. Then, knowing that Qing Yunfei didn't like to read words at all, he made a recording according to the manuscript, and asked Meng Xianxiang to help send it to Qing Yunfei by email.
Then, Chu Lihua took out another letter of thanks.
? It records all the help and gratitude he has given to himself since he met Meng Xianxiang.
¡ª¡ª"What? You also wrote me a letter? Do you still have to treat it fairly and record it for me?"
Meng Xianxiang took it with a smile, still joking.
¡ª¡ª"If you think that's better, I'd be happy too."
Chu Lihua smiled back.
Meng Xianxiang raised the letter in Yang's hand, Chu Lihua nodded and left.
The moment Meng Xianxiang disappeared at the door, the smile on his face disappeared.
He stroked the envelope seriously. I don't really want to open it, I'm afraid the contents inside
Touching it carefully, he felt the unevenness of the letter paper inside, and he was surprised.
When I opened it, there were many deep and shallow dried tears on the letter paper.
The elegant and somewhat familiar font just broke into Meng Xianxiang's eyes unexpectedly.
Every word and sentence, read the past carefully.
It turned out that she still remembered everything she had done.
Her every frown and smile at that time still echoed in her mind.
Everything you pay is worth it.
But, I didn't expect that in the end, she would end with all kinds of thanks.
I also hope that he can find his own happiness, and feel that I have disturbed him for too long.
She, are you planning to leave?
Your own problems, you still have to solve them yourself.
But, why does this make my heart empty?
Still selfishly keeping her? Or, should I bless her like a good friend?
But with her current appearance, how can she feel at ease when she leaves?
What is your own life, you should bear it yourself.
Commitment to what? Is that the cloudy man?
The notification tone of the phone's Ding Dong showed that Chu Lihua had sent a message.
Qing Yunfei pretended not to see it, but still couldn't help reaching out for the phone.
The thumb stayed on top of the unlock button for a long time, struggling in my heart whether to open it or not.
While thinking, Chu Lihua wrote down all her feelings during the process. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com