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Chapter 751 I Just Want You To Talk To Me Well

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    After listening for a long time, Qing Yunfei finally found a breakthrough where he could speak.

    ¡ª¡ª"Those books are all chicken soup for the soul. Believe in them, and you will live in fairy tales like you. Have they succeeded by following their uh uh methods?

    Their success is to write books to tell others how to succeed.  Like Robert Kiyosaki who wrote Rich Dad Poor Dad.  His greatest success is through this series of rich dad books.  "

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    Chu Lihua was really speechless for a while.

    After thinking for a while, she said slowly, "The book, you forget it after reading it. Kiyosaki wrote very clearly in the book how he went from being poor to being rich.

    Moreover, the most important thing is not to let you copy their offending behavior, but to learn the thinking of rich dad.

    Just think about it this way, there are so many smart people in the world, why does his book become a bestseller!  It is because the thoughts inside really make people feel that it is worth the money.

    Moreover, his book was published in the 1990s, and when he came to China, it happened to catch up with the rapid development of China's real estate industry.

    If we had read his book from the very beginning, even if we copied the homework, we could still make a lot of money, right?  "

    This time, Qing Yunfei was silent.

    After a long time, he said, "Isn't the five self-realizations not finished yet! Continue."

    Chu Lihua smiled, but Qing Yunfei was stubborn.  He admitted it in his heart, but he would never admit it with his mouth-

    "The fourth is what we have been doing just now - communication.

    Born in the vast world and growing up in the vast sea of ??people, communication is indispensable for us every day.

    A sunny smiling face, an affectionate greeting, a disdainful look, or a cold word, of course, the communication effect brought about is very different.

    Effective two-way communication means that I have expressed my message, and the other party's response is what I expect;

    Or, the other party may not accept my opinion, but he is willing to learn more about what I mean, or he puts forward his own opinion to discuss with me. This is good communication.

    Communication is a very important link in human relationship.

    In novels, we can often read stories like this, a man and a woman, in their prime of life, fell in love at first sight; but because of their reserve and shyness, or the obstacles of secular involvement, they were hesitating and brewing with each other, but did not say it out loud, and then  By accident, everyone has gone their separate ways.

    Time passed, and when they met again, the two were already gray-haired-this is the legendary "this love can be turned into a memory".

    Love needs to be spoken, and the same is true of any kind of communication.  There are too many misses in this world because of misunderstanding the other party's thinking, and refusing to express oneself clearly, and many tragedies arise because of this.

    Therefore, in the relationship between people, the hypotheses that can be reduced should be minimized. If you want to express, then express it. If you want to communicate, then you should communicate without being timid.

    When communicating, we must adopt an appropriate language mode.

    Language reveals the deep connotation of a person's state of mind and thoughts. At the same time, we can also use language to improve our own and others' state of mind and thoughts, thereby changing behavior and results.

    As the saying goes, "A good word will warm the winter three times, and a bad word will hurt others and the June cold", this is the truth.  Although we don't have to pursue eloquence and wit.

    In fact, it is impossible for everyone in the world to reach the state of embroidered speech, but as long as you put your heart into it, most people can communicate freely using appropriate language.

    Communication is very important, and it is equally important to choose the appropriate language mode. A positive language mode can make us clear in our goals, clear in our hearts, and have a sense of strength. Therefore, not only the effect of benign communication has been achieved, but it can also make our lives more sunny and more  positive.  "

    These words were the core of Chu Lihua's discussion with Qing Yunfei for a long time. She hoped that she could have a good talk with her.

    Seeing that Qing Yunfei was still silent, Chu Lihua, who knew him well, continued, "The last is emotion.

    Emotions are the most influential, important and fundamental subject in life.

    People have their joys and sorrows, and the moon has its ups and downs. Looking at ancient and modern times, how many stories have ended in tragedy because of the protagonist's unrestrained emotions?

    ?Look around, how many people are darkened by emotional distress?

    The highest state of life, perhaps, should be calm and calm, which contains a positive and courageous, and tolerance and generosity contains confidence and confidence in the future.longing.

    However, in today's complex and changeable society, everyone is under a lot of pressure, and our emotions are often adversely affected.

    So can emotions be controlled?  I want to tell you, the answer is yes.

    Why?  Traditionally, people think that emotions are always produced because of the presence of certain people and things.

    But in fact, the real source of emotions is people's inner belief system, external things are just inducements, and inner beliefs are the determining factors.

    Let's take an example.  For example, I suddenly came to scold you, and for a meaningless trivial matter, I continued to scold you more and more fiercely, and said some insulting words to you in public.

    At this time, you must be full of anger, you think I must be targeting you, and your emotions are very bad because of this, right?

    However, suppose, when you wake up in the morning, you receive a call from a friend of mine, telling you that I just got out of the mental hospital yesterday.

    As soon as you put down the phone, I rushed to you and yelled at you again, which was exactly the same as the previous behavior, but what would your emotions be like at this time?

    Maybe it's more about fear and worry, afraid that I will hurt you, and worried that my mental state has not recovered yet.

    You see, what does it mean that the exact same behavior elicits a completely different emotional response?

    This shows that things themselves do not determine emotions, it is you, your inner belief system, that determines your emotions.

    Therefore, by changing your belief system, you can change the emotions that things bring to you, and you can even further control your emotions so that negative emotions can be transformed into positive ones for your use.

    What must be understood is that emotions do not matter good or bad, all emotions are reasonable, it is an inseparable part of our life, it is faithful and reliable to us, and never deceives us.

    So emotions are never a problem, they teach us, let us learn and gain something in things.

    Therefore, we must be good at being with our emotions and let it serve our life instead of being our master.

    If you don't feel happy when you don't move, you are controlled by your emotions and become a slave to your emotions.  "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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