Qing Yunfei sighed softly and struggled for a long time before opening his mouth slowly.
¡ª¡ª"Don't take her back to the Northeast, don't post it in Moments."
¡ª¡ª"Thank you husband! I knew it, you are the best!"
Chu Lihua jumped up with joy and almost knocked over a table full of food.
After communicating with Qing Yunfei, Chu Lihua waited for Chu Lifang's classmate to finish confinement, and then took over the child.
She began to prepare a lot of things, milk powder, small clothes, diapers, and various plush toys.
Chu Lihua was excited, as if that child was really the one that had been lost.
The ideal is full, but the reality is cruel.
All the good things in the fantasy did not come. On the first day when the child was picked up, she cried and screamed, making Chu Lihua at a loss for what to do, no matter how coaxed, she was not good.
The milk powder is even more unwilling to eat, and the little face is crying and red. His voice was hoarse from crying and he didn't stop.
If I had known earlier, I should have stayed with her biological mother for a few days to let the baby get used to it.
It's just that Chu Lihua didn't even see that Chu Lifang's classmate.
Such a cruel mother, she gave birth to her own child, if she said no, she would just let it go.
Qing Yunfei went to the airport to pick up the client.
Chu Lihua walked around the house in despair. She had just learned how to hold a baby, but that little guy cried more and more the more she hugged her.
Courses, hurry up and find out what courses are available.
Chu Lihua quickly opened the learning app on her mobile phone, but after searching for a long time, there is really no such course!
By the way, the little girl on the train!
Psychology, psychology is definitely useful.
Chu Lihua felt that all her previous homework was for nothing, but when she panicked all of a sudden, her mind went blank.
Understand the baby's needs.
Only nature could have figured out such an effective way to give helpless babies some attention. Once you start paying attention to her, you look for the reason for her crying and offer a solution.
Is she hungry? Feed her something to eat.
Did she pee? Change her a diaper.
Does she feel lonely? Hold her for a while.
Is she gassy? Burp her.
Does she feel cold? Wrap her tighter.
Chu Lihua tried one by one, but nothing was right.
Why was the kid on the train okay? Chu Lihua continued to read.
When all of these methods don't work, well, you're really in trouble. It is estimated that 1 in 5 babies will have recurrent episodes of severe crying for no apparent reason.
It is clearly a sweet baby, but now her eyes are closed, her face is flushed and she is crying non-stop.
"You kept crying when you were a child. I was very annoying to you. I wanted to throw you off the stairs when I was annoyed by your crying several times. Your father picked you up and bumped you while working. good."
Chu Lihua suddenly remembered what her mother had said to herself before.
It seems that this child is really destined for me!
A baby's cry is a heart-wrenching sound.
"Is she in pain somewhere?"
"Did I spoil her?"
"Does she feel abandoned?"
"Am I a terrible mother?"
Questions flashed in Chu Lihua's mind one after another.
This time, she gently hugged little Chu Hanxi, trying her best to make her feel her love.
Contemporary parents are arguably the least experienced parenting generation ever. (Surprisingly, in our culture, you need a driver's license to drive, but you don't have to learn anything to raise children.)
According to the book, a human baby is a young child who is forced out of the womb before it is fully developed, because the human birth canal cannot accommodate a fully developed baby's head.
It seems that a newborn foal or calf can stand up straight away. These small animals can walk and even run on the day they are born.
In fact, they must have the ability to run, otherwise they cannot survive.
That, that is, it is best to create an environment that makes the baby feel like he is still in the womb. But what is it like in the womb?
In the womb, the baby is tightly wrapped by the warm walls of the uterus in a fetal position and spends most of the dayRock and shake back and forth with the mother's movements.
She was also surrounded by a constant "hush" sound, which was probably slightly louder than a vacuum cleaner!
That's why nearly every traditional method of soothing babies around the world mimics the sensations of the womb.
We swaddle babies securely, we rock them, we say "shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!" Smile and join the new family.
The experience of full development is not only good for peaceful babies, but also indispensable for crying babies.
Chu Lihua put the baby down, wrapped the baby in a swaddle that she thought she was going to go out with, and then picked her up again, shaking her gently.
¡ª¡ª"Baby, do you feel scared? Mom is here, and Mom's arms are still your warm haven."
Chu Lihua was shaking while talking to her softly.
It seems that the crying seems to be quieter.
Chu Lihua began to sing lullabies and nursery rhymes again.
Finally, little Chu Hanxi stopped crying. Close your eyes and fall asleep.
A great sense of happiness came over me, as long as she fell asleep, it would be fine.
It's just that Chu Lihua was too happy. She was worried that the baby would not be able to make any noise when she was asleep, so she stopped singing.
Soon, the little guy pouted his mouth and was about to cry again.
Chu Lihua quickly hummed again.
Later, when her voice was too dry, Chu Lihua recorded her own voice and played it in a loop.
Later, Chu Lihua suddenly understood that this is called white noise, which is not needed for adults to sleep, but also for babies.
I slowly got used to it when the war was in turmoil.
In the beginning, Chu Lihua didn't know how to change diapers, and it was everywhere. She wanted to cry, but she lost her temper.
When Qing Yunfei came back again, Chu Hanxi was already a well-behaved and cute baby.
Sometimes, Qing Yunfei would tease her and even take pictures of her.
It's just that Chu Hanxi is too young to respond.
She can only laugh, cry, drink milk and sleep.
Although some experts said that holding a baby as soon as it cries will spoil her, Chu Lihua doesn't care, she wants to give Han Xi the most timely response.
The psychological book she had read said - the place of no response is a dead end.
She found that her response gave Hanxi a sense of security and a conditioned reflex.
As long as she hugs her, the little guy will definitely stop crying.
The child gradually grew, and Chu Lihua liked it more and more, and gave her a pet name, Xiaoqi.
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