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Chapter 687 Only six hundred eighty-seven the experience of failure is also useful

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    If it weren't for the husband of Chu Lihua's first client (the couple who was later robbed by a group) to feel sorry for herself, Chu Lihua really wouldn't investigate the reasons for this.

    Because later, he had a better attitude towards that group of older salesmen.

    Chu Lihua wanted to know the reason, so she went to check the relevant information.  At first I thought it was because of my business ability.  I didn't know until I checked that some older people always think that young people are unreliable.

    Fortunately, the lesson from the past is the teacher of the past.

    At this moment today, Chu Lihua used the previous knowledge instead.

    After a pause, seeing that the uncle did not refute, Chu Lihua went on to say, "It's like when a boy plays basketball, he thinks of a girl next to him to cheer him on;

    Brother fought side by side with him, no matter whether he was injured or not, he wished to fight the other party to the death.

    But in adulthood, what plays a dominant role in your life becomes the control system, you will no longer do whatever you want, and most of the time you are suppressing your impulses.

    At the same time, gradually develop the ability to deal with problems, maintain calm and make decisions.

    The more the control system is exercised, the more mature it will be, just like we make the plan better through continuous modification, and finally become a good planner.

    And the changes in the collaborative relationship between these two systems have led to the problem we just mentioned-one generation is not as good as one generation.

    In the past, these two systems were largely synchronized, and emotion and control occurred at the same time, which meant that people were practicing the ability to control emotions and deal with crises through continuous practice.

    For example, in hunting societies and farming societies, children hunt and cultivate the land with adults at a very young age, and they have ample opportunities to practice skills that will be used in adulthood.

    But now, just like us post-90s, before the age of 20, there is almost no need to master any skills except for exams.  Therefore, the two systems are separated.

    When we learn skills the fastest, we only have emotions, but when it is time to use certain skills, we find that our emotions have not been managed well.

    Moreover, the current law divides juveniles and adults too clearly. There is a clear time point for entering adulthood, assuming legal responsibility, and taking a driver's license test.

    However, this has no guiding significance for real life, and no one can develop a certain ability overnight.

    Therefore, we should also create an environment for young people and give them a buffer period, just like the "probationary period" for a driver's license, consciously allowing young people to participate in more social activities and increase their practical experience before they reach adulthood.

    Learning is a good thing, but too much is too much, the key is to get the scale right.

    And these are not problems that we can control, but are driven by the social environment.  "

    ——"So, you mean, all this is caused by society?"

    ——"The environment is uncontrollable, but we can control ourselves."

    After Chu Lihua finished speaking, the carriage fell silent.

    Fortunately, this situation didn't last long, and we reached the door of the inn.

    Qing Yunfei and the driver were responsible for moving the luggage. Chu Lihua took them to check it out, and the environment was still very satisfactory.

    ——"Aunt Dong, why don't you sit and rest in the yard first and drink some hot tea."

    Seeing everyone looking around curiously, Chu Lihua suggested.

    ——"Xiao Chu, although it is not a very hot summer yet, the temperature outside is indeed a bit hot. Why do you still contact us for hot tea?"

    Aunt Dong's tone was calm, without any hint of blame.

    ——"That's right, Aunt Dong, I'm also worried that everyone will not be acclimatized when they first come to Yunnan.

    And it is mentioned in "The Yellow Emperor's Internal Classic, Plain Questions, Different Methods and Methods", that diet should also pay attention to eating according to the place.

    The so-called eating according to the land means "one side of the water and soil supports the other side's people".

    In other words, people in each region have different characteristics of physical and psychological needs. To live in a certain place, you have to adapt to the local environment.

    After going to other places, before we eat all the local things, the first thing is to drink the local water first, and don't drink mineral water, unless you have been drinking mineral water.

    Boil the water and make a cup of local tea.  This is called "going to the court to ask the etiquette, and doing as the Romans do when you go to the country", and it is also called to try the water and soil there first, so that you can avoid getting sick due to unacceptable water and soil.

    Generally speaking, northerners are most likely to experience acclimatization in the south, mainly because the humidity in the south is relatively high, while the north is drier."

    Chu Lihua explained gently and earnestly.

    ——"Little girl, your name is Xiao Chu? That's right, you are indeed a kind-hearted person with a bit of ink in your belly, and you are still careful. You have already thought of acclimatization."

    Still that familiar voice.

    ——"Uncle, I can get a compliment from you, I can eat an extra bowl of rice today."

    ?Chu Lihua's response to the weather.

    ——"Well, then as you said, let's take a rest in this courtyard, tease the peacocks, and drink some hot tea.

    By the way, do you know any other methods?  "

    ——"Eat tofu, the tofu made from local soybeans and local water is easy to digest, and it is also easy for the stomach to adapt to the diet of the new environment."

    ——"Okay, yes, old Dong, you really have a good eye."

    The uncle patted Aunt Dong on the shoulder.

    ——"Haha, old squad leader, if I can get your words, I'm worth it."

    ——"In these years, we have worked hard for the country and our children. Now, we can finally have time to get together. It's great!"

    The old squad leader sat down, and the others followed suit.

    Although we all know their names.  Unfortunately, I can't match the number.

    ——"Xiao Chu, this tea is good, where did you buy it, and you can take some back when the time comes."

    —— "Drinking this tea is good for your health. You should drink it for a few days, and when you really need it, I will ask the locals first.

    I bought this tea in the scenic area alone, and wasted money.  "

    Chu Lihua spoke bluntly.

    Qing Yunfei also got along with his uncle and aunt very quickly.

    Chu Lihua once again marveled at her ability to capture middle-aged and elderly people.

    No wonder, none of his previous clients were young.

    Old Qing Yunfei was busy pouring tea for them to chat, while Chu Lihua was stunned aside.

    This time it is done and can be copied.

    However, their small team of Qingchu should be mainly elderly people who are "disliked" by a travel agency.

    Some travel agencies have an age limit of 60, and some are 65. There is no age limit for cruise ships, but children are required to sign a waiver agreement for them.

    In other words, as a group of them, there are too many travel restrictions.

    However, the risk is indeed a bit high.  So, be careful.

    When the elderly come out to play, one is companionship and the other is safety.

    After resting for a while, Aunt Dong started to go shopping in the ancient city.

    Looking at the current temperature outside, it is really suitable for going out for a walk.

    These guys have good physical strength.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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