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Chapter 643 Live by yourself, let others live too

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    ——"Living in the present? Can this be understood as carpe gratification? Shouldn't everyone have a plan in life? If you have a plan, you think it's planning the future? After planning, do you still live in the present? Moreover, the past is indelible.  ! Even if it fails, there are certain lessons to learn from.”

    Following the thinking of her brain, Chu Lihua articulated her own problems like a cannonball.

    ——"People are now thinking about past failures, maybe in order not to make the same mistakes again. Planning for the future can actually prevent possible disasters. Philosophical thought itself is something of subjective consciousness, so for Schopenhauer's suggestion  , we have to take something, but also have something to give up.

    Therefore, I said at the beginning that Schopenhauer said that the views are limited, and I did not say that you should accept them all.  "

    ——"Well, I misunderstood. My way of thinking is not fully opened. Mr. Qin, you continue."

    This time, Chu Lihua's attitude was more respectful.

    ——"After talking about how to treat yourself. Let's talk about the second attitude, which is how to treat others. To survive in this world, we always need to cooperate or deal with others.

    Schopenhauer suggested that when we get along with people, we must master two abilities: one is "foresight", which can help us avoid being hurt; the other is "forgiveness", which can prevent us from being affected by right and wrong in the crowd.  troubled.

    I summed up this meaning with a Chinese saying: "You must have the heart to guard against others, and you must not have the heart to harm others."

    Schopenhauer also quoted a common saying.  Translated into the vernacular, it means "the forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds".

    On the premise of acknowledging this fact, to survive in the crowd, we must allow others to have their own individuality.

    We should neither expect others to change their personalities nor condemn others for having a different personality than mine.  This is "live and let others live".

    Regarding attitude adjustment, let's summarize: The way to pursue happiness in life is to reduce pain.

    And the way to reduce pain is not to let yourself live in the pain of the past, not let yourself be troubled by future anxiety, and fully enjoy the peace of the present.

    When getting along with others, you need to accept their individuality and tolerate their shortcomings.  Look for common interests between yourself and others, and cooperate friendly.  "

    We should neither expect others to change their personalities nor condemn others for having a different personality than mine.  This is "live and let others live".

    Chu Lihua carefully read this passage.

    ——"Schopenhauer said that the pursuit of life should not be wealth, but wisdom. This should also be a philosopher's theory, not a point of view of us laymen."

    ——"Many people may think that as long as people acquire wealth and have money, they can buy almost everything, and material satisfaction and enjoyment are tangible "happiness".

    Although, we know that money is not everything, but many people are busy all day long, the most basic purpose is to pursue "freedom of wealth".  This couldn't be more realistic.

    When it comes to the pursuit of wealth, we must have a rational limit.

    Whether the desire for wealth can be satisfied is not determined by the absolute amount of wealth, but by the relative amount.

    The so-called "relative quantity", as I understand it, is the quantity that is adequate, as long as you are sensible and think it is enough.

    ?Because irrational people pursue wealth without end.  Wealth is like salty sea water: the more sea water a man drinks, the thirstier he becomes.

    Schopenhauer said that man is a species with desires, and the most direct way to satisfy desires is to pursue wealth, and another one is social status, that is, reputation.

    With wealth, status, and reputation, it is possible to satisfy people's desires. The desire is endless, and the pursuit of wealth is also endless. However, those who bear huge wealth but do not use it rationally will often be entrapped by wealth.  .  "

    This reminds Chu Lihua of "The Story of the Fisherman and the Goldfish". There are three characters in it. The goldfish is like an omnipotent god. It can make people feel happy and happy by satisfying people's material needs.

    As for the fisherman, he is a contented person.  For him, it is very happy to get a beautiful house for nothing.

    And his wife, that greedy old woman, always felt that she deserved more.

    That is to say, there is nothing wrong with pursuing wealth, but you must have a measure in your heart, and you must not fall into the abyss of desire.

    The old woman's desire is constantly expanding, just like drinking seawater.?, the more you drink, the thirstier you become.  Therefore, at the end of the story, all the wealth vanished and pain returned.

    ——"Here, you can go down and have a look, this street has a rich variety of food."

    The driver interrupted Chu Lihua who was in deep thought.

    ——"Master, how good this is, you can go and eat with us too! It saves you from going out to eat alone."

    Chu Lihua didn't make her own claim, but the rules of the chartered car that she knew when she went to Shangri-La before.

    ——"Girl, thank you for your kindness. I ate at home before I came to pick you up."

    The driver said happily.

    After a few people got out of the car, they started looking for food along that street. Everyone was attracted by their favorite signs and discussed which one to go to.

    In the end, Qin Qing chose a local specialty restaurant.

    Unknowingly, several people have involuntarily regarded Qin Qing as the backbone.

    After sitting down, I took the menu handed over by the waiter and looked through it. The waiter poured tea and introduced local specialties to them.

    Most of the food here is pasta and various bacon.

    Chu Lihua originally thought that everyone would order and eat together, but such a special snack seemed a bit inappropriate.

    In the end, Qin Qing ordered cured pork, braised oxtail and gourd chicken as common dishes. Originally, each person ordered one, but there were only a few in total, so he ordered one to try.

    Then there are all kinds of noodles and cakes, just order what you like.

    When Chu Lihua pointed at the picture, Qing Yunfei would read the name of the dish beside him, with a questioning tone, as if asking for his opinion.

    Chu Lihua was really moved by Qing Yunfei's thoughtfulness.

    ——"I want to try both the authentic Shaanxi cold noodle and this rice noodle."

    Chu Lihua muttered in confusion.

    ——"Then order them all. You can try it when the time comes. You can eat whichever you like more, and I will eat the rest."

    —— "What if I like to eat them all?"

    Chu Lihua said mischievously on purpose.

    ——"Then you can eat it all, anyway, you can't eat much, and I can eat enough after cleaning up the battlefield."

    From Qing Yunfei's tone, Chu Lihua heard a deep pampering, and the smile on his face became bigger and bigger, and all creases appeared.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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