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Chapter 620 Seems to understand

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    —— "Doesn't your landlord allow more people to live?"

    ——"No, when we were renting, in order to keep the price down, we said we lived in one family, but now it has become two families, will she still come over? At that time, it is estimated that the rent increase will be a trivial matter, and the contract may be broken  Ah! We also signed the contract in black and white. Sigh~"

    Tang Tingting sighed with melancholy.

    At this moment, Chu Lihua seemed to understand Tang Xue's "ruthlessness".  Yu Xiaqiu doesn't know how to think about others. If they live together, relatives will easily become enemies.

    Can you blame her for this character?

    ——"Let's all try our best to find a house that suits her price."

    Chu Lihua felt that her "unfeeling" had hurt Tang Tingting.

    ——"That's the only way. I hope she will understand us."

    Tang Tingting sighed and hung up.

    Actually, Chu Lihua knew that she should understand Yu Xiaqiu.

    The reason why she became like this, or she was like this, has a lot to do with the environment in which she grew up.

    Byrne believes that everyone forms a "life script" in childhood, just like a person's life script, which will have a beginning, unfolding, climax, ending and epilogue.

    For some reasons, Chu Lihua deliberately studied the children of single-parent families.  The "Oedipus complex" is the critical period.

    But Yu Xiaqiu, she is not only a child sent out, but also a child who grew up in a single-parent family.

    "To pass the Oedipus period smoothly, the key is to have a harmonious and balanced relationship between husband and wife," said Hu Shenzhi, a consultant. "Both parents love their children, but they love each other deeply at the same time. They will not neglect their children just because they love their children."  Love for a spouse. This way the child learns that although the opposite parent loves him so much, the strong same parent is the best partner for the opposite parent and he is just a child.

    Therefore, they will be children at ease and enjoy the love given to them by their powerful parents.  At the same time, they work hard to get closer to their parents of the same sex, knowing that only by becoming like parents of the same sex can they win more love from parents of the opposite sex.  "

    Yu Xiaqiu has never experienced these things.  Therefore, she may not have the consciousness to consider issues from the perspective of others.

    At the same time, for a very young child, as long as there is one person who loves him, he is satisfied.  But a three-year-old child will long to have the complete love of his parents at the same time.

    That is to say, he longs for the love of his parents of the same sex as well as that of his parents of the opposite sex.  "If one is missing, he will create another image." This is what the famous psychologist Hu Shenzhi said.

    Yu Xiaqiu should have transformed herself into a person similar to her mother according to her understanding of her mother's image.  That's why it's like this.

    Thinking of this, Chu Lihua began to understand her mother.

    The reason why she "loves" herself in this way is probably influenced by her grandmother.

    In those days, children were just one more labor force.

    Boys, perhaps, will still be valued.  If it is a girl, it is estimated that it is really a loser.

    Therefore, the mother will treat her with what she thinks is "love".

    Thinking about it this way, it seems to make sense.

    It seems that it has been a long time since I called home, right?

    Chu Lihua called her mother.

    It took a long time to be picked up——

    "mom."

    ——"What's wrong? What happened?"

    ——"No, I just remembered that I haven't contacted my family for a long time. It sounds like you were asleep and woken up by a phone call."

    ——"That's not true, I'm still waiting to charge. I just lay on the sofa and squinted for a while."——

    "Charge?"

    ——"Well, if you charge an electric car overnight, it's easy to damage the battery and it's not durable."

    ——"Then you can calculate the time and set an alarm clock!"

    ——"It's too troublesome, anyway, I'm lying on the sofa and watching TV. If it looks good, just watch it, and if it doesn't look good, just squint for a while. I think it's almost time now."

    ——"Well, what's the weather like in Yunnan now? Is it cold? Did my father go out early? Are you in good health?"

    ——"We are all fine, and the weather is not cold. Just take care of yourself and don't let us worry about it."

    ——"Don't worry, I will. Then you go to bed early after unplugging the electricity, so as to save yourself from getting up early in the morning and having dry eyes."

     ——"Well, okay. You go to bed early too."——

    "Bye-Bye."——

    "Bye-Bye."

    The phone hung up, but Chu Lihua seemed to be dreaming.  She couldn't imagine that there would be such a peaceful and harmonious phone call.

    Such a phone call not only contacted the family, but also was not as tedious as usual, and it was regarded as various concerns of the mother.

    Is it because my mentality has changed, or is it because my mother has fallen asleep?

    For such a phone call, I am sure I am willing to call home from time to time.

    At that time, Chu Lihua actually had a glimmer of hope.

    If it is really possible to be in harmony like this, will there be no more tension?

    —— "You hung up on the phone with your family so quickly?"

    Qing Yunfei, who was quiet at the side just now, came over when he saw Chu Lihua hung up the phone.

    ——"Yes! It's a rare time. Why do you have to talk for a long time every time you call home? Then what do you talk about?"

    Chu Lihua asked with curiosity and expectation.

    ——"Actually, apart from greeting each other, it's just chatting about family affairs. What happened recently. At home, relatives. Basically, we can talk about it for more than an hour."

    ——"Really? Isn't that like a friend who hasn't been in touch for a long time."

    Chu Lihua was a little envious of Qing Yunfei.

    ——"Almost. Sometimes I will recall the previous events and comment on them."——

    "really envy you."

    ——"What? Isn't it like this for you?"

    Qing Yunfei was surprised.

    ——"No, in the past, it was all my mother's nagging about me. What about not getting married, what about being far away from home, what not being up to date, etc. That's why I envy you!"

    ——"I also came from your stage. It's just that I have no patience. After I said it a few times, I became unhappy and lost my temper, so my mother stopped talking."

    ——"Really? Seeing you chatting with your family in such a good temper, I didn't expect you to lose your temper too?"

    ——"There is nothing impossible about this. At that time, they were young and energetic. And, to be honest, they said too much. After they got older, they would not be in a hurry. Because it is no longer a problem that can be solved in a hurry. In this way, instead  Peace of mind."

    ——"I really envy you for having such a mother."

    ——"In the future, she will also be your mother, as long as you want."

    ——"I hate it~ However, I heard that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. I guess the situation may not be so optimistic."

    ——"That's different. As long as we don't get together often, it will be easy for us to get along. As the saying goes, far away smells close to smell." (Remember the website URL: www.hlnovel.com
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