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Chapter 615

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    After Chu Lihua finished speaking, both of them fell silent.

    She was a little skeptical. She was still not very good at learning, so what she said might be a bit harsh.

    —— "Think about it, both of you. Let's go first."

    After Chu Lihua finished speaking, she dragged Qingyun away in embarrassment.

    —— "Don't you think that your friend is hopeless? You still talk to her so much? Moreover, you are still good friends with such a person."

    ——"I know, you may say, I don't know people well. I think, my good luck is used to meet you."

    Chu Lihua shook Qing Yunfei's arm lightly, and said coquettishly.

    ——"You! I just want to tell you that people who are poor don't join the crowd, and words are not persuasive! Besides, haven't you heard that it is difficult for an upright official to break up housework?"

    ——"Actually, the so-called incorruptible official can't solve housework, but it's because men don't have a good distinction between the family and the small family.

    Let me put it this way, in too many families, although two people are married, they still regard "I" as "us", that is, a member of the original family, and regard their partners as outsiders other than "us".

    For example, when a couple quarrels because of their family members, even if the family members have done something wrong, we often hear this kind of defense: They are my family members!

    It can be seen that the meaning here is that they and I constitute "we", we are one, and everyone else is "you".  And such a defense pushes one's partner to the opposite.

    There are gender differences in this.  It is easy for a man to see his mother and family as his own and his wife as an outsider.

    However, under the influence of traditional culture, women have no natal family to retreat from, so it is difficult to maintain the perception of "us" with their original family.  It is not until the child is born that we and our child constitute "we".

    This kind of vague logic is not only mentioned between big families and small families, sometimes it is the same between small families and individuals.

    ? When facing divorce, too many people will say that because the other party is not good enough, they have not brought them the life or happiness they want.  My friend is a typical example.

    In fact, as far as I know, it's often just blame.  Many times, even with their ideal perfect partner, they still don't feel happy and fulfilled.  "

    ——"Then you mean that the appearance of a third party is not my fault, but the fault of the law-abiding person in the family?"

    Qing Yunfei felt as if his understanding of Chu Lihua was still too shallow.  Moreover, I do not agree with this logic.

    In their northeast side, there are indeed many married women who will go out to have a room with other men, which is difficult for him to accept.  That's why I have always been motivated to find a southern girl, because it is said that southern girls are more gentle and reserved, and they will definitely not be able to do such a thing.

    ——"The situation you mentioned is very common in love triangles. We often see that when a woman encounters her husband cheating, the first thing she thinks of is not to attack her husband, but to pour her anger on the third party who intervenes in their relationship.

    However, this is not what I want to express.  What I mean is that when a man cheats, except for a small part of the reason is a character problem.  Most of these are caused by the lack of understanding and trust from my wife. These are too complicated to talk about, and we will talk about them later when we have time.  "

    As Chu Lihua spoke, she felt a bit like she was trying to justify the man's cheating.  She felt that her language was not organized well.

    ——"Okay, are you hungry? What do you want to eat?"

    Qing Yunfei was really powerless to deal with this cutie who was so eloquent in front of him.

    ——"I want to eat stinky tofu, but it's not the kind with stinky sauce, but baked Jianshui stinky tofu,"

    ——"You are making things difficult for me, I have never heard of that stuff."

    Qing Yunfei looked distressed.

    ——"Okay, baby, I'm just talking about that kind of stinky tofu that can only be eaten in Yunnan."

    Somehow, Chu Lihua felt that Qing Yunfei looked like a naive big baby.

    ——"Hmph~ You are trying to seduce people on purpose~"

    Qing Yunfei is like a proud peacock.

    ——"Pfft~hahaha! From now on, you will be my big baby, so cute!"

    Chu Lihua tiptoed and touched Qing Yunfei's head.

    ——"Then can we live together?"

    Qing Yunfei has the cute appearance of a big dog——

    "sure!"

    Chu Lihua said straightforwardly.——"Ah? Why did you agree so quickly?"

    Qing Yunfei had an unbelievable expression on his face, is it so casual?

    ——"Big baby, I'm not a casual person. It's just that since you've been identified, there's nothing wrong with living together early. Have you ever heard a saying? Cohabitation is actually a trial marriage. As long as you choose the right person,  For girls, it might not be a good thing.

    Only by experiencing married life in advance can we get in better and pave the way for a happy married life in the future.  Otherwise, just like my friend, the person who chased him back on his own initiative ended up like this after marriage.

    Why?  Love the wrong person?  Obviously not, love and marriage are inseparable, but marriage faces more reality than love.  Therefore, it is better to experience it in advance than to regret it after marriage!  "

    Many truths were slowly realized by Chu Lihua.

    ——"Then let's move into one room when we go back, and rent out the other room by the way. This can save a lot of money. Tell me, should we move upstairs or downstairs?"

    For Chu Lihua's transparency, Qing Yunfei has mixed feelings.  Does she do the same to others?  Or is it only for yourself?

    However, what was shown was extraordinarily excited.

    ——"It stands to reason that it would be easier to move downstairs, because I have much more stuff than you. However, let's go back and study it carefully. After all, there must be a reason for you to choose upstairs."

    —— "Are you still thinking about me?"

    ——"Fool, although I am a girl, I need your tolerance, pampering and understanding. But at the same time, I can't just think about the problem from my own point of view! The reason why the balance is balanced is because the weights on both sides are about the same.  .”

    ——"Chu'er, you are so nice, I am suddenly afraid that I will not be good enough for you."

    Qing Yunfei hugged Chu Lihua tightly, whispering.

    ——"Whether you are worthy or not is not measured in this way. As long as you have fulfilled my expectations of you, you are worthy of me. On the contrary, if you have not fulfilled your expectations of me  , in your place, I am not good enough for you.

    Therefore, what I hope most is that we can think and say something, so that the other party can know where we are doing well and where we need to improve.  This is the best relationship.  "

    Love to the depth is speechless, hate to the extreme is no tears;

    When love is strong, it is selfless, and hatred is lifeless when it ends.

    Chu Lihua is most afraid of the subtlety in Wong Kar Wai's movies.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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