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Chapter 475 Women's rivals in love, all kinds

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    ——"To be honest, it's not as good as being alone."

    Chu Lihua gave her own opinion.

    ——"However, the person involved understands many things better than we do. At that time, I was washing the kitchen with my colleague and I asked: "Why don't you go out for a walk with him? Don't worry about me, I'll just go and read a book later.  "

    I thought my colleague was here because I was there, but she said: "I never go out for a walk with him. He likes to take a walk after dinner, but I don't like it, so he goes by himself, and I just clean up the pots and pans."

    I smiled in surprise: "Isn't it normal for couples to communicate after dinner? Can young people's marriages be like this?"

    Unexpectedly, one sentence opened up the conversation of colleagues.

    A colleague told me that there are only two kinds of women who can maintain a good marriage: one is a happy woman, and the other is a strong woman.

    Unfortunately, most of the women she met were strong women.  They feel that only by not having too high expectations of their husbands, can they spend the rest of their lives peacefully and harmoniously.

    She doesn't communicate much with her husband, and her husband rarely does housework with her, as if the house belongs to her alone.

    In the past, she thought she didn't need it, but today she felt inexplicably happy to wash the dishes with me, and realized that it's nice to have someone chatting while doing things.

    She then complained that once she went back to her mother's house to stay for two weeks, the clothes she came back to dry were still hanging like that, even though she had told her to collect them before she left.

    Moreover, during this period, her husband ate takeaway for two weeks, and the house was a mess, and he didn't clean anything up.

    So many times even if she is busy at work, she has to come back to cook for her husband.

    She said, "Many times, it is not a third party or the economic crisis that defeats a marriage. It is often just some small details in life, which can only be discovered by living together.

    It's not that I haven't thought about divorce, but I chose marriage after weighing the pros and cons. No matter what the consequences are, I want to try to bear them myself.  "

    The current generation, to tell the truth, is relatives with mobile phones.  "

    ——"In fact, I quite agree with this point. I have a friend, because her husband is playing with his mobile phone every day when he comes home, and then she cheated mentally. But she actually thinks that she is not at fault.  Forced.

    In fact, if her husband is willing to chat with her after returning home, even for ten minutes, it probably won't be like this.

    As a friend, I really don't know how to persuade her.  They originally got married from school uniforms to wedding dresses. The most important thing is that women chase men. They didn't expect the ending to be like this. It is conceivable that other people who were urged to marry and chose to get married in a hurry, how could the ending be better?  up.  "

    Chu Lihua didn't know why, but she became more and more pessimistic about love and marriage.

    ——"I have a friend who has also been married for several years. Once, she asked me to go to the movies on weekends.

    I said casually: "Why don't you let your husband accompany you to enhance the relationship between husband and wife."

    She rolled her eyes and said, "He? He only messes with his precious motorcycle, and doesn't care about him."

    I burst out laughing, remembering a joke she told:

    The man said, "May I take you for a ride on a motorcycle after get off work?"

    The woman acted like a baby: "Not good! You can't add a "baby"! You don't understand style at all! Hmph."

    Man: "Okay then, I'll ride my baby motorcycle after get off work and take you for a ride, okay?"

    My friend's husband is a motorcycle fan who loves cars like a joke. When they first got married, they often quarreled about motorcycles.

    In the eyes of friends, a married man obsessed with motorcycles is no different from cheating.

    Think about it, you worked so hard to cook a table of meals, and when your husband finished eating, he suddenly wiped his mouth, changed his clothes, closed the door with a bang, and rode a motorcycle, leaving you alone in the empty room.

    What's the matter?

    For this reason, she fought hard with her husband and set up many rules, one of which is: "The time of cycling should not exceed 1 hour per week."

    Unexpectedly, after a few years, my friend finally figured it out.

    She said: "What can I do if I can't figure it out? Even if you tie him by your side and make him unhappy, it's still a quarrel. It's better to let him go."

    Since acquiescing to her husband to ride a bicycle, she found that she has gradually found herself: she began to enjoy reading alone, chasing dramas, shopping with girlfriends, watching movies

    It's much better than being a black-eyed chicken in front of your husband!

    In fact, if the current couples want to live for a long time, they mustPay attention to each other's hobbies and each other's private space, and allow each other to play their own things to a certain extent.

    If a couple can't handle their emotional problems well, they will probably quarrel for three to five years.

    And if a couple can't handle their respective hobbies and lives well, they will probably quarrel for thirty to fifty years, until they plant hidden dangers to the marriage.

    I don't know if you still remember a famous scene in the classic old drama "Deep Love and Rain"?

    Wang Xueqin's derailment was exposed and she refused to do a paternity test.

    Lu Zhenhua was so angry that his veins burst out, and he locked her and his youngest son in the warehouse.

    Wang Xueqin grabbed the railing of the warehouse and loudly argued why she cheated: "Lu Zhenhua! You are away all day! You spent more time with that horse than me!"

    It seems that Wang Xueqin is indeed a bit miserable.  !

    As we all know, Wang Xueqin is Lu Zhenhua's ninth wife, known as "Jiutai".

    When she married Lu Zhenhua back then, Lu Zhenhua was still a commander. He was full of vigor and power. He was collecting all the girls who looked like his first love at the frequency of "marrying one wife a year".

    And Wang Xueqin became the terminator of his game.

    ?Wang Xueqin, who became the ninth concubine, lied to Lu Zhenhua, flattered her, and was always on guard against other women who would sneak in. Even Fu Wenpei, who was old and decrepit, would not let her go.

    In the end, Wang Xueqin defeated all the women and became the pillow person who accompanied Lu Zhenhua for the longest time.

    But she never expected that she would lose to a horse!

    Lu Zhenhua's way of dealing with the relationship between husband and wife is: no quarrel, no cheating, no disturbing, each stays well.

    And Wang Xueqin is a woman, and there are many attachments in her heart. She needs kisses and companionship, and sweet words.

    This is an insoluble conflict between them, more terrifying than any woman.

    Men and women are born of two different species.  Some very different worldviews and values ??must be supported by a strong force when they come together.

    As for what power it is?  love?  Perhaps it is more accurate to say that it is a trade-off of pros and cons.

    Therefore, whether to get married or not has nothing to do with love. On the contrary, I personally think that if you can live your life well by yourself, there is really no need.  The reason why I want to find a partner is to fight against the wind and rain in life together.  "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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