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Chapter 383 Is there a difference between men and women

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    Originally, this should have been an exciting moment.

    Chu Lihua asked a particularly inappropriate question with a mean mouth.

    ¡ª¡ª"Manager, in fact, I really really want to know what stage the industry is in now."

    ¡ª¡ª"To be honest, this industry is really not as good as it used to be. Any industry is very difficult when you start new, but once you gain a foothold, you will be very profitable. I have only been in this industry for two years Let's put it this way  , I bought a house of more than 120 square meters in Harbin. This time you should know how the industry is doing? When I entered the industry, it was considered a time when the industry was not very prosperous, unlike 13 or 14 years  It's time."

    Chen Weidong originally wanted to talk about how much money he made, but before he could say anything, he turned the topic again.

    ¡ª¡ª"Then let's enter the industry now, let alone buying a house in the provincial capital, I guess buying a house in our hometown may not be affordable."

    Guo Lu's tone was not so relaxed.

    ¡ª¡ª"It's not your turn to worry about this matter, is it? You are a little girl. You just need to ask for a house and a car as a gift when you get married, and the matter will be solved in one sentence, but we will not  It¡¯s the same. We are the ones who have to really struggle, so that we can afford a house and marry a wife in the future.¡±

    Zhang Fan on the side said with emotion, after finishing speaking, he poured himself a glass of wine and drank it in one gulp.

    Chu Lihua didn't quite agree with Zhang Fan's words.  Now is not the era he mentioned, is it?  With that in mind, she said so.

    ¡ª¡ª"What age is it now? Do you still talk about bride price? Isn't that all the old rules of the past. Now the new younger generation pays attention to feelings and three views, and there are many naked marriages."

    ¡ª¡ª"The people who say this have either not experienced it, or they don't feel pain in their backs when they stand up and talk. I have a friend who was originally scheduled to get married at the end of next month, but it was announced that they broke up just after the National Day.

    It turned out that it was because the families of the two parties disagreed on the issue of the bride price.

    ?My friend's parents asked for a gift of 88,000 yuan, and after they got married, they would buy new home appliances or furniture as a dowry.

    The two elders will also help save the extra money, and they will take it out when the young couple needs it urgently.

    To be honest, this requirement is simply low for us, and it cannot be lowered.  Because we basically ask for dozens or even millions of bride price here!

    My friend originally did it because of love, so this number is just for auspiciousness.

    But the person who is a friend, from work to now, all the wages are in the hands of the mother, and the future husband's family has always disagreed with the 88,000 dowry money.

    For this reason, I also deliberately found a friend, trying to get the friend to go back and communicate with the parents to see if there is still room for negotiation.

    After the friend went back, the parents were very angry when they found out about this. They thought that the money was not what they really wanted, and what they wanted to see was the attitude of the future son-in-law.

    Just like that, it was originally a happy event, but in the end because the bride price could not be negotiated, they had to break up unhappy.

    Afterwards, my friend also complained, feeling that his parents were too realistic, but my friend's mother said something like this:

    The bride price is just a key to unlock the marriage, and it is also the key to open the door of your future husband¡¯s heart. If he refuses to give this gift, it means that you can¡¯t get this key, and you can¡¯t get close to his heart.  , This is the performance of not loving you.

    Sure enough, within a few days, the object found a friend and insisted on the gift money that his family could offer.

    My friend knows that the man in front of me has actually saved a lot of funds over the years, all of which are on the card.

    However, the other party explained that it is future venture capital and cannot be used.

    Just like that, the two who were supposed to be husband and wife broke up.

    Regarding the issue of betrothal gifts, some people say that this is a bad custom from ancient times to the present.  But we have to say that the customs left by our ancestors also have their own reasons.

    In this custom, we do not advocate sky-high betrothal gifts, nor do we advocate zero betrothal gifts.

    Thinking about it from another angle, a girl who has been raised by someone else for more than ten or twenty years is just like this married to your son, and giving a certain amount of bride price is precisely a respect for the woman.  "

    As soon as Zhang Fan turned the words, Chu Lihua looked at him with admiration.

    ¡ª¡ª"We can't just look at the surface of everything, and more often we have to learn to see the real problem through the superficial phenomenon.

    Take the bride price as an example. On the surface, it seems that it is only a matter of money, but in essence, the three views of the original families of the two parties are indeed different.

    Because?It leads to disagreement in the relationship between in-laws and family, and it can easily extend to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and even the relationship between husband and wife.

    Except for the kind of outrageous price-calling, the bride price is usually required for selling a daughter. Under normal circumstances, the bride price can not only show the woman's position in the man's heart, but also can see whether the three views of the original family of the two parties fit.

    ? In China, the amount of the bride price is not so much, but depends on the man's attitude towards the bride price, whether he is willing to part with it or not, and this shows the man's sense of responsibility and responsibility.

    Therefore, I advise all the girls here not to marry the native family who broke face with you for the bride price.  You must know that the bride price in China is an expression of love and responsibility.  "

    Unexpectedly, Zhang Fan's words aroused Chen Weidong's emotion.

    ¡ª¡ª"When the manager said this, he seemed to understand deeply."

    Chu Lihua felt that what she seemed to think before was really too simple, but she wanted to hear more about this aspect.

    ¡ª¡ª"That's for sure. After all, I have seen more relatives and friends around me, so I have more insights. Take me as an example. I can be regarded as a family now, but why am I still in Beijing?  Working so hard? Isn¡¯t it because I still want to earn a gift for my girlfriend! This is the responsibility of a man!

    I have to take advantage of the good market conditions in the past few years to quickly save up money. After a few years, I think this industry will gradually decline.  At that time, I could only go back to my hometown.  But the big bills and expenses are already planned in advance.  After that, even if you go home and find a job with a salary of several thousand yuan, you can start a family, start a business, have children and raise children with peace of mind, which is considered a good life.  "

    Chen Weidong's words moved Chu Lihua very much.

    To tell the truth, she has always felt that when she came to Beijing to work hard, one of the ultimate goals was to be able to return to her hometown and live a stable and carefree life.  Therefore, what Chen Weidong said is really not only useful to male compatriots.  Chu Lihua has always felt that if women nowadays do not have the ability to settle down, they may have to live according to the wishes of men in everything.

    Although the life of a housewife is not much easier than the workplace, and even more onerous, only women themselves think so.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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