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Chapter 376 Don't You Know?

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    Chu Lihua even regretted that she didn't stop Yu Xiaqiu forcefully at the beginning.

    ¡ª¡ª"Some things, once started, there is no turning back. And, Chuchu, I'll tell you the truth, in fact, I haven't regretted it at all until now, but I'm still a little happy. After all, with Lin Lei's appearance  , I feel my life is more complete.¡±

    ¡ª¡ª"Have you ever thought about whether your children will be criticized if your affairs are revealed in the end. Or, because of you, they will have an unhappy childhood again."

    Chu Lihua couldn't be more angry. Did Yu Xiaqiu think too little of her children?

    ¡ª¡ª"It seems that I still Sigh~ In fact, you always say that I am partial to my daughter, but what you don't know is that she did suffer a lot when she was young. My mother-in-law was very happy and excited about Zixuan's birth.  He is the one who takes care of him day and night. I don¡¯t have much time to spend with him, so I don¡¯t spend much time on him. But Momo is different. Like many parents, the child has not yet been born.  I have read many parenting books.

    Many famous theories I believe everyone has heard before, such as don¡¯t hold your child when he cries, sleep in separate rooms early, cultivate children¡¯s independence early, etc

    I did.

    In the first few days after the baby was born, I looked confident and threw her on the bed, letting her cry without hugging her.  Not only did I not hug myself, but my husband was also not allowed to hug me.  I thought I was so good that I would definitely be able to raise a sensible child, but within two days, I was slapped in the face!

    Momo blushed from crying, kicked her little hands and feet hard, and even her voice became hoarse. Instead of adapting obediently as said in the book, she began to retch and vomit milk.

    I regret it so much.  What kind of obsession am I to cultivate a baby's "independence"? She can neither eat nor drink, so what independence does she need?  What she wants is the 100% sense of security from her mother!

    But at its root, that set of parenting methods is nothing more than artificially blocking the relationship between mother and child, and does not fundamentally address the needs of children.  As long as you think about it a little bit, you can detect the irrationality. Why haven't I thought about it?

    Because I treated Momo so seriously and according to the textbook.  So I feel very guilty, so I prefer her even more.  It was at this time that I remembered my life experience, so I was more kind to my daughter.  At this time, compared with Momo, Zixuan is already a big kid who doesn't need me, and he still has my mother-in-law.

    In addition to the way of raising, I also overturned the way of education.

    Before Momo was three years old, I insisted on "happy education".  I especially want to give her a carefree and happy childhood.

    Other people's mothers have been reading picture books and telling stories to their children since they were one year old.

    But I don't think it's necessary. What can such a small child understand?

    I made up my mind to give him a happy childhood, and I resolutely kept away from scientific knowledge until he was in elementary school.

    Later, as you expected, the face was slapped again.

    When Momo was almost three years old, I found that she developed an unusually strong thirst for knowledge. For example, when she saw the moon, she would ask me, how far is the moon from us, can we go there to play, and there are people living there  ?

    A baby with a certain ability to express is a walking "one hundred thousand whys", which often makes me dizzy when asked.  And I also found that children are actually quite boring to play.  There are not many children of the same age in the house where we live, and there are just a few games over and over again. Occasionally, she can't find anyone to play with her, so she just sits alone and talks to herself.

    I thought maybe the child was too lonely, so I took her brother over from Henan.  However, that child is not close to me at all.  On the contrary, he has to listen to his grandma in everything, which makes me particularly disgusted, and it also increases my disgust towards him.

    But my original intention was to let him accompany Momo.  I began to waver in my determination again, how about trying to read picture books to Momo?  Anyway, now Zixuan basically belongs to the kind of child who can't do anything, it's better to teach Momo since I was a child.

    After trying it out, I realized that there is no pressure to study. In the eyes of children, those knowledge are treasures shining with gold.  The little teacher came And sometimes he would tell his brother, I feel that this girl is far more sensible than that son.  "

    ¡ª¡ª"Look, everything happens for a reason, doesn't it? Maybe you just wrongly blamed your parents. Hey! Isn't there such a saying? Dad loves the big, and the mother loves the young. There is someone in the middle.??No.  Maybe it's because of your birth order.  Coupled with Sister Ni at that time, Tang Xue was already able to help the family with some things, and Tingting, who was born last, was relatively young.  It is also easier to arouse the compassion of adults, so you will be the one who will be given away in the end. After all, what they want is a son.  "

    Chu Lihua has absolutely no experience in raising and raising children, so after listening to the long speech, she considered her life experience from Yu Xiaqiu's perspective.

    ¡ª¡ª"Actually, everything is in the hands of the authorities, and the bystanders are clear. I may understand the truth of what you see, but resentment is inevitable. So I will be more and more nice to Momo. Even if she is a girl, so what  ?¡±

    Well, after talking for a long time, I returned to the original place.

    ¡ª¡ª"That's right, since you care so much about your daughter Momo, do you think what you are doing now will hurt her, if something happens."

    Only then did Chu Lihua realize that she had been completely confused by Yu Xiaqiu's conversation.

    In fact, she is also confused in her head now.

    After Chu Lihua finished speaking, the small room suddenly became silent.  Neither of them spoke, as if they were each thinking about their own concerns.

    ¡ª¡ª"By the way, Yu Yu, do you know the relationship between Mr. Huang and Mr. Xia? I heard from Wan Ting that they seem to be brothers and sisters, and they are also brothers and sisters with the manager Zhou Xiangning when I first came to the company."

    Chu Lihua suddenly thought of this and spoke, breaking the silence in the room.

    ¡ª¡ª"Yeah, don't you know about this? I was planning to tell you before, but I thought you were the one who came over from Wanting and the others, and he would definitely tell you about it. Now you  I didn¡¯t realize it until you asked me that, didn¡¯t you know about it all along?¡± (Remember this site¡¯s website: www.hlnovel.com
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