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Chapter 329 Most of the children are just the children of their parents to realize themselves

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    Chu Lihua was slightly stunned by Wang Ting's words, because she always thought that Dr. Wang was from a major.  But think about it, only those who learn from teachers are good at accepting apprentices.  Aren't the apprentices who are really from majors just the new juniors and juniors who come in later, how can they come to the market to find apprentices?

    ——"Actually, it doesn't matter about birth, we all only look at the final ability, don't we? You just need to learn their essence well. Then you can go out to see a doctor after taking another test. If you don't test the test, you will probably be like your master.  They opened a health care center like this. Do you remember the name of that precious medical book your master read? In fact, the Internet is relatively developed now, and there are many out-of-print medical books. As long as you know the name, author and cover, you can basically  You can buy it online. Then you can buy it and study it hard, but copying the book has the advantage of copying, because copying it will definitely help you remember more than reading it.”

    ——"Really? Then I will look at the name and cover of that medical book next time. Then you can help me find it, and I will give you the money."

    Wang Ting looked at Chu Lihua hopefully.

    —— "Tingting, it's not about the money. Because the description may not be able to describe it clearly, um, no, you can just take a picture with your mobile phone, and then use the shopping app to buy it directly, isn't that all right?"

    Chu Lihua was very surprised that Wang Ting thought that in this era where the Internet society is so developed, doesn't she know how to shop online?

    However, Wang Ting's next words proved that she really doesn't even know what online shopping is, which means that her world is too closed, and she is busy studying hard in her own small world, just to make her parents happy.

    ——"Tingting, actually, sometimes I feel that our birth is simply to fulfill the unfulfilled wishes of our parents, rather than to live out ourselves. Regarding the medical book you mentioned. I can teach you how to shop online,  You can also buy it for you, it depends on how you choose.”

    ——"Teaching a man how to fish is worse than giving him a fish. Of course, I want to learn how to operate it myself. After all, if I learn the other books I want, I can definitely buy them online."

    ——"To be precise, it should be something you can't think of, and there is nothing you can't buy online."

    For this point, Chu Lihua really has a deep understanding.

    —— "It seems that the current society has developed to the point that I am seriously out of touch with it. Sister Chu, I feel that you have seen more of the world. Tell me what you think about our hope of becoming a child."

    Wang Ting seems to be particularly afraid of herself, but the society is out of touch, and she has a strong thirst for knowledge.

    ——"Actually, it's not out of touch. The main reason is that life here in Chengdu is more convenient, so there is no need to deliberately look for other shopping channels. First of all, I didn't know about this in Beijing before, but because many things were not available for purchase, I gradually  Slowly, I learned online shopping from my colleagues.

    ? As for what you said about the parents expecting their children to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes, it is not an opinion. I also have some personal experiences, feelings and feelings that I would like to share with you.

    After my long-term experience of "fighting wits and courage" with my parents, what they call hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is ??simply that the parents have passed on their anxiety to their children.  Parents, especially mothers, stagnate in their own growth and have great anxiety about whether they can adapt to society. However, they do not solve the problem through their own growth, but place more hope on their children.  Children are under double the pressure.

    "Parents want their children to be good, but they often don't know what to do," said Dr. Xu Haoyuan. "The most common thing is that they don't consider their children's psychological needs, but start from their own psychological needs, and design life for their children. As a result, they  Educate children out of love, but in the end develop non-love behaviors that restrict children's growth."

    But there are still some parents who have not stopped growing, but their children have become a tool for them to prove themselves, rather than another person who grows independently.  Only when the child succeeds can he have face.  If the child can't excel, I will feel very ashamed.

    This situation is a personal experience I encountered, because of a situation, and I have personally experienced my high school head teacher, and his daughter is in such a situation.  She is our classmate.  Their family affairs can be regarded as a family engaged in education and intellectuals.  Her father is our homeroom teacher and a senior high school mathematics teacher, and her mother is a senior and excellent Chinese teacher.

    However, it happened that his grades were at the bottom of the Chinese language and mathematics, and his other subjects were also below the middle level. Basically, he was at the lower middle level in the class.  Sometimes we often see his father scolding my classmate helplessly and frantically in front of many of our classmates.  "

      —— "The situation you mentioned is pretty good, at least they are still in high school or even college. Unlike my situation, I just graduated from junior high school, and I hope that I can become a leader, that is really embarrassing."

    The envy in Wang Ting's tone is self-evident.

    ——"Actually, you can't say that. What matters in this society is not academic qualifications, but learning ability. Educational qualifications are now for integrating into a circle, that is, after coming out of society, they will help each other.

    However, as the relationship becomes more and more cold, there will be less and less advantages in this aspect, and it mainly depends on personal ability.  If you look at many successful people today, they still don’t have high education, but they are very good because of their strong learning ability.

    Of course, a high degree of education also has advantages. For example, most of the outstanding talents in the Internet industry now have a high degree of education.  But not 100%.  For example, Jobs and Ma Yun are typically unable to write code, but Internet companies are doing very well.

    Anyway, everything has its own advantages and disadvantages, just like learning Chinese medicine, everything should have two sides of yin and yang.  "

    ——"It's just that I always worry that I can't learn well, because I'm stupid. I feel that I can't understand many things in practice, so I write them down in a notebook first, and then read a few more articles. I still can't understand.  I went to ask Master, and I was worried that he would think I was too stupid."

    ——"Chinese medicine has almost passed down the entire Chinese history since ancient times! It is definitely not easy to learn the essence of it, otherwise why do you always say that there is a family of Chinese medicine. It takes many years for many essences  Slowly comprehend, coupled with slow practice, you can master it. You don't have to worry too much, and I think if your master really treats you as an apprentice, he definitely hopes that you will study hard and ask questions. So you don't have too much psychological burden. "  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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