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Chapter 291 May You Be Happy

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    ——"Stranger, thank you. After I said these things smoothly, I felt that the big rock in my heart had quietly landed. Now, since I brought Xiner out, I just want to make myself feel better.  Calm down and face the difficulties in the future. Also, give Xiner the best environment for her growth."

    After Xiner's mother finished speaking, she took a long breath.

    ——"Actually, the growth environment I mentioned does not just refer to family conditions. The material environment. The most important thing I said, the growth environment that has a greater impact on children's growth is the caring and spiritual growth environment. Because this aspect is important to me.  have a deep impact.

    Don't completely ignore your child's thoughts because of too much pressure in life.

    When children are young, they need love and care the most.  The psychological wounds left in childhood sometimes take a lifetime to fill.  Such a price is the greatest.  I believe you should feel it.  "

    Chu Lihua's focus is always different from others.  Now Xiner's father is fighting for the property and custody rights, which can be won by spending money to hire a lawyer.  However, the growth of the child requires the full maintenance and support of the mother and her family.

    Because she has experienced it personally and knows where the pain points are.  If the parents have no time to take care of the critical years of the child's growth period; even in the later stage, if her mother picks and complains to her because of her father, it may bring a devastating blow to her growth.

    ——"What do you mean by that? Can you be more specific? Now, to be honest, I really can't react at once."

    Xiner's mother's attitude made Chu Lihua very satisfied, at least she was still taking care of her child.

    ——"Actually, when you were traumatized when you were a child, you needed the care of your parents the most. However, your parents may not have given you great spiritual support, which caused you to have an extremely low self-esteem later on. This will lead to  The latter series of questions. I'm sure you see it that way yourself, don't you?"

    Chu Lihua paused, watching Xiner's mother ask for her answer.  Seeing him nodding his head in agreement, he continued.

    ——"No matter what happens in the future, the most important thing is that you have to communicate more with Xiner, what she thinks. And the child is innocent. You must not transfer the resentment towards her father to her in the future  body."

    ——"Don't worry, I will never do this. Thank you for being so considerate of Xiner."

    Before Chu Lihua could finish speaking, Xiner's mother interrupted her to make a promise.

    ——"It is also inevitable that Xiner will have some rebellious behavior when she was adolescence. You must not discipline yourself more strictly because you are a single mother and because it is harder, and even transfer your anxiety to your children. This is often the case.  It will only backfire.

    Parents, especially mothers, stagnate in their own growth and have great anxiety about whether they can adapt to society. However, they do not solve the problem through their own growth, but place more hope on their children.  Children are under double the pressure.  "

    These are all slowly realized by Chu Lihua during this period of time. He feels that he has a lot of inferiority complex!  Anxiety and insecurity!  And other reasons, to a large extent, because of the neglect of parents in childhood.

    ——"Stranger, thank you. I really understood a lot of truths and solved a lot of knots. At the same time, I also understood the meaning of my parents asking my relatives to take me out for a trip.  I went to see the outside world. The accident was purely accidental. My parents have been tolerant to me all these years, so I think the situation you mentioned should not happen in our family. "

    Hearing what Xiner's mother said, Chu Lihua felt a lot more at ease. At least, Xiner's baby will not grow up under the care of a depressed and anxious mother.

    Although Chu Lihua still has more things to say, she actually understands some other truths in her heart, but because she hasn't understood them thoroughly yet, she can't express them completely and correctly.  If this is the case, it is better not to say it to mislead others.

    This night, I originally wanted to take a good rest and sleep, so that I could go to climb Qingcheng Mountain in good spirits the next day.

    It's just that, for various reasons, Chu Lihua chatted with Xiner's mother who met by chance all night like this.

    The little girl who had already fallen asleep in Chu Lihua's arms was put on the bed, and when the sun shone in through the window, she was still sleeping soundly.

    After Chu Lihua went out to wash and came back, Wang Ting called.

    ——"Xiner's mother, don't hurry, stop,Rest more, the body is the most important thing.  I'm leaving first, I hope that in the future, the world between you and Xiner will only be sunny and warm.  "

    ——"We are destined to meet again! Stranger, thank you."

    After all, Xin'er's mother didn't ask Chu Lihua's name, nor did she leave any contact information. It seems that he was able to tell about this experience because Chu Lihua was a stranger.

    ——"I think maybe you won't want to see me again. But I may live in your hearts. I wish you happiness!"

    Chu Lihua carried simple luggage on her back and closed the door of the room. From then on, she was no different from them.  In the vast sea of ??people, the fate and probability that two people can get together is too small.

    ——"Sister Chu, didn't you sleep well last night? Why do you look sluggish?"

    When Wang Ting saw Chu Lihua in the lobby, she was a little surprised.

    ——"Maybe I'm a bit cynical about the bed, or the bed here is too hard, so I didn't sleep well. What about you, how did you sleep?"

    Chu Lihua said lightly, she didn't want to tell Wang Ting what happened last night.  There is no need to let others know about such a heavy matter.

    ——"I slept pretty well. Generally speaking, like us martial arts practitioners, the quality of sleep is pretty good."

    Wang Ting said with a smile.

    Because Wang Ting has been learning some traditional Chinese massage techniques before, she has relatively strong strength, so she often calls herself a martial arts practitioner.

    ——"Can the martial arts practitioner teach me some lightness skills? I've been coveting this for a long time."

    Chu Lihua teased Wang Ting.

    ——"The secret method passed down from the ancestors, how can you allow others to miss it? Hurry up and worship me as a teacher, and then consider your performance after three knees and nine knocks, and decide whether to pass it on to you."

    The two left the dark alley yesterday and came to the street happily.

    This time, as soon as they walked to the street, someone yelled to carpool to Qingcheng Mountain. The two discussed it and got on the car together after thinking that there should be no problem.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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