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2020.9.12 Orange Diary Kind and firm...

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    When watching "Positive Discipline", there are two words that express my deep impression.  The importance of "kindness" lies in expressing our respect for children, and the importance of "firmness" lies in respecting ourselves and the needs of the situation.

    Whether it is a parent or a teacher, in the process of communicating with children, it is often accompanied by various "unexpected accidents": the child's thinking is far from his own requirements, and the child's behavior is inconsistent with his own expectations.  Countless communication and running-in, countless accidents that broke the eyes, let adults feel disappointed and even irritable Therefore, adults let their emotions dominate, and they will criticize, blame, and punish children uncontrollably at the first time. It is really short-term at first  It is effective, but it is not a long-term solution. Even children are farther and farther away from their expected ideal type, and adults will fall into a state of shame and self-doubt.

    When getting along with children, the most important thing to bear the brunt is the grasp of emotions.  In many cases, adults are used to getting angry when children make mistakes, and they are used to thinking that when they are angry, they have to solve the problem.  However, when angry, our wired "primitive brain" only chooses to "fight" (struggle for power) or "flee" (retreat and fail to communicate.), in which case we say something and regret it later  if.  In the face of a bad situation, learn to be calm, and only by being able to deal with it calmly can you seize the opportunity.

    It is the best state to be calm and calm when things happen, but a person who can be calm and calm must be a person who is very sure of himself and things.  Therefore, always communicate with children with the principle of "kindness and firmness", and firmly believe that this method is the best way.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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