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Chapter 44

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    Yang Lei walked out of the office, came to the department and walked into the office of the vice president, and saw the girl still circling in the room.  Seeing Yang Lei coming in, he quickly said, my elder brother went out to see a doctor.

    Yang Lei smiled and said, I saw your elder brother just now, and he was worrying over there.

    Why is he worried?  Why is he also a dean, I went to the Third Hospital today to look for the elder brother but I couldn't find him. I was told that he came here as the deputy dean, so I found it here.

    Yang Lei sat there waving his hands to let Caiyun sit down and said, your eldest brother is under a lot of pressure, and you know the conditions of their family.  It was not easy to become a doctor, and the daughter-in-law he married was still from the city.  At that time, his family didn't take any money when they got married, and it was all paid by the woman's family.  It made your elder brother unable to lift his head in the old man's house!

    Caiyun said, if the woman's family has money, they can take it. Aren't they all daughters?  The eldest brother's parents are indeed poor, and there are many children who still go to school.

    Yang Lei said dissatisfiedly, did the money from his wife's family come from the strong wind?  It's theirs who is in good condition, and their daughter graduated from university with a master's degree. Why do they have to marry a rural man? Isn't it because they have a good relationship?

    Money can't buy feelings, think about it if his family borrowed a lot of foreign debts for you to get married.  His parents and your little family will have to live in poverty all their lives, so how will they live in the future?  Don't you want to repay these foreign debts? It's not easy to earn money now, so you have to sell your blood to get married?

    Caiyun said helplessly, there is nothing I can do, my parents disagree.  They are desperate for face, and they must be used by my younger brother to prepare for his future marriage.

    Yang Lei jokingly said, so is your family's happiness based on the man's family's pain?  If your parents' own son doesn't solve the problem, how can you reason about it?  If you take the money, isn't it the same as selling your daughter?  How come this thought still exists in what age?

    Caiyun thought about it for a while and said, that is indeed the case. His family will not be able to live on in the future, and we have to pay back these debts. Besides, my boyfriend is very filial and must be taken care of.

    Then do you think the relationship between two people is more important than money?  This question can always be resolved.

    Caiyun said, of course the relationship is important, otherwise I wouldn't go out to work with his brother, and this is also going out under the pressure of the family.

    Yang Lei smiled and said, you still understand this truth, if you meet your family's requirements, you will get 1.8 million.  How many years can you save this money by working part-time?

    After Caiyun calculated seriously, we would have to live for ten years without eating or drinking, but how can humans live without eating or drinking?  And don't you have to spend money during the Chinese New Year?

    Yang Lei said with a smile, even if you live frugally for 20 years, what will you look like in 20 years? Maybe your hair will be gray due to the oppressive life.  And if your child is born, what will you do to raise the child?  You can't save that little money at all, and you won't pay it off until you are fifty or sixty years old. Do you think this marriage is worth it?  And your children will suffer with you for a lifetime.

    Caiyun thought about it carefully, and said with fear that the more he counted, the more he said, I won't be able to support this child at all.  If the marriage is so miserable, it is better not to marry.

    Yang Lei said with a smile, this matter has to be looked at from two aspects, if your conditions gradually improve in the future, you can even subsidize the elderly.  But now what do you use to subsidize this condition?

    In addition, you can't just think about the problem from your own point of view. Your family asked for 1.8 million, so what does his elder brother and daughter-in-law think? They didn't spend a penny.  Are other people's children raised for nothing?  Moreover, the education and work are better than yours. Your elder brother will have to live in grievances all his life. Do you think it is worth it?

    Now your eldest brother takes out a loan to buy a house and pays a high amount of mortgage every month.  He also borrowed more than 200,000 yuan from me and his father-in-law's family, and his old Zhao family didn't take any money from this daughter-in-law.  Don't you have to bear this all by yourself?  You are a daughter-in-law, isn't she a daughter-in-law?  If it doesn't work, your elder brother will have to divorce.

    Caiyun said, I really didn't expect this. Just considering our family, I don't want so much, but my parents asked for it.

    Yang Lei said that your family's request is based on the pain of the three families. Maybe your elder brother will get divorced, and you two will not be able to pay off the debts and support the children when you grow old.

    Moreover, the elderly in his family live frugally all their lives, and may not even have money to see a doctor when they get old. Do you think this family still has value?

    The more Caiyun listened, the more frightened she became. Yang Lei said these questions were very reasonable, and he didn't think about them so much at the time.  She asked Yang Lei, what should I do?

    Yang Lei said with a smile, you have to work with your parents in this matter, and you can't impose all the pain on them.  You can tell them that you will work hard in the future, and if you earn money, you can also help the family.  And his elder brother can also help some, if the wives and children are separated, who will help you, the pain is only yourselves.?

    Dowry gifts rarely happen in cities, and your family doesn't pay anything. What's the difference between letting others pay for it and selling your daughter?  Even if you marry into their family, can they treat you well?  Whenever I spend money, the first thing I think of is that the family is in such a miserable situation because I married you. Do you think you will be happy in the future?

    Caiyun wants to say, what you said is all reasonable, then I will go back and discuss it with my parents, if it is really impossible to kill the child, it is a bit too tiring to buy a house and get married.

    Yang Lei said with a smile, a symbolic dowry is fine, but it cannot affect future life.  Isn't the purpose of marriage all about happiness?  You can't base your happiness on the suffering of others.

    Caiyun looked at Yang Lei and said, you are so eloquent, I didn't even ask what you do.

    Yang Lei said with a smile, I am the director of the office and the director of the ENT department.  When I got married, our two families shared the money, so there was no such thing as a dowry. Young people have to have new ideas.

    In other words, it should be the common wish of the elderly that the two families jointly build this small home so that they can live happily.  If you ask for it unilaterally, this is a marriage by sale, so there is no love.

    You can also do the same, go back and discuss it with your parents, and you can also get some symbolic gifts.  When you get married, the child can still stay, but it must not affect the quality of life of your own family.

    ?My own child is raised by myself. I can't finish raising the child by myself and let my brother-in-law raise the child.  Besides, if I have a headache and brain fever, it is convenient to have a relative with a doctor at home to handle errands.  Otherwise, seeing you as enemies, do you think it's worth it?  Who doesn't get sick when they are old?

    Yang Lei's boastful talk made Caiyun speechless, which is too true.

    Yang Lei went on to say, if you have been pregnant before, if you find someone else after you can't get married with his brother, it will be hard not to be discovered.

    If that man finds out, you can imagine that your happiness will come to an end in this life, and no one will marry a woman who has conceived someone else.  This is how beautiful you are, even if you don¡¯t need money, men can¡¯t bear it and won¡¯t respect your feelings.

    Even if you are married, all you face every day are fists and cold faces, including your in-laws who look down on you. Think about it carefully?

    After hearing what he said, Caiyun quickly said, then you tell the elder brother, I won't wait for him, and go back to discuss it with my parents.  If it doesn't work, I'll beat the child down immediately, and if it's okay, I'll stay.  Otherwise, the child will get bigger and bigger, and it will be difficult to do well in the future.

    Yang Lei said, since this is the case, shall I take you to the station?  Your eldest brother was also busy talking, and the two came out.  Yang Lei started the car to send Caiyun to the train station, and bought some fruits and gifts for Caiyun.

    Caiyun repeatedly refused, Yang Lei said, this is what your elder brother asked me to buy, he is too busy now.  Only then did Caiyun walk into the train station carrying her things.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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