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    How to change a negative attitude

    Recently my mind is empty, I don't seem to be able to produce a little consciousness, only numb, as if I have no experience at all, I don't feel like doing anything, I just want to take a rest with my whole body.

    For a while, I felt that I was a lot haggard. I was completely defeated by something. I don¡¯t know why. Could it be that failure and setbacks are so easy to change a person completely in life, and the things I did were not smooth  , being completely defeated and having negative emotions, why can't you resist such a psychological failure?

    Rest may make you feel better. If you can relax enough to rest your body and mind, you may change your bad mood, because there are countless negative factors in life, and these negative emotions can easily damage the sincere heart of a kind person.  It can even fatally destroy a person's life. If he is depressed like that, he will never be able to get out of the shadows or stand up forever.

    Negative things are terrible, they can completely destroy the happy life of life, how to find a happy life from this depression is not an easy task for everyone, because happiness comes from the heart,  Not all life can be happy for everyone.

    Often things are suitable for each person, and the mind is stuck in a predicament, and it is difficult to get out of it for a while. When encountering troubles and annoying things, how to deal with them and how can we get out of them?  It is very difficult for me to just let go of the displeasure in my heart. People with small minds, no matter how small their minds are, will naturally not get out of it.

    When I met such a friend in the morning, his legs and feet were a little uncomfortable. The disease caused by anger and cerebral thrombosis has not recovered. After seeing his situation, I felt that he was very pitiful.

    He said something to me, which made me feel baffled for a moment: "It's really shameless, I take it home every day to do such a thing." What does this mean?

    It turned out that he told me about his misfortune in life. This is his life experience, his life content, and his wife¡¯s life unwilling to be lonely, because he has no ability to meet other people¡¯s needs, and there are people outside his wife.  , Now he has blatantly brought him home to live, so he is even more angry and his condition is getting worse, that's why he said this.

    I heard that his life is a mess, and I don't know how it got like this. Is it entirely caused by him?  It is really pitiful to have such a tragic ending now.

    He left such a sentence and walked away.  I glanced at his broad and strong back with pity, expressing my deep sympathy.

    What a negative life this is, how can it not make people angry?  Why did it become like this, and whoever it is apportioned on will become so depressed, making people feel depressed, but what is the use of sympathy?

    Everyone's existence will encounter unsatisfactory things of one kind or another, making it impossible for people to get out of these shadows for a while.  What's more, such a thing deserves sympathy, and maybe everyone has their own shortcomings.

    Seeing his situation, it is difficult to calm down in my heart. This kind of life is a bit miserable, and some people don't feel happy. For such a person, the shadows in life can never be erased, and there is no happiness to speak of.  It was completely caused by his unsatisfactory body that he fell to such a point.

    However, my troubles and worries are the result of other trivial things in life that entangle me.  Doing well is not an easy task.

    So calm down, work hard, abandon the worries in my heart, sometimes I will be lazy, but another person in my heart stands up and says, this is not allowed, continue to work hard to be yourself immediately, change your mood, the human psychology is  Being happy, doing things actively and doing things passively are fundamentally different.

    Only through the bits and pieces in life realized by this, can we understand the way of life.  These are learned through tempering. It is easy to do one thing, but it is not easy to keep doing it, especially it is not easy to do one thing repeatedly.

    My mind is empty, I can't recall anything, I just live my life step by step according to reality.  Silently follow my own wish, no longer be sad about things outside of me, no longer bother my brain about uninteresting things, the nature of people who like to dig into horns is always sad, for example, the scene of life and death of flowers, birds, fish and insects will also bring  When you understand the laws of science and nature, you will naturally not feel or give any emotion to these phenomena.

    &nbWell, it made me feel a certain kind of fear and helplessness, and I can't get back this feeling, as if my thoughts and interests have been completely emptied?  It has reached another state, and has a new level of understanding of things, and has improved a certain inspection and aesthetic point of view.

    For me, the things I used to be interested in are gradually receding, and I can't see any hope. People's thinking is changing with the changes of the times.

    The times are advancing, and the appreciation of literature and art has improved. The old literary forms and contents have never been innovated, and they seem to be broken, and people have lost interest.  I saw the commented article, which refers to the posting and publication of short stories. Short stories have a positive effect on people in life. However, people can no longer write good works to bring people new pleasure.

    Maybe it really wrote all the vicissitudes of the world?  In addition, fast-paced life, reading people and fast-paced life, a Japanese once wrote a novel on a mobile phone, and achieved serial success, but it did not become popular, what does it mean?  It is not the format of the novel, but the readability and entertainment, and the confusion about literary value.

    Let me understand the novel, the way to express what I want to say in words.  Or in other words, an overview of things and people, natural scenery, etc.  I feel that I am still lacking in this aspect. I don¡¯t know how to write realistically and how to conceive. I don¡¯t have any problems with direct narration, but it¡¯s a bit difficult to make a detour or a tricky idea.

    Recently, I stopped writing, and wanted to calm down for some thinking, serious feeling or research, but the results were still tried and tested, and I couldn't really reach the state of real thinking.

    I have been practicing pens for decades, maybe I should have gained something, but the hand feel is still not so good, and there is still no such inspiration. This is really a heavy blow to a person who has paid so much for it.  It will cause stress on the mentality and psychological aspects.

    In fact, such attempts are being made every day. The daily content can be weaved, but it is rare to re-read and write the written things.  If these contents are processed and reprocessed, it may be of some use.

    Some things in life are always unexpected, and it is better to happen early than to happen by chance. Some things or things often have the chance and inevitability that come without effort.

    I happened to go to a place to do business. As a result, the efficiency of the office was not high, or there was a problem with the organization and management. There was only one clerk. The phone on the desk kept ringing.  A phone call came in, which directly affected her work efficiency.

    The people waiting in line were a little impatient, but the waiting people dared not speak out.  Chinese people have plenty of time, and they are not afraid of wasting it. They just feel a little cynical in their hearts, but they can't say anything.  No one wants to jump in line, with such a little power, everyone's eyes seem to show vigilance, staring closely, but familiar people can still enjoy the privilege, and the waiting people have to acquiesce, honest people, hereafter  I need to be calm at this moment, so I keep silent.

    Psychologically aggrieved, he muttered a few words to himself and quickly got revenge from the other party. He really blamed himself.  After waiting in line for nearly two hours, when it was my turn, the procedures were incomplete, and no matter how much I asked for forgiveness, I couldn't do anything. Of course, I followed the rules, so I had no choice but to leave in despair.  People's ability to do things is really poor.

    After taking the formalities, I rushed again, but there was no one waiting in line, and the process was completed quickly.  This made me realize how important it is to choose the time and place. If you choose the wrong time and place, you will be delayed or be fooled. If you choose the right time and place, you will be able to handle things smoothly.  dripping point.

    This means that my behavior was a wrong idea. It was wrong to have objections or dissatisfaction with her interest in answering the phone at that time, because what I saw in the afternoon was completely different. She was alone.  You can do the rest of your work leisurely and leisurely, and you don't need to sweat profusely in such a hurry.

    It was I who blamed her wrongly, she was just a clerk and a person who was ordered by others, she was not wrong at all.  It was my fault in itself not to be dissatisfied with her.  It seems that when looking at things in the future, we should analyze and think more.

    Some indirect things can stimulate the brain and generate endless imagination. The reality is that you can see the inner world of great people and their struggle experience to bring people a novel feeling.

    When I read the word "opportunity", I found a common problem. Those successful people can not only endure the unbearable loneliness and pain of ordinary people, but also see danger in opportunities. This is how amazing it is between people  Power Contrast.

    Successful people will get enlightening inspiration from some indirect news. In fact, this is ingenuity. Human wisdom is born. It may not be completely correct, but it is only discovered after hard work. Everyone has different  The thinking of ideas and actions, but the same thing is for success.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com)??Pain, even seeing danger in opportunities, what a magical power contrast between people.

    Successful people will get enlightening inspiration from some indirect news. In fact, this is ingenuity. Human wisdom is born. It may not be completely correct, but it is only discovered after hard work. Everyone has different  The thinking of ideas and actions, but the same thing is for success.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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