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Chapter 49

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    ?Communication is art, exchange must be reciprocal

    ? We met face-to-face, politely, this is an ordinary friend, after that, you will never know what the other party thinks or wants to say.  If you want to continue communicating, you must restrain yourself, put on an attitude of listening attentively, and listen to what the other party says, depending on the interests and hobbies of both parties and thinking about life.

    Listen to what the other party says, it is best not to interrupt, humbly listen to the teachings, and leave a good impression on the other party, which will deepen a certain memory.  Treating guests with such politeness will often lead to embarrassment. The other party will talk endlessly.  Standoff scene.

    It is extremely impolite to turn your head and walk away, leaving the person who is interested in the conversation behind, and you are afraid of embarrassment when we meet again in the future.

    However, in the dialogue between superiors and subordinates, because they don't know what the other party thinks, whether they are willing to continue the dialogue, the other party wants people who are lower than themselves to speak first.  This is a relatively fashionable politeness, which is related to the dignity of a leader, especially when there are others present, the natural leader must maintain a reserved and special status, and does not allow subordinates to talk nonsense, and only wait for a nice title before talking  .

    When I meet someone like me who doesn¡¯t know how to pretend, who looks at other people¡¯s faces and has a strong psychological reaction, naturally I can¡¯t communicate deeply with the leader, because I¡¯m born with the faces of old, treacherous and hypocritical people.  There is a sensitive fear.  These people also have a special aura when they are silent, which is inherent in nature. The aura that is naturally revealed can overwhelm others without saying anything. The gap in temperament between people will not be shortened, and they are born with leadership.  Talented people will study human nature. Through careful observation, they can see people's behavior and things very thoroughly, and know how people will understand and treat things.

    It can even see through people's psychological activities. This is the ability to recognize people after years of exploration and observation. If this ability is innate, it will naturally have the bearing of a leader. The common people will never have leisure time  To practice the ability to recognize people and make good relationships.

    People with this kind of talent look more and more sophisticated. Although this metaphor is a bit inappropriate, it is very visual.  Sometimes when I see such a person looking at people, their eyes are always blinking back and forth, with a flickering look in their eyes, scanning around, avoiding something, wanting to do something.

    In life, we can often see such people being together, very congenial, talking nonsense to each other, talking very interesting things, when seeing someone appearing, they stop talking abruptly, stop chatting, or  They said that they were studying the content of the work or about dealing with people, and they were unwilling to continue talking.  I kept silent and reserved for that kind of behavior that was incomprehensible with a sense of mystery.

    For a small person like me, I look like a fool in this respect. I don¡¯t know anything at all, and I don¡¯t know the art of speaking and any interpersonal relationship. In the eyes of the leaders, I am just an insignificant person, and it doesn¡¯t matter whether I have it or not.  From the dismissive expression of the leader, you will naturally know how low and despicable your personal status is, and you can't wait for it at all, and it doesn't matter to my existence. The self-esteem in my heart was challenged, and I had to give up talking with him  , Keep silent and leave.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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