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I have to say, every word of Jesus in the Bible is the truth! They all contain great wisdom!
A seemingly ordinary sentence, but it vividly portrays all aspects of human nature!
Someone once told Pei Ting, isn't your Christianity also accumulating virtue and doing good deeds, just like other Buddhisms!
Well, it is indeed true that people must do good deeds while alive, and there are causes and effects!
However, what is more important is not what Jesus taught people!
There are benchmarks for how people behave in the world, how to behave, and we just follow it!
Pei Ting really hates the matter of wearing small shoes on people's backs. Thinking about it carefully, what Jesus said is really accurate!
Do not judge others, lest you be judged!
Because how you judge others, you will be judged in the same way!
Be good!
Therefore, Pei Ting seldom talks about other people's affairs. She really can't talk about it, and don't talk about it!
As for the things others say about themselves, since others talk about them later, why should I talk about them again!
Otherwise, when the truth is revealed in novels, there will often be a sentence, "The Buddha said, don't say it, don't say it!"
Hey, now that I think about it, it¡¯s really the same!
Judgment literally means to form a certain point of view on something and to draw a conclusion on a certain issue.
Of course, what is more serious is that the judgment also includes the meaning of trial!
Judgment is not the same as rebuke. There is a verse in the Bible that says, "Rebuke to the face is better than love behind the scenes."
Blame is to ask people to be bravely responsible for their own mistakes and take responsibility!
There is an old saying: "People are not sages, and they can do nothing."
None of us are perfect, and we may all say or do the wrong thing, consciously or not. But the important thing is that we should be willing to accept just blame and kind persuasion, so that we realize our mistakes and are willing to correct them, and be careful not to make the same mistakes again next time!
Everyone needs to be disciplined. Not only do people often need to introspect, but they also need to use the blame and criticism of others to understand their own words and deeds!
When I was a child, my father, Comrade Pei Jinwang, often told his elder brother Pei Hai the story of Wei Zheng!
In the Tang Dynasty, Emperor Taizong regarded Wei Zheng as his mirror, because Wei Zheng dared to speak directly to the emperor, told the truth, pointed out the emperor¡¯s mistakes, and sometimes even made the emperor unable to step down, but Wei Zheng used this to help Tang Taizong Consolidate your rule!
When Wei Zheng died, Taizong was very sad. He said with emotion, "Using copper as a mirror, you can straighten your clothes, using ancient times as a mirror, you can know the ups and downs, and using people as a mirror, you can understand gains and losses Wei Zheng passed away, so he lost a mirror."
People always gain the correct self-awareness through interacting with others and through the feedback of others, otherwise we will become self-righteous, arrogant and narcissistic.
My elder brother Pei Hai is often criticized by his father, mother, and two younger sisters. Hehe, after the criticism, I thank the person who criticized me!
The matter of being criticized is limited to Pei Hai, Pei Qin, Pei Ting, who was wrong and right when she was young, and what is right is even more right!
Fortunately, there is also a more sensible mother, Deng Ping, who beats Pei Ting from time to time to save him from being self-righteous!
Hey, in short, in a positive sense, being non-judgmental means that we must keep an open attitude towards others and things, be able to accept other people's shortcomings and faults with a broad mind, and be able to face every situation with a positive attitude. adversity.
This is a lifetime of continuous learning!
Pei Ting suddenly remembered that she had watched Austin's "Pride and Prejudice" before. It was a very interesting and realistic light comedy!
There are 5 daughters in the Darcy Bennet family. Jane Bennet is the eldest daughter of the Bennet family. She is beautiful, gentle and quiet.
Elizabeth Bennet is the second daughter of the Bennet family. She is lively and generous, intelligent and beautiful.
The third daughter, Mary, is not as good-looking as the other sisters, so she works hard on morality and knowledge, but it also causes her arrogant attitude.
Katie, who is ranked fourth, has a flamboyant personality. She dances most passionately with her fifth sister Lydia, and she often behaves rudely without knowing it.
The fifth daughter loves vanity and pays attention to pleasure. Dancing and fighting with officers are the only purposes of her life. They are not married.
And Mrs. Bennet is a nervous and vain woman. Marrying off each daughter is the only major event in her life, but she never bothers to discipline her daughters' behavior. Mr. Bennet is an old gentleman who cares about his family.Despite the inappropriate behavior of his wife and daughter, he would rather hide in the library to find peace.
Mrs. Bennet worries about finding a satisfactory husband for her daughter all day long. ?
Although the word arrogance is derogatory, it is clearly present in the hero.
The hero in the story, Mr. Darcy, appeared at a ball held by his friend Bingley. Not only is he handsome and rich, but at the same time he is rude and arrogant.
Because Bingley is a wealthy bachelor, young and handsome, lively, cheerful and easy-going, he has many friends, and naturally many people attend the balls he holds.
Of course, there are many beautiful ladies among these people, but because of Mr. Darcy's arrogance, he does not have a good impression of any lady at the ball, and on the contrary makes Elizabeth suffer from his slights.
Because of Mr. Darcy's arrogance and disrespect, no one thought that he would fall in love with any lady at the ball, especially Elizabeth, who had been neglected by him.
Later, Mr. Darcy slowly discovered Elizabeth's intelligence and extraordinary conversation, and he fell in love with her, but he extremely restrained his feelings and did not propose to Elizabeth because he looked down on her family!
But his love for her was indeed very strong, and he finally overcame the barriers of family and status, and finally expressed his heart to Elizabeth.
Is arrogance a cover for love? It really is an emotion that gets used to overdrive.
I have to talk about human prejudice. Elizabeth is the second of the Bennet sisters and the heroine in this story. She is not only beautiful but also intelligent.
After being snubbed by Mr. Darcy at the ball, her self-esteem was hurt, so she had a prejudice against Darcy, but Mr. Darcy's arrogant and rude appearance had already entered Elizabeth's mind, so how could she have a good impression of him?
How can you easily turn a deaf ear to others' evaluation of Darcy?
It is normal for Elizabeth to have prejudice against him, so when Darcy proposed to Elizabeth, it is not difficult for everyone to imagine that Elizabeth rejected his proposal.
But what we didn't expect was that in the end, Darcy and Elizabeth came together.
Although it was unexpected, it is not difficult to come up with it after thinking about it carefully.
Because Elizabeth has a prejudice against Darcy, Elizabeth has a deep impression on Darcy, and this prejudice also indirectly promotes love to a certain extent.
Prejudice has instead become a traffic light for love.
Because of Darcy's arrogance, Elizabeth had a prejudice against him, so that he rejected his marriage proposal. But turning down a marriage proposal doesn't mean they'll never be together.
Because of Darcy's arrogance, Elizabeth had a prejudice against him, so when Darcy proposed to Elizabeth, she not only refused to accept him, but also reprimanded him, and it was because of this reprimand that Darcy realized His own arrogance, after that he became no longer arrogant, and Elizabeth's prejudice against him also disappeared!
In the end, the two got married.
Ha ha, love is the integration of pride and prejudice. It is precisely because of Darcy's arrogance and Elizabeth's prejudice that the two are combined and mutually restrained, so that both arrogance and prejudice disappear, and finally the fruit of love is produced.
Love can bring two people to such an extent. An encounter, a mingling of eyes, is an eternal union of two, a contract with God, and even storms and lightning cannot break down this spiritual bond. How great is the power of love!
Before love, even arrogance has to lower his noble head.
The power of love is too unfathomable. In front of love, not only arrogance lowers his noble head, but even prejudice has to bow down!
In this world, arrogance and prejudice are not rivals of love at all. After encountering love, arrogance and prejudice will not make love disappear, on the contrary, they will only become captives of love.
So, if you really love each other, you must say it face to face if you have something to say, and don't make trouble behind your back. That is to make a villain behind your back, and the misunderstanding will only get deeper and further away!
If Elizabeth doesn't love Darcy enough, and hates iron for being weak, if she doesn't accuse Darcy face-to-face, and judge him behind his back like others, then the two of them will definitely be dead!
If you love him, criticize him face to face!
In the past, Pei Ting often told Sun Feng directly what was wrong, and Sun Feng often told Pei Ting what to change!
? Mutual acceptance and mutual supervision! work together!
It's just that my father and third brother are spoiling me, they really love me completely!
Unfortunately, Pei Ting knew how much she weighed, otherwise, she wouldn't know what she was going to be like!
A verse in the Bible is deeply rooted in Pei Ting's heart, "There is always faith, hope, and love, the greatest of which is love!" (Remember the website website: www.hlnovel.com)?!
Unfortunately, Pei Ting knew how much she weighed, otherwise, she wouldn't know what she was going to be like!
A verse in the Bible is deeply rooted in Pei Ting's heart, "There is always faith, hope, and love, the greatest of which is love!" (Remember the website website: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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