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    Looking at the background, I found that several comments have been deleted. After thinking about it, I will post my reply under the comment.  I've been very busy recently and haven't read much novels and reviews, so I'm a bit behind the scenes on the recent popular discussions.

    Let me say two things first

    1. Any topic can be discussed

    Of course xz is also possible, and even 20,000 comments were deleted for discussing the old pit of zz, I still don¡¯t think it can be discussed at the step of being anti-human.

    How should I put it, apart from the comment section and friends in my own life (only a few), I often don¡¯t see sincere discussions on some too sensitive issues on public platforms. There must be a lot of speeches, but they are all from one side¡¯s point of view  The output of bloggers is just like fans¡¯ comments. A blogger¡¯s main speech is based on one position, while another position¡¯s speech leaves only prejudice. Everyone does not expect to persuade the other party, so there is no two-way communication.

    Last week I pushed Kate's "Mrs. America". She played an anti-feminist. If I didn't watch these, my understanding of this group of women would stay in the very superficial vassal of patriarchy, but in fact  Human nature is very complicated.  Did Chizuko Ueno mention in "Misogyny" that "there is no feminist without misogyny" and "feminists are those who are consciously aware of their own misogyny and are determined to fight it".

    We all grew up in such a "misogynistic" society. Even if we choose to resist, it does not mean that we are completely immune to the baptism of the previous society and completely cast off its shadow.  When you gaze into the abyss, of course the abyss also gazes into you.  So I want to see some words that deconstruct myself, admit my own flaws, and analyze behaviors and phenomena from the perspective of others.  There are also some people who have not achieved self-examination due to various factors, and simply describe some of their "incorrect" views. They can be scolded, but they don't need to deprive them of the opportunity to speak.

    In this regard, Lin Yihan touched me a lot. After reading her words, I realized why sometimes victims would convince themselves to fall in love with their perpetrators. The same is true in the later American drama "Letter Story". The protagonist himself beautified his childhood and was xq  It was only when I recalled the past as an adult that I discovered the evil behind this beauty.  By analogy, there must be more self-domestication and pain under the silent cry and obedience that we don't understand.

    Also, I used to take literature classes. The history of literature can be said to be the history of male literature. There are too few female writers.  women's literature.

    Floating to the surface of history, that is, under the shadow of male discourse rights, women are separated from the "humiliated and damaged mothers" and the "new female group" from a male perspective, and examine the expression of women's self-discourse and female roles  construction process.

    I bought a set of her books, and I didn¡¯t like the other books very much. This one was in the 1980s, and I haven¡¯t read it for a long time. But when I was looking for books in this field, it was quite sad. It¡¯s been 40 years.  , There are still only a few classic books, most of which are written by female authors. People discussed women's loss of voice decades ago, and they still have to discuss it now (evaluated only from a literary perspective).  Not to mention female literary criticism, most of the female images in literary works are also written by men.

    In fact, in the works of male and female writers, the female characters of many male writers may be more "perfect", while those of female writers are more "realistic" without any filters, but we must be wary of some "beautification" and female admirers.  Most of the qualities that people think are "good" are altruistic, and this can be seen from the traditional virtues of women.  There is a chapter in "Misogyny" that discusses it in detail, you can read it.

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    2. Don't hang up

    Hanging people is quite boring, I hope the comment area is still just eating melons, not like wb, when the review was strict, many people advised me to tweet on wb, but I thought about it, wb is too easy to pick people up  , many people just speak carelessly for a while or something, but they will be forced to commit suicide by id, etc., who can always stand on the right side, can discuss or even attack each other, it is not a big crime to speak out of line, but rising  When it comes to a person, it is really bad to deny everything about her past.  There are rational and irrational people in every group, so don¡¯t take this as battlefield control and criticism, I think everything else is fine.  I don't like criticizing all the time. It's the same as some speech techniques, too much brainwashing, etc. I still like to see everyone's real speeches, even if there are some unpleasant ones in them.

    And not to mention the position, just the words themselves can easily cause ambiguity. Sometimes the speaker has no intention, but the listener has intentions, and sometimes I make typos, etc. I often make typos, and I wish jj could withdraw it.  Besides, there is not only one label for each person.  Everyone is a complex and multi-faceted person. It is impossible for a person to satisfy all values ??in every aspect. Take me as an example, because?Being bitten by a dog is very afraid of dogs, and I especially hope that dogs will disappear in the world, but it is only at the level of thinking, it is neither possible to implement, nor is it possible to kidnap everyone¡¯s life with my own preferences, even my mouth  Under the cannon, because the dog fans are too powerful, they only dare to cheer themselves up in their heads.  If you are afraid of supernatural themes, just don¡¯t read them yourself. There is no need to add a statement saying that because you are afraid of ghosts, you can¡¯t promote novels in this area.  Many of the novels I recommend are personal tastes. Of course, some people don¡¯t like to read them, and they can make complaints about them. It would be too sad if the collection of tweets can¡¯t complain.  It is good for people to be responsible for themselves. Don't always include others in your evaluation and behavior system, and set low demands on yourself and others.

    Even if you see some unbearable speeches, don¡¯t think that it¡¯s your fault, or her, or the society¡¯s fault, type x less, and type ¡Ì more.  If you think you can discuss it, you can go back, if you don¡¯t have it, just pass it, and continue to do what you need to do. There is no need to be immersed in that topic all the time. There are too many things in everyone¡¯s life that are more important than tweets. The main purpose of coming here must be to find books and read them.  If you don't want to, just ignore the small advertisement.

    I first wrote a collection of tweets in 2010, and it has been ten years now. It can be said that here, apart from being angry because of deleting comments and reviewing, and seeing the sadness of some acquaintances leaving messages, all I have gained are happiness. I hope very much  Everyone too.

    Jinjiang is so big, it is really a rare fate for us to meet each other and stay together for so long, let's read novels happily, it's fun to talk, don't use a knife!  Isn't it good to leave the knife for the game?

    Love you guys !

    Love&peace (^_-)

    Xiling

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    Deleted reply

    All topics have meaning. In the past, some people complained about life and vented their negative energy in the comment area, and many people who resonated with them also began to complain. At that time, the comment area was indeed a negative energy concentration camp. Some readers just wanted to read novels and didn¡¯t want to read these  , I hope to let me delete the comment, saying that there should not be these under the collection of tweets.  But at that time, I also saw a lot of people come out to comfort them, and some people really let go of their burdens after talking, and some people would tell them what ways to seek help for these situations. I think this is very good.

    Not everyone is so carefree, and not everyone can find someone to talk to for comfort.  I am quite happy that the comment area can occasionally take on this function. People who don¡¯t want to read it will just spend a little more time and won¡¯t cause too much trouble.  And in fact, the negative energy does not vent on the public platform. It is easy to lose friends if it is a single person.  All kinds of messages will not be all self-pity at once, but you can calmly read her effective information and give advice. Who knows if this will really save anyone?

    Now that I see someone who speaks for xz, I really feel speechless, but I can¡¯t see it, I just don¡¯t reply, it¡¯s a bit too much to specifically shut her up, I believe there is no ncf here, even if it¡¯s a fan, it¡¯s not true  Using the system of her fans to talk to us, normal communication is possible. When 227 first broke out, his fans also showed up, and they didn¡¯t do anything too radical when they were attacked. I was really afraid of talking about this  I also reported it conveniently, and it¡¯s not that I couldn¡¯t find something to attack. Not to mention the readers, there are also many anti-social mainstream values ??in the articles I tweeted.

    When I first promoted "Misogyny", I wrote some thoughts on the dark side of our human nature. Many "incorrect" things are very worth discussing. Some works will make people feel uncomfortable when they break through our cognitive "boundary".  Angry, but there are many excellent works. I still hope that no matter whether I hate it or not, I will not deny everything because of my position.  Many of Chen Chong's works and essays are very good, but every time I see her comments, she always mentions the incident of adopting a daughter, which is quite helpless.  Human nature is very rich, if only good people do good things and say bad things, and bad people do bad things and say bad things, it would be too restrictive.  It¡¯s very good with some celebrities, but for this ¡°goodness¡± it becomes very boring (remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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