Xiao Menghong has been dreaming since he was a child, dreaming of another woman named Xiao Deyin.
Xiao Deyin was born in a scholarly family, beautiful and talented. At the age of eighteen, she followed the marriage contract and married into the Gu family, a high-ranking official, and became the daughter-in-law of the Gu family.
She is one of the most eye-catching socialites in Peking, her husband is handsome and personable, and she is an aviation flying tiger major who has touched the feelings of countless girls in Peking;
Beauty, talent, money, status, marriage, she has whatever she wants. In the eyes of others, her life couldn't be more complete
Then one day, Xiao Menghong woke up and found that he had really turned into Xiao Deyin.
But everything she saw in her dream is already in the past tense.
Xiao Deyin's divorce failed, she was betrayed in love, her reputation was ruined, her husband treated her coldly, her husband's family hated her, even her biological father now regards her as a passerby.
Standing in the ankle-deep snow in Peking in December,
The shivering Xiao Menghong has no face to love. jpg: Can I go back after sleeping?
In one sentence: Mr. Gu, your wife is going to get a divorce!
? Overhead a century-old background, only talk about love, not a career-line article, nor a feminist article, wrong point x.
The biggest reason for pushing this article is because the original character set of the heroine of the Republic of China is finally not Zhang Youyi, but a bit of a fusion of Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman's character set. A talented woman, an architect, and a very good husband are still cheating in pursuit of true love. However, the character design of the male protagonist is still a bit ordinary. I originally read more than twenty chapters and didn¡¯t want to read it, but I was attracted by a reader¡¯s comment:
Author: fat monster rio
Seeing a lot of people discussing in this article, I can¡¯t help but share my thoughts. This article has been written for more than 70 chapters. Some people think that the hero is straight and cancerous, and some people think that the heroine is not a competent mother. , and hold their own. Doesn't this just show that the author's impact is successful?
Regardless of whether Deyin's identity is the heroine's previous life, first of all, she is a highly educated and very independent woman in the new era. After such a woman came to the relatively conservative overhead Republic of China, her words and deeds must be The impact with the mainstream, coupled with her background in modern times, makes her overprotect herself, and will not easily trust anyone or rely on anyone. This is a very smart way to avoid harm to herself. If she When I came to this era, I just wanted to go with the flow, and I guess there are not more than seventy chapters to write.
I saw some readers mentioned why the heroine couldn't find a new partner during the five years after she left, because as long as she doesn't break away from being single, it will be difficult to end this emotional entanglement. This is actually a very ridiculous remark. What kind of life a woman wants to pursue is what she plans and chooses. Does happiness and success have to be linked to marriage and family? There are always many people who will sympathize with and imagine how lonely a strong woman who has not formed a marriage and family is. Frankly speaking, this is the sequelae of watching too many TV dramas. It will attract more criticism from the population.
In fact, a woman with a successful career generally has a very strong self-control ability, knows her own needs, and is not lacking in the spiritual level. Even if she has physical needs, she can choose to start a romantic relationship, and she does not have to be online. To get married and have children.
When an independent woman chooses a family, it does not mean that she is moved by the family. It may be that she has a sense of curiosity and demand for such a relationship, and it does not mean that she has compromised with the public's views.
And Deyin is actually a very smart woman, she has been emphasizing her selfishness, but who is not selfish? From the moment she became Deyin, apart from going through a short period of confusion, she quickly entered the state, seized the opportunity when it came, and worked hard when the choice was limited. She has done her best The possibility is to achieve the goal she customized, and it's not that she can't fall in love with others, but her love needs to be established on the basis of equality between the two parties and without constraints. But obviously, no matter whether she chooses Xue or Gu, she must return to the previous vortex and struggle hard. For a woman who is trying to control her own life, it is undoubtedly that she has just landed, and then she is in trouble again. To be dragged into the water.
So will Deyin love Mr. Gu? In fact, as far as Mr. Gu¡¯s objective conditions are concerned, being a lover is more than enough, but for Deyin, such a relationship is not attractive, so I am curious how the author will get it back, because if this plot continues, no It is almost impossible for one party to compromise.
Besides, Mr. Gu, he is not a straight man.??, not straight male cancer, not straight male cancer. Say important things three times! People¡¯s thinking has limitations. If the background of today¡¯s article is in the 21st century, I would be the first to call on everyone to boycott such straight and cancerous male protagonists. Xue, who looks very infatuated, is very good. ? The hero is changing!
But in fact, with the social and historical background at that time, the male protagonist¡¯s behavior and thinking are very normal. Maybe you will say that his father is not like this. He respects the female protagonist¡¯s daughter-in-law very much, but you also have to look at the male protagonist. What kind of woman did the Lord father meet to spend his whole life with, and as people grow in age and experience, it is a normal change to be more and more tolerant and accepting of others.
Including many male protagonists who make female protagonists feel unbelievable, unacceptable and intolerable, it is we, the spectators who have received the education of the new era, who criticize him with our own worldview.
I'm not trying to whitewash the male lead, saying that he did a good job, but in fact what he did was very blunt and very bad, but such "badness" is not based on ideology, but on method. There are thousands of ways to express and deal with the same thing, and some people can find out the most uncomfortable way to solve it, that is to say, people like him. (There are also people who find a solution that makes both parties extremely uncomfortable and disgusting. This kind of person is generally in the label of "abusive face and deep affection")
? If these two people are unwilling to open up to each other, the final outcome will definitely be far apart.
Speaking of children, a reader who left a message is right. Having a respectable mother is often more suitable for building a child's inner world than a caring and meticulous mother. I myself grew up in a very happy family, but what I am most grateful to my parents for giving me is not rich material conditions, but spiritual guidance. My mother basically didn¡¯t take care of the family until I was in high school. She and my father were very busy, one was busy with career and the other was busy with school. She studied for a master¡¯s degree and a doctorate during my elementary school and published books. , going to other places to teach people, even going north to study and do research, and studying abroad, she gave me very little love in life, but it doesn't mean that she doesn't love me. I also had conflicts and incomprehension when I was a child. , I don¡¯t even like her that much, but most of the time I still feel proud and proud of her efforts and achievements, in fact, when I was young I don¡¯t know what the hell I am proud of. Fortunately, most of the family members of the other children in the school are intellectuals, and they will not express ill will to my parents who rarely show up.
I don't know how much Xian'er understands his mother's career, but it is very normal for him to reject his mother who left home, "Why weren't you by my side when I needed you? Unlike other mothers His own children?" These questions, which would briefly plague him, would naturally have their answers when he grew up.
?But rejection does not mean resentment. Basically, as long as the parents are not treacherous people, have not received incorrect guidance, and the material conditions are not too bad, it is quite difficult for a child to grow crooked.
Finally, I would like to refute the view that "Mr. Gu's mother and sister must have said bad things about the heroine, which made the child repulsive."
Why does Mrs. Gu hate the heroine? Because she created unstable and contradictory factors in the family. I don¡¯t know if she will create rebellious psychology if she adds fuel to the child to discredit the heroine. At least the unstable factors will intensify. If you don't embarrass the heroine in a good face, you can see that she doesn't want to tear her up).
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