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- During the intermission, Li Daochang asked his disciple E Luhua why he was crying. E Luhua lied that the flying insects were blinded. The old Taoist asked her to put down the bead curtain and sit behind the curtain. After that, she returned to the banquet.
[1] "Tao Te Ching" Taoism
Everlasting.
The reason why heaven and earth can last forever,
Because it does not grow by itself, it can live forever.
It is the saint who comes first,
Survive outside the body.
Because of its selflessness, it can be selfish.
Li Daochang said: "There is an idiom called 'Forever and Forever'. I think everyone is familiar with it. It comes from Chapter 7 of "Tao Te Ching". This chapter is exquisite. It seems that Laojun wrote it for love, with a vision and a core. Naturally.
Two people meet because of love, and will have romantic time belonging to each other in the following time.
In a long-term married life, you pay a little for love, and I will give you more love in return; opportunity to grow. "
After Dapuhua came back, he found that someone had already sat on his seat, so he found the seat on the left side and sat down. When he looked up and saw the bead curtain was put down in the small room, he couldn't help but feel a "thump" in his heart
Li Daochang said: "Love hopes to last as long as heaven and earth. But to realize this vision, we need to stick to a core. Next, Pindao will talk about this important core in Chapter 7 from four aspects.
First, it does not generate itself.
What is 'not self-generated'? Just don't live for yourself. Keep the other person in your heart, think about the other person, let alone step on two or more boats.
The Laojun said, ‘In the past, those who got the one: the sky got the one to make it clear; the earth got the one to make it calm; "
Throughout the ages, those who get one are beautiful everywhere.
If the sky is sunny, the sky will be sunny, and the earth will be peacefulYoung people, if your marriage is happy, how can you not be peaceful? If you don't believe me, try marrying two women Wouldn't it be crazy every day?
What is the "get one" of love?
The "getting one" of love is true love. It is because of true love that love is sincere. Without true love, it is false love and false marriage.
If we continue to ask, what is the "one" of true love?
The "one" of true love is a love that only loves one person. If two people fall in love, have love, have marriage, and start a family, you have obtained this "one", obtained the way of love, your love, the world of the two of you, how can this world be unclear? The world you two own, how can this land be restless? So, to gain the one is to gain the Tao.
Second, the latter.
You have to stand behind the one you love and smooth the edges and corners. Boys should not look like big men, women should also have the posture of little girls, don't have the idea of ??strong women, respect each other, and then get the right way.
In order to fulfill this relationship, both men and women will inevitably devote time and energy, or material and wealth. But we must have such an awareness that the purpose of giving for love is to make love more beautiful and reliable, not to let the other party know what we have paid, so that we can be grateful to ourselves.
For example, if you give your wife a gift, you will take the trouble to mention it in front of her; you will even hint to the other party that you should express your gratitude for your efforts. In this way, you do not actually love your wife .
On the contrary, if after you have paid for love, the other party takes it for granted to enjoy everything you give, but never thinks about giving back, then such a person does not really love you in his heart.
Three, outside the body.
Stay out of the way and don't think about yourself. When difficulties, dangers, and accidents come, I would rather give my all to support the other party. This realm is the highest and the most difficult.
Love is care and tolerance, and it is a kind of fulfillment based on the overall situation. In the face of someone we really like, no matter how much we pay, we will feel that it is worth it.
Four, selflessness.
'Selfless' means not having any selfishness. Don't be blinded by the other party's wealth and appearance. Sincerely, without playing with emotions. Love that does not aim at marriage is impure; love that does not aim at eternity is not true.
Laojun said, 'Governing a big country is like cooking a small fish'. In fact, marriage is even more so.
In marriage, we should have the heart of doing nothing, "do nothing and do everything", and don't stir it frequently like cooking small fish, otherwise it will be a mess.
A man must be graceful, magnanimous, magnanimous, and with a heart for punting, the girl's boat can safely dock in the harbor in your heart. You have become the safest safe haven, and of course she will treat you well. rely on, so you can capture her heart"
[2] "Recovering Occasionally Seeing the Three Wonders. The Third" Han Yu. Poetry
Half body Yingzhu lightly hears the words,
Uncover the curtain with one hand and turn your head slightly;
This meaning should not be noticed by others,
Overwhelmed by emotion and romantic.
Dapuhua sat there a little distracted, thinking: Is she gone? Did she get scolded by the old Taoist priest again? This is not enough, why did you leave!
Suddenly, the bead curtain fluttered slightly again, and Dapuhua took a closer look, and the half-hidden person behind the bead curtain was none other than his Eluhua with "mist as the sleeve and jade as the crown".
I saw that her lips seemed to be "whispering", who was she talking to? I don't know what she is talking about? However, Dapuhua, who is "heart-to-heart", feels that she is targeting herself! She meant to tell Daphua——"I'm here!"
Dapuhua felt peaceful and joyful. He let out a long breath, bowed his body, pulled the hem of his clothes, and sat down solemnly, pretending to listen to the scriptures seriously. However, he couldn't hide his posture and expression at all: his "heart" had already flown into the hut—he was facing her little mouth, listening to her honey words!
Da Puhua stared at E Luhua from the corner of his eye.
All his thoughts were on the bead curtain, and when E Luhua "lifted the curtain with one hand", Dapuhua's heart would thump; he also noticed her "slightly turning her head" movement The girl seemed to be unconscious Yes, but it is clearly indicating—"Did you see me?"
This is exactly the feeling in "Chu Songs. Nine Songs. Shao Siming" [1] that "the house is full of beauties, and suddenly I am alone with Yu Ximu".
This is the "eye language"! This is the most abundant and subtle body language, which can express extremely complex and rich thoughts and feelings, and is an emotion that cannot be expressed in words. Seeing her eyes, Da Puhua's heart meltedhe felt—"everything is in plain sight."
Dapuhua's heart was full of emotions, and he couldn't hold it back. But I also realized that my thoughts and feelings were somewhat out of date. He carefully observed the reactions around him, to see if the old Taoist had noticed his "bad" mood. Seeing that everyone didn't react, and the old Taoist didn't notice, he couldn't help but secretly rejoice
In public, under the eyes of everyone, without others noticing, the two lovers actually had a "conversation" and exchanged their love. Both of them were extremely excited!
It can be said that it is both emotional and romantic.
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Notes
[1] "Songs of Chu. Nine Songs. Shao Siming"
"Nine Songs. Shao Siming" is one of the suite "Nine Songs" written by Qu Yuan. It is a companion piece to "Nine Songs. Da Siming". Shao Si Ming is the god in charge of children's lives (actually the god of fertility). This poem and "Nine Songs. Da Siming" both use the way of confession and pouring out of the character's spiritual world on the one hand, and on the other hand, use what the other party sees to describe the image. The method of expressing the other party's praise from the side not only changes the angle, but also combines the inside and outside to set off each other. Every libretto in the poem writes "he" and "I" at the same time, adopting a combination of lyricism and description. The technique, the diction are gorgeous, and the charm is profound.
original text
Autumn orchids are like moose, and Luo Sheng is under the hall. The green leaves are plain, and the fragrance is beautiful. Mrs. Xi has a beautiful son, why is Sun?? Xi distressed?
Autumn orchids are green, green leaves are purple stems. The hall is full of beauties, and suddenly I am alone with Yu Xi. When you enter, you don't say anything, when you leave, you don't say goodbye. When you ride the wind, you can carry the cloud flag.
?There is no sorrow to be sad and parting, and there is no joy to get to know each other. The lotus clothes and the loincloth belt come and go in a flash. Stay in the suburbs of the emperor at night, who needs to be in the clouds?
I bathe in Xianchi with my daughter, and my daughter hair Xiyangzhi. Look forward to the beauty and the future, and sing in the wind. Gai xi Cui 旍, climbed to the nine heavens and caressed the comet. Yu Longjian embraces the young Ai, and Sun Duyi acts as the righteousness of the people.
Translation
Autumn bluegrass and xiong qiong are all over the courtyard under the hall. The tender green leaves are sandwiched with small white flowers, and the fragrant fragrance rushes to the face. People have their own sons and daughters, why are you so worried?
Pieces of autumn orchids are verdant and lush, with purple stems protruding from the tender green leaves. All the beauties in the hall were welcoming God, and suddenly they all greeted me to express their affection. When I came, I went out speechless and did not say goodbye. I drove the whirlwind and set up the banner of Yunxia.
There is nothing sadder than a living parting, and nothing happier than a new acquaintance. Wearing a lotus dress and wearing a cypress belt, I suddenly come and suddenly leave. Staying in the fields of the Emperor of Heaven at sunset, who are you waiting for to stay in the clouds for a long time?
Go with you to wash your hair in Xianchi, the place where the sun bathes, and dry your hair at the place where the sun rises. The beauty from afar still hasn't come, I sing in the wind and trance and resentment. The peacock feathers make the car cover and the kingfisher feathers decorate the banner, and you ascend to the nine heavens to caress the comet. Holding a long sword straight in one hand and holding a child horizontally in the other hand, only you are the most suitable to be the host! (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com)Grass belt, I come suddenly and then leave suddenly. Staying in the fields of the Emperor of Heaven at sunset, who are you waiting for to stay in the clouds for a long time?
Go with you to wash your hair in Xianchi, the place where the sun bathes, and dry your hair at the place where the sun rises. The beauty from afar still hasn't come, I sing in the wind and trance and resentment. The peacock feathers make the car cover and the kingfisher feathers decorate the banner, and you ascend to the nine heavens to caress the comet. Holding a long sword straight in one hand and holding a child horizontally in the other hand, only you are the most suitable to be the host! (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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