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Chapter 97 I want to be steady and slow

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    Chapter 97 "I want to be steady and slow"

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    I want steady happiness

    Can withstand the cruelty of doomsday

    In the restless night

    Can have a home

    This is a golden song by the well-known singer Eason Chan, which has been popular all over the country.  But I want to change it a little bit and say "I want to be steady and slow".

    With the fast-paced trend of modern society, many people are driven faster and faster by various pressures from work and life. It seems that "fast" is king, truth, and justice.

    For this reason, the Chinese character "fast" is a word that is often used by modern people. This is not unreasonable. After all, human beings are more or less born with "procrastination" and "lazy cancer".  If you do not properly urge, emphasize, and spur, you will inevitably procrastinate and cause mistakes due to the so-called "not important" or "not in a hurry".  Small, neat little things become more and more complicated, which brings unnecessary trouble.

    However, there are always two sides to everything.  For example, "fast and slow" is not only a pair of antonyms, but also a pair of contradictions, both sides have their own advantages and disadvantages.  Only by mastering skillfully and flexibly in daily life can the respective advantages of fast and slow be brought into full play, and then better serve our daily work and life.

    Personally, I think the benefits of being slow are more than being fast.  Because it's slowso steady!  In fact, I have always spoken too fast, and sometimes the listener may not be able to understand the whole meaning of me after a while, and it ends up making both parties unhappy  , and even a little embarrassing.  But I found that many big characters in film and television dramas speak very, very slowly, and they always seem to be calm and unhurried.

    For example, the role of Empress Fucha in the popular "Story of Yanxi Palace" a few years ago was played by actress Qin Lan. She was called "White Moonlight" by many drama fans because of her perfect character.  Although I haven't watched the show completely, but when I accidentally saw a clip titled "Empress Fucha vs Concubine Gao" on my mobile phone, I was surprised to find that the gentle and elegant queen spoke like this  "Turtle speed" made me, the audience, anxious!  But it was because of her slowness and stability that she was able to speak with reason and confidence, making it difficult for the arrogant and domineering concubine Gao to refute for a while.  From that moment on, I not only learned the subtle art of speaking, but also the art of slowness!

    I also complained that my father sometimes spoke too slowly, and he always pretended to be "hmm", but my father said: "If you watch more costume dramas and observe the characters in them carefully, you will find that they not only speak slowly,  And it's still 'hmm'." Of course, TV dramas are always TV dramas.  In the real world, it is natural to speak slowly, but it is impractical to always say "huh" inscrutable, otherwise the other party will mistakenly think that you are simply absent-minded and do not listen carefully to what others say.  However, based on the enlightenment my father gave me, I gradually recognized this kind of "slowness", which is still the same sentence-slowness and stability.

    Indeed, a slow person is also a calm and calm person in most situations. Even in the face of big occasions, big crises, and big changes, he can maintain a calm and peaceful look.  And this kind of impetuousness, which is different from ordinary people, will also make people feel that this person is calm and will surely achieve great things!

    I remember that in the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty" that I loved to watch when I was a child, Siqin Gaowa played the role of "Empress Xiaozhuang". There was a line that I still find very shocking.  It probably meant to persuade Emperor Kangxi to be firm and confident in the face of Wu Sangui's rebellion: "Remember, you are the emperor of the Qing Dynasty, you should not give up on yourself! To make the sky fall and the earth fall, stay still, the sun, the moon and the stars, I am the only one who respects you  ah!"

    This line is also often praised by my father. He said that a woman who can speak such domineering words at the critical moment of life and death, even if she can really face Wu Sangui's soldiers approaching the city, her kingly spirit will make those rebels daunted and dare not make mistakes.  Second-rate.

    Therefore, I was also deeply shocked from the wonderful performance of this old drama player, and from her slow tone of every word, sonorous and powerful, and swallowing mountains and rivers!  I thought that this is a person who is really strong enough in heart to be able to remain calm and calm in the face of crisis This is the real king and overlord, and it is what every impetuous and impatient person should do.  A pioneer role model who dives into learning with heart!

    Well, since that's the case, let'sslow down a little bit.

    Once again, the so-called "slowness" does not mean that we completely lose our sense of responsibility, just thinking about "waiting for tomorrow" and procrastinating.  It is to allow us to remain stable in the face of all kinds of unexpected setbacks and hardships in life, great joy and great sorrow.?Ego, stay rational.

    Fan Zhongyan once said in "Yueyang Tower": "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself." That is to let oneself be able to be flattered and humiliated when faced with any misfortunes and blessings.  After all, "misfortune depends on fortune, and fortune rests on misfortune." Flowers do not bloom in a hundred days, and misfortune and fortune are ultimately difficult to define.  It is better to be a little more "Buddha-like", indifferent, and slower than to be complacent because of small profits, get carried away in a hurry, or complain about others because of unfavorable conditions, and get confused in a hurry.

    Friends, learn to take your time.

    Learn to take your time, be calm and smile, let yourself feel the brilliance of the years slowly settling in the steady slowness, and no longer be as impetuous as before, missing the dazzling flowers along the way; learn to take it slowly  , be tenacious, tenacious, calm and calm, let yourself continuously enhance the ability to surpass yourself in a steady and slow manner, and temper the character of overcoming difficulties and firm will.

    At the end of the article, I will use this sentence of lyrics that I have roughly modified to end poorly.  I hope that each of us can learn to be slow and steady, and let slowness become the wisdom of life and the art of life.

    I want to be steady and slow

    Able to face the storms of life with a smile

    In the morning sun

    Can continue to move forward calmly

    ? June 15, 2020 (remember the website URL: www.hlnovel.com
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