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Differences in cognition will bring inconvenience in communication!
? Yang Tao reminded himself repeatedly in his heart, don't be in a nest! Don't think it's so great to be in front of your parents after you go out to meet the world for a few days and learn something!
Getting angry and venting is just a sign of incompetence!
To learn to solve problems!
Yang Tao began to reflect on where the problems between him and his parents appeared. Maybe it was a difference in cognition, or maybe it was just a certain thing in his heart that was not happy.
The distance from the old production base to the city is not too far, and Yang Tao used the limited time to think about this matter somewhat thoroughly.
Probably because they want to see Sun Xiaoran, the gap in identity makes them very nervous, and their cautiousness leads to emotional depression, so they have a little bit of emotional explosion!
To solve this problem, Yang Tao needs to let his parents think from the standpoint of Sun Xiaoran's parents.
Yang Tao asked, "Dad, Mom, if you are professors in the university, if you have a daughter who is Sun Xiaoran, would you like Sun Xiaoran to marry a man like me?"
Yang Wenguang, who was still very angry just now, froze for a moment when he heard this. He had already got the answer in his heart, but he was still angry on the surface, "What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you?"
Yang Tao is very happy that at least his father will still defend himself, which was hard to see in the past.
Yang Tao said, "Professor Sun and Professor Ran accepted me, a large part of which is because of what happened to them when they were young."
"It was a chaotic era, and there was no one around me to trust."
"When they have been treated unfairly, their defensiveness towards those around them is actually very serious."
"In this complex society, they are so capable and capable, but they choose to teach and educate people in schools because the environment in schools is relatively simple."
"They don't like all their problems being put on the table to be analyzed and discussed. They just want to do their own work well."
Yang Tao emphasized: "The big tree attracts the wind! They don't want to cause any trouble for the rest of their lives, so they chose me, an ordinary person!"
Yang Tao's attitude is very sincere, but Yang Wenguang has a little difficulty accepting this reality. How is his son ordinary?
Especially Gao Lan, when she heard her son say that about herself, she felt a little uncomfortable.
It is difficult to admit that others are excellent, and it is not easy to admit that you are stupid and ordinary. Of course, people like Yang Wenguang and Gao Lan who may be mediocre for a lifetime, it is difficult for them to understand this truth.
?Because the workers in the old production base have always felt that they are very powerful all their lives, and the people who have walked out of the old production base are all arrogant.
Just like when Yang Tao went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, he would always wear work clothes to show his identity as a worker in this way. Do you still have the nerve to wear them now?
Yang Tao was probably afraid that his parents would misunderstand, so he said, "There is a difference between mediocrity and mediocrity. They think I am mediocre because I come from a worker's family and I don't have a complicated background. This is in line with their criteria for choosing a son-in-law."
"But I am unwilling to be mediocre. I left the old production base. I studied hard, worked hard, and tried my best to let myself see more of the world These are what the two professors appreciate."
Yang Tao looked at his parents seriously, "They didn't look down on you, and Sun Xiaoran wouldn't look down on you, so you need to respect their family's way of life."
Depend on!
After saying all these words, Yang Tao found that his skin was trembling. These words could not come from his mouth, but from Zhou Liang'an's mouth after experiencing countless quarrels and talking to Zhou Liang'an The standard answer heard in.
In fact, some of these words are difficult to hear, but rather than quarreling, confiding in an empathetic way, so that people can develop the habit of empathy, is this the correct way to communicate and communicate?
I usually remember what Zhou Liangan said in a small notebook, and it can also play a big role in critical times. At least at this moment, Yang Wenguang didn't get angry or blamed after hearing these words, but just lowered his head and sighed heavily.
Yang Tao picked up a bag of fruit from the vegetables he bought, rushed to Zhou Liangan's house and knocked on the door.
"Taotao, why are you here?"
With Yang Tao's eyes, he looked around the room and found that Yu Wenjing was not there, so he said with a smile: "I went to the vegetable market with my parents and bought a bag of fruits, which are quite fresh.??Specially brought it up. "
"It's still so troublesome, you see you are too polite!"
Yang Tao thought to himself, in the past, Liang'an used to send some chicken, duck and fish to his parents when he was not at home. Yang Tao felt that it was only natural for him to bring more things for his aunt when he had time, not to mention that he brought fruit here today. The purpose is not simple, but more to see if Yu Wenjing is at home!
Wu Chunhua wanted to stay with Yang Tao for dinner. Yang Tao said that he had something to do at noon today, so he turned around and took his parents to his home.
Gao Lan originally wanted to say hello to Wu Chunhua, but Yang Tao said, "Today's time is too tight at noon, and there will be plenty of time in the future."
Yang Wenguang actually said at this time, "Hurry up, or the meal will not be ready when people come back later."
Yang Tao chuckled, it seemed that what he said from the bottom of his heart just now had an effect.
After bringing his parents back home, Yang Tao ran two more streets to buy cigarettes and alcohol at Yu Wenjing's small store, and after confirming that Yu Wenjing had left, he called Zhou Liang'an.
"Liang'an, let's go!"
After arranging everything, Yang Tao heaved a sigh of relief.
When Zhou Liang'an and Li Wenjie came to pick her up at Sun Xiaoran's house, they found that this girl was well dressed, and she was always generous before, but today she became awkward and always lowered her head.
Zhou Liang'an yelled, "Sun Xiaoran, why does your face look like a monkey's butt?"
"Li Wenjie, give Zhou Liang'an a slap for me!" Sun Xiaoran said angrily.
Hohohoho
Sun Xiaoran knew that today was very important to him, and Yang Tao also felt that this day was very important, so before the meeting, Sun Xiaoran performed very grandly, dressed beautifully, and put on makeup.
In order for Sun Xiaoran to relieve her nervousness, Zhou Liang'an was still relaxing with her when she arrived downstairs at Yang Tao's house.
"Xiao Ran, don't worry, come in, the door of Yang Tao's house, why don't you find a shrine to enshrine you?"
"There is a couplet next to it. The first couplet: If you get a daughter-in-law, your ancestors will accumulate virtue. The second couplet: Blessed dogs, open branches and leaves. Horizontal criticism, immortals!"
Hoo hoo hoo
The moment he entered the door, Sun Xiaoran looked at the honest Yang Wenguang, then at Twilight Sparkle's Gao Lan, and called softly, "Uncle, aunt!"
With this call, the hearts of the whole family almost melted. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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