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    "General, when will I start executing your order? Is it now or someday in the future?" Johnny asked Anthony when Josh will execute the order.  "Johnny, if you go back now, execute my order. The scope and direction of the corresponding sea area will be arrived soon. Johnny, you must pay attention to this mission and complete it as quickly as possible. Remember,  Every time you find an island, conduct an all-round survey and take photos of the island, including distant and close-up views, as well as all-round 360-degree photos. And, as soon as you find the island, immediately report it to me.  Report the situation. Johnny, the better you complete the task this time, the greater your credit will be. If you can complete the task in half a day or one day, I promise that I will personally apply for the Congressional Medal of Honor for you.  Ni, it’s up to you now!” The Medal of Honor (British: medalhonor) is the highest military medal of honor in the United States established by the U.S. government in accordance with the U.S. Congress Act of 1862. The scope of awarding is  Open to members of all branches of the United States Armed Forces, including the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps and Coast Guard, recipients must "demonstrate extraordinary intrepidity and intrepidity at the risk of their own lives in combat with the enemies of the United States."  7∴Spirit”.  It dates back to 1862 during the American Civil War and has been issued 3,460 times so far, most recently in 2013.  Members of the Navy, Army and Air Force are all eligible to receive this honor, and the Medal of Honor awarded by each service has its own unique design.  It was personally issued by the President of the United States, who serves as the supreme commander of the United States Armed Forces.  The award certificate for the Medal of Honor has the words "in the name of Congress" (in the name of Congress), and it is often mistakenly called the "Congressional Medal of Honor"; in fact, there is no word "Congress" in the official name.  The Medal of Honor is the highest medal awarded by the United States and has very high standards, established by the United States in accordance with the Act of the United States Congress in 1862.  Individuals who receive the Medal of Honor must be brave and tenacious.  Deeds of self-sacrifice and fearlessness in the face of danger.  The courage and intrepidity displayed must clearly exceed that of his companions, and the medal must be awarded based on convincing evidence of service performance.  Recommendations must be considered based on outstanding merit criteria.  The Medal of Honor can only be awarded in person by the President of the United States who serves as the supreme commander of the United States Armed Forces.  The Medal of Honor is the only medal in the United States that cannot be legally traded.  It is also illegal for non-obtainers to wear it in public.  Violators shall be fined and imprisoned for a term not exceeding one year in accordance with the provisions of Chapter 18, Section 33, Section 704 of the United States Code.  Receiving the Medal of Honor does not mean that the recipient can enjoy special personal privileges, nor does it mean that the recipient is exempted from military obligations, but he still has certain benefits: If there is space available, individuals who receive the Medal of Honor can fly for free.  Aircraft of the Military Airlift Command; Children of individuals who have received the Medal of Honor may be admitted to Mission College without quota restrictions as long as they meet the prescribed conditions; Documents of Medal of Honor recipients, the medal can be inherited by their children; Army personnel who have received the Medal of Honor  You can apply to the U.S. Department of the Army Headquarters to have your name included in the Medal of Honor list.  Persons listed in the directory or other qualified persons can enjoy a special pension of US$200 per month for life upon application.  The creation of the Medal of Honor can be traced back to the American Civil War in 1861. Before that, from the war to the Mexican-Mexican War in the 1840s, the United States had established medals to commend military personnel for their heroic actions.  But most of them are temporary and will be abolished after the war.  After the American Civil War broke out in 1861, James Graham, a member of the Illinois Senate, suggested to the General of the U.S. Army that  Commander General Winfield Scott established a permanent honor to commend soldiers who have shown bravery and outstanding achievements, but Scott did not accept it.  However, this suggestion was accepted by the U.S. Navy. President Lincoln signed a decree on December 21, 1861, establishing the Navy Medal of Valor to be awarded to "those who have performed extraordinary bravery in the current war."  Naval Officers, Sailors and Marines”.  Secretary of the Navy Gideon Welles commissioned the Philadelphia Mint to design and manufacture this medal.  On July 12, 1862, the U.S. Army succeeded the U.S. Navy.  The Medal of Valor was introduced into the Army's award system and was later unified as the Medal of Honor and became the highest honor for all Americans.  The Medal of Honor was first awarded to sailors in 1861 and was later awarded to army personnel.  Since then.  More than 3,400 medals have been awarded to Migrants and Coast Guard members, as well as a handful of civilians for bravery.  The Medal of Honor is awarded only to the bravest warriors whose heroic deeds can be proven.  So Medal of Honor recipients are veryLess.  In fact, the only awards after the Vietnam War were awarded to Army Sergeant Guy Rigoden and Army Sergeant First Class Lanton who were killed in So-Ma-ri in 1993.  ——Del——dshughart, and Army Sergeant First Class Paul——Roshi——Mi——for heroism in Iraq.  Those who served in Operation Desert Storm and in Georgia, Palestine, and Lebanon were not awarded the Medal of Honor.  General Joe——Zhihua——Sheng——ton created the Medal of Military Merit on August 7, 1792.  But it was abandoned after the war, and European countries still pay attention to Americans' military decorations.  However.  The heroic fighting spirit and courage in the American Civil War must be commended. The Senate reviewed the Army and Navy medals in December 1861, which were similar to the Army. The two medals were enacted by legislation on February 17, 1862.  The resolution proposed: The President of the United States authorizes the award of two thousand "Medal of Honors."  as tokens, and as gifts in the name of Congress.  In the civil war.  Many of the same military men and women who did not receive commissions would become famous for their outstanding performance and courage on the battlefield.  To encourage brave soldiers in the war.  $10,000 was taken from the treasury to cover the cost of making the medal.  The version originally designed for the Army was designed by Christian Schuscher and engraved by Anthony Cpacquot. The design of the pendant also passed the review of the Navy, but the Navy did not use the Army's suspension decoration and medal clasps.  On March 3, 1863, Congress amended the original law to expand the scope of medals, and all officers had the right to apply for medals.  Medals are misused as non-military organizations imitate their styles.  In 1896, a proposal to change the medal's ribbon was approved by a joint resolution in Congress with 54% of the vote.  On May 2, 1896, a shield ribbon with a rosette was to be used to hang the medal. The President proposed that the shield ribbon with a rosette be issued in the War Department Order of November 10, 1896.  On April 23, 1904, Congress approved a new design for the medal.  The new pattern adopts the design of Army Major General Qiao Zhiji Lei Sibi.  The new design is still in use today.  The medal is hung around the neck with a ribbon, and the medal is pinned on the left chest higher than other medals.  The style of medal ribbons we see now was adopted in 1944. The ribbon is tied inside the collar of the shirt and cannot be exposed outside the collar of the shirt or the outside of the jacket. The medal is hung above the tie.  Medal style: Navy Medal The current U.S. Navy Medal of Honor is composed of a bronze five-star, decorated with a shamrock on the top of each foot, surrounded by a circle of laurel leaves, and decorated with oak leaves on each corner.  In the center of the medal, a circle composed of 34 stars represents the 34 states of the United States in 1862.  In the center of the medal, Nerva puts humanity into the United States. Her left hand is placed on the Roman throne, which symbolizes strength, and her right hand holds a shield, which symbolizes the armed forces of the United States.  The medal is suspended from the ribbon by an anchor.  The Air Medal is surrounded by a green laurel wreath, the main seal consists of a gold star, the top of each foot is decorated with shamrocks, and there are oak leaves in each corner.  The central pattern of the medal is the head of a goddess named herself.  The five stars are suspended by an ornament with the word valor and a thunderbolt symbolizing the air force.  The Army Medal is a five-pointed gold star decorated with a shamrock on each cross.  The diagonal is 1 inch wide.  The five stars are surrounded by green laurel leaves, and a small sign with the word "valor" hanging on them.  On the sign stands an eagle with spread wings, and the enigmatic head among five stars is surrounded by 'united statesame sunca'.  There is a small oak leaf on each corner of the five-star, and on the reverse side of the small plate with "valor" written, "the congressto" is engraved, and an engraved medal is left.  Examples of Medal of Honor Awarding: During the American Civil War, flag bearer was the most dangerous job in the Army with important responsibilities.  Soldiers fought according to the instructions of the flag, and the flag bearer who held the flag drew intense fire from the enemy.  On November 16, 1863, the flag bearer of the 17th Michigan Infantry Regiment, John Sebrandle, participated in a battle near Lenoire, Tenn.  "Twice wounded and missing an eye, 'he' clung to the flag in his hand until ordered to rest by his regimental commander." Corporal Alvinc from the 82nd Division during World War II, 1918  On October 8, 2011, he bravely and fearlessly severely damaged the chariot team in chatel-chehery, Lanxi.  His citation is as follows: "After sacrificing three commanders, Corporal York stepped forward, led seven soldiers, and knocked out a machine gun position. It was this machine gun position that caused the enemy, including his platoon, to  Four officers and 128 soldiers were killed. "On July 11, 1943, Luo——Bo——Tek——Lei——G from the 3rd Infantry District Division was in Xi——Xi.  -The favoratta in, leading his soldiers in war?Fight bravely.  His record reads: "Second Lieutenant K——Legg began the dangerous task of identifying and destroying a hidden machine-gun emplacement that had halted the advance of his unit. Three officers had previously failed in their attempts and were wounded. -  Lieutenant Lieutenant Leigh zigzagged 35 yards in front of the target before being discovered. He found the position of the enemy machine gun before it opened fire wildly, marched over its position, and killed three with his carbine.  After eliminating this obstacle, his troops continued to advance to a ridge, where Lieutenant Craig and his platoon encountered about 100 enemies.  In order to keep the troops fighting, he drew the enemy's fire and moved the troops to a safe position on the top of the mountain. With no hope of survival, he fired fiercely at the enemy until he heroically rushed to the enemy who was only 25 yards away.  The army surrounded him, and finally he eliminated 5 enemy soldiers and wounded 3 enemy soldiers. Because the enemy focused all their firepower on him, his platoon retreated to a safe position.  He died heroically under enemy fire, but his bravery inspired his soldiers to fight with the enemy, causing the enemy to suffer a heavy blow. "On October 3, 1993, the US Army raided the motorcycle with a 160-man assault force.  -Jia——Disha——in order to capture the largest local army-lord Mu——Han-Mo-Defa——La——Heai——De——De's right-hand man, but due to  Two Black Hawk helicopters were shot down one after another. When the ground troops were unable to reach the second crash site code-named Super64, Delta Force sniper Guy Rigoden and Army Sergeant First Class Lan De  —— Erdshughart (also translated as Kerry Gordon/Randy Shughart) volunteered to go to the crash site.  In the end, the two men desperately resisted the militia siege to rescue the crew members, and eventually died on the battlefield. After their deaths, their bodies were whipped and paraded by Somali militiamen, which eventually triggered Clinton to order the troops to withdraw from Somalia.  Two Delta members saved Super64 pilot Michael Dulan with their own lives, and were awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor by President Clinton.  September 8, 2009.  The Afghan government troops and the American army were on their way to the village of Gan-Ghar-Ghar in Kur-Na-ar province to meet with several local tribal elders.  Ambushed in the valley.  The American Marines Da-Co-Tame-Ye and the artillery sergeant Hu-Anro-De-Ri-G-Zcha-Wei were standing by at the entrance of the valley.  After receiving the news, Si entered the valley five times and rescued 13 American soldiers and 23 Afghan government soldiers. Finally, he recovered the bodies of 4 dead American soldiers.  With this heroic performance.  Mayer was promoted to sergeant and awarded the Medal of Honor, while Chavis was awarded the Navy Cross.  Until 2005.  The Medal of Honor was awarded a total of 3,460 times, 615 of which were awarded posthumously.  19 people were awarded two Medals of Honor.  Among them, 14 people received this honor twice, and 5 people were awarded the Army and Navy Medal of Honor at the same time.  The only female recipient of the Medal of Honor, Marie Hoco, was an Army surgeon during the Civil War.  Her medals and those of other non-combatant recipients were abolished in 1917.  It was not re-recognized until 1977, when President-General Carter was in office. The qualifications to receive the Medal of Honor were not limited to U.S. citizens. 61 Canadians who had served in the U.S. military had received this honor, including  Most of them were during the American Civil War.  The Medal of Honor is the highest-level medal in the United States. Even a general would be jealous of such a medal. Don’t look at Anthony Josh, who is now a lieutenant general and the head of the Western Allied Forces. He has great power. However, Anthony, the Medal of Honor of the United States,  Josh didn't, he was also jealous of the Medal of Honor.  Even Anthony Josh is jealous of the Medal of Honor, and Johnny is even more jealous, so Anthony Josh has just made a promise.  Johnny's fighting spirit was completely aroused, and he replied in a very loud voice: "General. Please rest assured that Johnny will complete the task entrusted to me by you, General. I will never let this happen."  If there is any mistake in the mission, General, Johnny promises you! " Johnny is willing to go all out in order to get the Medal of Honor. He has made up his mind in his heart that this time he will definitely complete the assignment given by Anthony Josh extremely successfully!  His mission, and only in this way can the Medal of Honor be obtained.  "Very good, Johnny, I have confidence in you. Go ahead and do your best to complete this mission." Anthony Josh encouraged Johnny.  "Yes, General, then I'll go down." "Okay, go ahead!" Anthony Josh shrugged, and then told Johnny again: "Johnny, come on!" "Yes, General!" Johnny said.  After Anthony Josh saluted, he left the office.  Johnny has just left the office.  William standing aside"General, are you really going to help him apply for the Medal of Honor?" "Of course, as long as his mission this time can be completed in half a day or one day, I will definitely help him," Nana said with a bit of sourness.  Apply for the Medal of Honor. As long as we find the gold mine, he deserves the Medal of Honor!" Anthony Josh answered in the affirmative without hesitation, which made William Turner's heart even more sour.  "General. Johnny is just the leader of the drone reconnaissance unit, how could his contribution be so great!" William Turner's tone was full of jealousy.  Anthony Josh didn't need to 'smell' much to feel the overwhelming jealousy.  "Hahahaha!" Anthony Josh laughed: "William. Are you jealous that Johnny can get my application form?" Anthony Josh looked at William Turner with a smile on his face,  This made William Turner a little embarrassed.  "Yes, General, I am just jealous of that Johnny. In terms of credit, I am no less than Johnny. But, why can Johnny get the application for the Medal of Honor you gave him, but I can't? The Medal of Honor is but.  The highest-level medal, I am very jealous of this kind of medal. General, I also want to get the Medal of Honor." The soldier speaks so directly. If it is in the unit or in the government department, the people there.  That's certainly not the answer.  In the unit, when other people are jealous of others being able to obtain higher positions, or want to vent their dissatisfaction because of larger bonuses, they will talk to others secretly and will not go directly to the supervisor.  It is said that it is not good for him to speak ill of people behind their backs. Moreover, his dissatisfaction is actually dissatisfaction with his supervisor. In this case, once the supervisor finds out, it will definitely look good on him.  The same goes for people in government departments who vent their jealousy or dissatisfaction. He simply does not dare to vent his dissatisfaction in front of his superior, even if the superior has a good relationship with him.  also the same.  In the officialdom, the most important thing is superiority and inferiority. As for the orders of superiors, you as a subordinate can only obey them and have no role to express opinions. Once you cross this line, what awaits you will be a thunderous thunder. All your superiors,  Whether they are superiors you are very close to or superiors you cannot even see, they will all attack you.  At least I will transfer you to the darkest corner, at worst I will fire you directly.  In the officialdom, no superior likes his subordinates to disobey his orders.  If you can resist and disobey the orders of your superiors today, then in the future, such things will continue to happen. Moreover, you yourself will not give your superiors face. If your superiors do not punish you, then how will this superior control other people?  A subordinate!  Therefore, whether it is to give you some color, or to scare other subordinates so that other subordinates do not dare to follow suit, your superiors will punish you severely. This is how the officialdom emphasizes superiority and inferiority!  "William, you!" Anthony Josh looked at William Turner with a bit of hatred: "William, the Medal of Honor is the highest medal. Not only do you really want to get it, but I also really want to get it.  Yes, but if you want to get the Medal of Honor, you have to make a huge effort and make a great contribution to the country. The Medal of Honor is the highest honor, so it cannot tolerate any stain. You are now.  I am jealous that someone else got my application, and I feel jealous. If I also apply for the Medal of Honor and you get it, it will be the biggest stain on the Medal of Honor in history.  There are many. They also did not receive the Medal of Honor, and even if they did not receive the Medal of Honor, do these people speak ill of others and are jealous of others? No, they are not jealous of others like you.  Complaining that you can't get a Medal of Honor despite having such high achievements, William, as a soldier, you can be jealous of others, because only if you are jealous of others can you have the motivation to move forward, but jealousy can only help you move forward.  motivation, it cannot be an excuse for you to complain. Once you complain in your heart, jealousy will destroy you. William, I will keep this matter in my heart and want to make this matter thorough.  Forget, then William. You have to show your results. I think finding the gold mine is a good result." Anthony Josh seriously criticized William Turner's jealousy. He could allow his men to be jealous.  ,because.  These jealousies are the driving force for soldiers to move forward. Even Anthony Josh himself was jealous of others when he was young.  Like those officers who came out of better military schools than the one Anthony Josh attended.  Every time I see these, I am one level higher than myself.?As an officer of the same age, Anthony Josh was full of envy and jealousy at that time.  However, Anthony Josh was not dazzled by jealousy at that time.  He used the jealousy in his heart as the motivation to move forward, and finally Anthony Josh succeeded.  Ten years later, Anthony Josh directly became the superior of those soldiers of the same age who he originally envied and envied, and he was also his direct superior. Therefore, in Anthony Josh's heart, jealousy is the driving force for progress in life!  Jealousy, what is jealousy?  Jealousy refers to a mental state of indifference, belittling, rejection, or hostility toward the lucky or potentially lucky person in order to compete for certain rights and interests. Everyone has a monkey king mentality and a revenge mentality, so  Jealousy may arise as long as you let it go. It makes people feel uncomfortable. In severe cases, it can produce feelings of hatred. Remember, once jealousy arises, it must be overcome.  Jealousy is commonly known as "pink eye, jealousy, sour grapes", etc.  In terms of inner feelings, jealousy manifests itself as a pressure from comparison to disappointment in the early stage; in the middle stage, it manifests as psychological frustration from shame to humiliation; in the later stage, it manifests as a venting behavior from dissatisfaction to resentment and hatred.  Jealousy is a relatively complex psychology that includes anxiety, fear, sadness, suspicion, shame, self-blame, depression, hatred, hostility, resentment, revenge and other unpleasant mental states.  Others’ natural stature, appearance, and intelligence that emerges day by day can become the objects of jealousy; other factors related to social evaluation, such as honor, status, achievements, property, prestige, etc., can also easily become the objects of jealousy.  "Dictionary of Psychology" says: Jealousy is a complex emotional state composed of shame, anger, resentment, etc., resulting from comparing with others and finding that one is inferior to others in terms of talent, reputation, status or circumstances.  There are roughly three reasons for jealousy: 1: Jealousy stems from competition in the same field. Through observation, we can find that jealousy is hierarchical.  Only two competitors in the same competitive field will have jealousy and jealous behavior.  Between a man's multiple spouses, between a woman's multiple suitors, between two competitors for a position, between classmates competing for the top spot in exams, between colleagues, in the same competitive field and  Intense jealousy often breaks out between two people who are in constant contact.  People will only be jealous of people who are in the same competitive field with themselves and who are better than themselves. They will not be jealous of people who are not in the same field as themselves, nor will they be jealous of people who are weaker than themselves in the same competitive field.  Zhou Yu is jealous of Zhuge Liang because Zhuge Liang is in the same field as him and is stronger than him; Zhou Yu is not jealous of Liu Bei, Cao Cao, and Sun Quan because they are not in the same competitive field.  Snow White is jealous of her stepmother and queen because Snow White is more beautiful than her stepmother and queen in the competition of beauty.  2: Jealousy stems from a destroyed sense of superiority. The Dead-Hearted Love Logic blog said: "Jealousy is a destroyed sense of superiority. It can also be called the psychological reaction after the sense of superiority is destroyed." People only have  Jealousy occurs when one has a sense of superiority and is surpassed by others. If one does not have a sense of superiority, it will only manifest as inferiority and envy.  Without any jealousy.  For example, we often see such a situation.  Children will feel envious when they see other parents holding their own children, but they will not be jealous.  But when he saw his parents holding someone else's child instead of his own, he was unhappy.     why?  Because it does not have any sense of superiority in front of other people's parents.  But in front of his parents, he has an absolute sense of superiority. This is the most obvious jealousy in children.  Similarly, a beggar who has nothing will never be jealous of the emperor's rights, status, wealth, and opportunities to obtain the throne. Compared with the emperor, he has never developed a sense of personal superiority in these aspects. Without a sense of personal superiority, there is no possibility of jealousy.  .  Only those who can have a sense of superiority towards the emperor will be jealous of the emperor, such as the emperor's brothers and powerful officials.  Three: Jealousy stems from the combination of monkey king psychology and revenge psychology. Each of us is born.  Everyone is born with a strong sense of self-respect, that is, he is the Monkey King, the most important, the strongest, and the unquestionable number one person. This is the Monkey King that everyone has.  psychology.  When someone regards themselves as the most important person or recognizes that they are the strongest, people will show great joy, comfort, and happiness.  And the opposite.  When someone does not regard themselves as the most important person and admits that they are indeed inferior to others, people will also show inferiority, sadness, andEmotions such as anxiety, irritability, and fear are often accompanied by pain.     This means that.  Monkey King psychology is closely related to people's anxiety reaction, which can make people feel pain and negative emotions.  When competitors in the same field as yourself perform very well in front of you.  And I also recognized in my heart that this person was indeed outstanding and better than myself.  A message from this truly remarkable competitor and his supporters when he is able to win the support and affection of more people than himself.  And the information fed back from the bottom of his heart will tell him that the really outstanding competitor is the real monkey king, but he is not.  The feedback from the bottom of your heart that you are indeed not the Monkey King will immediately dampen your strong "me-only" Monkey King mentality.  Finding out that you are not as good as others, finding out that you are not the strongest person, but the weakest and most pitiful person, this information will seriously dampen everyone's monkey king mentality.  According to the characteristics of the Monkey King's psychology, we can know that a bruised Monkey King's psychology is often accompanied by negative emotions such as low self-esteem, sadness, uneasiness, anxiety, irritability, fear, etc., and these emotions can make it very painful.  A person's excellence brings endless pain to himself. People's psychological mechanism of revenge determines that people will definitely take measures to retaliate against that person. Physical harm, property destruction, and verbal harm to the outstanding person are the reasons why things have developed to this point.  This is a very normal phenomenon unless a person restrains himself.  Jealousy is a very common human psychology.  Everyone has a monkey king mentality and a revengeful mentality, and even old friends may become jealous.  People who have a particularly strong monkey king mentality and revenge mentality are the ones most likely to explode with jealousy.  Jealousy is dangerous, and its consequences are often serious. Of course, its occurrence is inevitable. However, through the guidance of education, we can minimize or eliminate the risk factor of jealousy. This is achievable.  Jealousy can be divided into two categories, one is rational jealousy, which is good, and the other is irrational jealousy, which is extremely bad.  Rational Jealousy If you hope to maintain a long-term relationship with someone, but because your lover cares about others and you are worried about your relationship with him, you will express a rational jealousy.  .  For example, the person you love may fall in love with someone else and become estranged from you, and you will lose the opportunity to get along with him or him. From this, you can easily prove that the other person will leave you.  .  It will make you suffer losses in all aspects, so you will never like this feeling, so you will have a serious sense of frustration. This is rational jealousy.  In relationships, jealousy is a common psychological feeling, even if you love each other deeply.  Maybe one of the parties will still be jealous because of a certain incident.  Rational jealousy will not lead you to take extreme measures.  When you encounter emotional problems, you will deal with them with love.  That is to say, make up for your own love and use a more perfect love to firmly bind the other person.  2. Irrational Jealousy After some people feel uneasy about their relationship, they will adopt very extreme methods, such as finding clues about the other person like Sherlock Holmes, or eavesdropping on the other person’s phone, or peeking at the other person’s text messages, or even  Send someone to follow the other party.  These extreme methods are not only ineffective in solving the problem, but will also accelerate the collapse of the family you originally cherished. These are due to "irrational jealousy".  The thinking patterns that produce irrational jealousy usually include the following: 1 "In terms of marriage, I must have a guarantee that the other party will only be attracted to me and treat me with endless love." 2 "If I am not the only one for my lover  I am terrible when it comes to the person I am attracted to. I absolutely cannot stand this kind of thing.” 3 “If my lover is attracted to someone else, it means I am not good.” Life, including relationships, fundamentally has no guarantees.  , love is not everything about marriage.  Marriage is a way of life, no one will love you forever.  Using words and emotions to exchange mutual loyalty has no practical effect. ? So how to gain fidelity in marriage?  You have to work wholeheartedly to create an intimate relationship with your partner that is just big enough for both of you.  And manage this intimate relationship well so that your lover will not want to have the same relationship with others again, and at the same time he will be very happy to be with you.     envy.  A state of mind that contains the tendency to destroy the happiness of others and feels helpless about one's own so-called misfortune.  It is precisely because of this mentality.  Only then can the pace of society unfold.  Sasha-shi-bi-ya said: 'You should be careful about jealousy, it is a green-eyed demon!  'Jealous people aredetestable.  They cannot tolerate the happiness and excellence of others, and will use various means to destroy the happiness of others. Some go to great lengths to use gossip to slander, and some use despicable means; jealous people are pitiful, they have low self-esteem, and are dark.  They cannot enjoy the beauty of the sun, cannot appreciate the joy of life, and live in their dark world; jealous people are so pathetic, and 'diseases of the soul' will spread to all parts of the body, causing adverse physical reactions, including the seven diseases  The eight diseases come uninvited and are poisons that destroy human nature and health.  Jealousy is very harmful. It not only destroys the understanding, trust and friendship established between people, but also sows countless hatred, resentment and distrust among people, seriously hindering and destroying interpersonal relationships.  .  People often have this experience in life: once they see others being luckier than themselves, they feel something special in their hearts. This "taste" is the emotional experience of jealousy.  When people's psychological activities go beyond this "taste" and continue to move forward, jealousy will develop and form. Once jealous behavior occurs, the level of jealousy will be deepened.  In this way, jealousy will continue to haunt you like a demon, making it difficult for you to get rid of it.  Looking through the annals of history at home and abroad, jealous people often start with the purpose of harming others and end up harming themselves.  Jealousy is a direct challenge to morality itself, that is, using a moral code or behavior that is inferior to others to belittle the other person and elevate oneself.  People with this kind of jealousy are often very good at pretending or extremely hypocritical.  If someone in life is jealous of a highly respected person, it is not only jealousy of virtue, but mainly jealousy of esteem.  Because being highly respected will attract public attention and directly induce jealousy.  Jealousy of talents and abilities is the most typical manifestation of jealousy, that is, jealousy of those who are better than themselves in terms of ability.  Generally speaking, young people like to be competitive, but if they try to take shortcuts to surpass their opponents in ability, it will often induce jealousy, especially when they see that the opponent is about to surpass or has surpassed themselves in ability, and then they will become jealous.  Jealousy is most likely to be induced when it is not shown on the outside.  This is because it takes a certain amount of time to acquire abilities, and within this certain period of time, one's own incompetence may be exposed.  When in a hurry, you will regard the progress of others' abilities as a blow to yourself, and it will be too late to seriously improve your own abilities, so you will have to cheat, or simply dress yourself up by belittling, slandering, or attacking the other person.  .  Jealousy means jealousy of those who have made certain achievements in various aspects and thus have a certain reputation.  It is characterized by having a relatively strong selfish desire to pursue reputation, but due to limited abilities and being unable to obtain the reputation that one wants through one's own abilities, one tends to receive certain praise from others for their outstanding achievements in work, study or scientific research.  Rewards, professional titles, academic titles and other reputations produce extremely demeaning and destructive thoughts.  When it comes to reputation issues, whether you are jealous of others or being envied by others, the essence is the result of not viewing reputation correctly.  Generally speaking, jealousy of money refers to envy of those who have higher income than oneself or those who have special income.  Other people get rich through some channels, and their material life is obviously difficult. At this time, the psychological feelings such as uncomfortable, dissatisfaction, and complaints will follow, and then they will have the psychology of resentment and venting anger.  In order to achieve the purpose of emotional catharsis, methods such as slander and slander will be used.  Jealousy is a jealous mentality that often appears in daily life, and its specific manifestations are diverse.  For example, the irritability caused by seeing others in pairs in front of and under the moon; the resentment that arises when the person you like is in love with others, etc.  It should be pointed out that jealousy directly induced by jealousy is the fastest growing type of jealousy, and once this jealousy is formed, it is extremely harmful and aggressive, often in an irrational state.  in the state.  Jealousy is customarily called "jealousy". When jealousy arises, its momentum is particularly fierce, and the consequences are unimaginable and unpredictable.  The various forms of jealousy mentioned above are not isolated, they are all inextricably linked, and sometimes several forms are intertwined.  This also shows how harmful jealousy is and how much it hinders our daily lives!  Therefore, we have to overcome our jealousy. Only in this way will our life and future be bright and lofty!  (To be continued, please search Piaotian Literature, the novel will be better and updated faster! PS: Note: Thank you songying_sy for your support with two monthly passes, thank you.Thank you Xie Zhixiu for your support, thank you!  
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