"Zhuangzi. Qiu Shui" said: "Don't be happy when you gain, don't worry when you lose, you know the impermanence of division." The meaning of this sentence is: you don't have to be overjoyed when you get honors, honors and other things, when you lose them There is no need to be brooding and sad, as the boundaries between gains and losses will not change forever. All fame, fame and wealth are just fleeting gains and losses, and this situation often happens. If you realize that everything may change due to the change of time and space, you can see through fame, fortune and wealth, and don't worry about honor, disgrace, and reputation. During those days, Jiang Xiaohan sympathized with me on the one hand, sympathized with my relationship with Nan Nan, sympathized with everything I had suffered for this, and sympathized with my broken heart; on the other hand, she was sad, sad that I had lost the person I once was. Material conditions, heartache as to why the woman I first met was not her; heartbreak as to whether I can still live the kind of life I once hoped for in the future. I could see the change in the other person's feelings of being separated but reluctant to let go. But at that time, my heart was not about it at all. Instead, I focused all my energy on the wedding business, hoping to make money through this industry. Make huge profits to make up for the shortfall caused by the lawsuit. In the end, Jiang Xiaohan still chose to stay with me. Even if she didn¡¯t have those expensive gifts in the past, even if she no longer went to her favorite Cantonese restaurant for morning tea, even if she didn¡¯t give her anything, she would still go to bed with me. ¡°At a wedding banquet I organized, Jiang Xiaohan met a photographer who came to support the groom. That person was the groom's hair boy, and he was just acting as a photographer for free at this wedding. He is said to be a photographer, but in fact he has a net worth of over ten million, and photography is just a hobby. Looking at the long lens that looks like a cannon and the complete set of photography equipment, you know that this guy is definitely a rich man. ¡°I don¡¯t know why Jiang Xiaohan and the other party left each other¡¯s contact information, and then started with text messages, and then talked on the phone, and the development was late, and even flirted with the other party in front of me. "Who are you, are you bothered by saying those disgusting words?" I sat lazily on the sofa and asked Jiang Xiaohan angrily. "It's just a friend. You are jealous, really." Jiang Xiaohan covered the phone and gave me a blank look as she answered. "Ordinary friends can say anything." I licked my chapped lips, sat up straight, and warned the other person word by word. "What's bothering you? I didn't go to bed with him." Jiang Xiaohan hung up the phone and asked me. "Why are you like this?" My voice rose an octave. "What's wrong with me? I'll be by your side whether you have money or not. What else do you want from me?" "It's unreasonable!" "What are you talking about? Who is being unreasonable? Please explain it clearly to me, Jia Shu?" "Jiang Xiaohan came up and pushed me down on the sofa, holding my waist with both hands, and insisted on forcing me to speak clearly. "I know who that person is, and I also know that he is rich. If you think that person can give you everything you want, just go find him. Don't show me a bad face." I couldn't bear it anymore. , what he said was a bit hurtful. "What's wrong with having money? Is it a crime to have money? Aren't you working hard to make money now and strive to become a rich man as soon as possible? Is it wrong to know more rich people?" Jiang Xiaohan asked countless rhetorical questions in a row, which made me sincerely ask Big fire. "You have changed so much. You are completely different from the one you used to be." I stared at Jiang Xiaohan for a long time and squeezed out this sentence through my teeth. "You are different from before. Do you stop cherishing it after you get it?" Jiang Xiaohan retorted. Although Jiang Xiaohan still stayed at my place that night, we were together for the beautiful memories. We lost the original purity and beauty. Physical friction alone cannot produce spiritual resonance. of. Since that night, I have returned to the way I used to be, hanging out in nightclubs every night and being with different women, but I just kept the bottom line and didn't touch them. And Jiang Xiaohan rarely contacts me anymore. I think our relationship is over. When the Chinese New Year was about to come, Jiang Xiaohan found me and asked me to accompany her to Tong Erbao to look at furs. I was so surprised that my jaw almost dropped to the ground. The person's income was less than 2,000 yuan a month, but he dared to look at furs. He was either being kept by someone, or his head was burned with a fever. And Jiang Xiaohan's answer left me speechless, "I will have a class reunion after the new year. I want to dress in a more stylish way so that those classmates who once despised me in private can shut up for me." I particularly hate greed. I admire vain women, and Jiang Xiaohan at this time is among those I hate. It is said that girls in the Northeast can sell their houses and buy mink coats to save face. This time I really learned the lesson. I really miss Jiang Xiaohan who could be happy for a week just because of a hugging bear. I just?I haven¡¯t told Jiang Xiaohan yet that the price of that hugging bear is really not cheap. In the end, I accompanied her to Tong Erbao because I was too free to do anything. Although I don't plan to buy the other person anything, deep down in my heart I still hope that the other person can return to the way he used to be. During the days when I didn¡¯t see Jiang Xiaohan, I kept wondering whether the other party would find that man. This meeting gave me mixed feelings. The good news is that she probably didn¡¯t go to that man, otherwise she would never have come to me to accompany her to look at fur coats; the bad thing is that now I no longer have the financial strength, and I am just a carry-on at best. In the business hall of Tongerbao Fur World, Jiang Xiaohan took the trouble to visit one store after another, trying one item after another. She didn't stop until a silver-white short mink coat appeared in front of her eyes. Such crazy behavior. "This one fits me very well, how much does it cost?" Jiang Xiaohan twisted her body in front of the mirror, with that condescending look on her face, which really annoyed me. "You have such good taste. This is the latest model, and we are still on sale. If you want to buy it, we can give you a 10% discount." The shopping guide praised Jiang Xiaohan while using a calculator to calculate the price. "40,500 yuan after discount!" "Oh!" Jiang Xiaohan replied as if there was no one around, and then locked his eyes on me. "I just came with you." I politely refused the other person's look for help. "Then let me take a look." Jiang Xiaohan reluctantly took off her mink coat, glared at me, and left the store without saying hello, and then returned to Liaoyang alone. Even though I sat next to her in the car, she didn't say a word to me. I thought our relationship was over, but I didn¡¯t expect Jiang Xiaohan to stay overnight in my store that night. ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????: Jiang Xiaohan naughtily held my earlobe in her mouth and whispered: "Jia Shu, it was so hard for you to lie to me!" To be continued