Buddha said: "This exists, so that exists, this arises, so that arises, this has no cause, that does not exist, this ceases, so that ceases!" Someone once asked me: "In this world, what scares you the most?" "Human!" The other party was puzzled by my answer, so I explained: "Because wherever there are people, there will be violence. Where there are people, there will be fights. Where there are fights, there will be bloodshed. Where there is bloodshed, there will be casualties. Where there are casualties, , there will be sadness. In the final analysis, people are the most terrible thing in the world!¡± The other party still didn¡¯t understand what I meant, so I told a short story: ¡°There was once a man who was poor and had only four walls in his house. She used a bench to rest and rest. For this reason, she often prayed to God, hoping that she could get out of this predicament. God looked down on her and gave her a bag and said: "This bag contains a tablet." Silver, when you take this ingot of silver out of the bag, another ingot of silver will appear in the bag. But when you want to spend money, you must throw away this bag before you can spend the money you took out. " After she thanked the gods profusely, she began to take money out of the bag desperately. She spent a whole day and a night, and the floor in the house was full of money. The money was enough for her to buy a house and land and live a happy life. The problem is that every time when she is about to throw away the money bag, she is very reluctant to part with it. She thinks that it would be better to take more money and give out all the money for her future children. So she stays up and eats nothing. She took out the silver from the bag. After a few days, the whole house was filled with silver ingots. She was very happy when she saw the silver ingots in the house, but when she thought that she would not be rich for three generations, she made up her mind again. She collected enough money for her grandchildren, so she endured hunger, braced herself up, and took out the silver ingots from her bag again. How many days passed until finally, she was so weak that she had no money left. She took out the money from the bag, but she still couldn't bear to throw it away. In the end, she starved to death next to the money bag, guarding the room full of silver ingots. "After hearing what I said, the other party suddenly understood and was extremely grateful. His departure left me deeply moved. It is easy to go from frugality to luxury, but it is difficult to go from luxury to frugality! Human desire can never be satisfied, especially when you go from having nothing to being rich and rich, and then let you go back to live the life you once had, I believe few people can bear it. The reason why I wrote the above short story is because from Jiang Xiaohan, I understood the meaning of the phrase "love is endless". The two of us went from being ordinary friends to having a night of fun, and then to everything that happened later, which verified this old saying. ! "Maybe Jiang Xiaohan doesn't see people as clearly as I do, and is as free and easy as I am, but she understands that the road to vanity needs to be paved bit by bit. Starting from that day, I will often send some gadgets to Jiang Xiaohan. I found out that the other person didn¡¯t have a handbag, so I gave him one. It wasn¡¯t expensive anyway, costing a few hundred yuan, so I could carry it around and play with it. I found out that the other person didn¡¯t know how to put on makeup, so I happened to open a photography studio with a friend at that time, so I could use it at work. For convenience, I often buy some Korean and Japanese cosmetics as gifts for each other. Anyway, now that the Internet is developed, there is no need to find a teacher. Search for a video and learn from it. If you can¡¯t draw well, you can still draw well. When you find out what Jiang Xiaohan likes to eat, every week Take her to eat at that restaurant at least twice to satisfy the pleasure on the tip of your tongue; I find her lingering in front of a certain piece of women's clothing and refuse to leave. As long as it's not too much, I usually buy it for her on the spot The first time we started Once, it was almost a curse. After we broke up, she once sent me a message, which said: "During the days when I was with you, I went from feeling inferior at first to despising my own incompetence, and then stopped I felt at ease when I received the gift, and then I fell into greed every step of the way without realizing it. When I passively accepted your gift, I would actively think about what I should give you in return every time. The result is that I will go to bed to exchange with you. The relationship between us is made up of exchanges. Because of my greed, this pure love has changed!" When I was dating Jiang Xiaohan! In the early days, I still had plenty of funds. After all, when I came back from the imperial capital, I sold a house in the second ring road, the money given to me by my boss and sister-in-law, and the gray income I saved in those years, which totaled almost seven figures. Even though the lawsuit against Nannan was expensive, he could still live the same kind of drunken life as he once did in the imperial capital with the money. But in the middle of dating Jiang Xiaohan, the lawsuit came to an end. I have to say here that Nan Nan¡¯s family has a very good background, otherwise she wouldn¡¯t have come to my home. Her grandfather is a retired high-ranking official from the provincial department, and most of her relatives are officials at the Yamen Gate. Although my father used to be the second-in-command of a state-owned enterprise, he has since retired. Therefore, when the lawsuit started, I suffered a great loss. All I can say is thatThe judicial institutions of the era were very corrupt. During the three years of the lawsuit, I visited various ** courtyards in Liaoyang City, including Baita, Taizihe, Wensheng and Hongwei, and I almost went to the Intermediate Court. A small civil dispute lasted for three years, and the more the fight, the stronger the smell of gunpowder. The more the fight, the weaker the relationship between Nannan and I. By the end of the fight, both families were red-eyed. The other party relied on the convenience of being a civil servant and kept looking for people to gain connections in order to win the lawsuit. It¡¯s just that I firmly believe in the boss¡¯s words: ¡°In this world, no one does not pursue his own interests.¡± Therefore, in order to win this simple and fatal lawsuit, I spent the last copper in my bankbook, from a net worth Millions of promising young people have been reduced to paupers. In the end, I won and safeguarded my rights, but I spent all my wealth and my youth. At that time, it was in the middle of my relationship with Jiang Xiaohan. At that time, Jiang Xiaohan, like most women in this city, began to work hard towards marriage. She wanted me to buy a house, buy a car, prepare three gold and bride price and other things. Although I have no money, it does not mean that my parents have no money. It¡¯s just that I have a strong nature and don¡¯t like to open my mouth to my family. But due to pressure, I still had a long conversation with my parents that day about Jiang Xiaohan and me. I remember we started talking after dinner and continued until two in the morning. Jiang Xiaohan has been looking forward to my good news, but what I gave him was another answer: My parents don¡¯t support or object! At first, Jiang Xiaohan thought I was joking with her. After all, I am a person who laughs and laughs all day long. No one knows what I am thinking, and they all think I am very happy. But more than a week later, Jiang Xiaohan discovered that I was not lying. For some of the little things she asked for, I started to procrastinate. It was not as enjoyable as it was at first, and eating was back to the original street food level, which made Jiang Xiaohan feel lost for a long time. to be continued