Wu Mengqin looked very surprised and said: "Why don't you believe it? Don't I attract a man's attention if I am not beautiful? Or do you think that he is a teacher and will not do anything to humiliate the gentleman?"
He himself couldn¡¯t tell why he didn¡¯t believe it, but he just felt that Teacher Tian was not that kind of person. He stared closely into Wu Mengqin's eyes and asked, "How did he touch you?"
She replied angrily: "He touched my hair and patted my shoulders." He found it funny when he heard it, and asked maliciously: "If I touch your hair and pat your shoulders, do I also understand you?" By using his hands and feet, are you acting like a gangster? If your father did that to you, would he be acting like a gangster?"
She smiled sweetly and said: "No matter what you do to me, you are not acting like a gangster, because I like you. Other men who do that are acting like gangsters, including my father."
He was a little disgusted that she said this, and retorted rudely: "I think your body seems to be mature, and it is extremely precocious. You have already thrust forward and back in the fifth grade of elementary school, but you are extremely childish in your heart. Tian If the teacher just touches your hair and pats you on the shoulder, I think it is a kind of appreciation and affirmation for you, and does not mean to be a hooligan."
She lowered her head and whispered: "But my mother saw it and my mother told me this. In fact, I answered a question from Teacher Tian correctly at that time, and he patted me on the shoulder and said: 'You are very smart and have a good understanding. .¡¯ His hand happened to touch my hair, and my mother saw it.¡±
He found it very funny, and thought her mother¡¯s reaction was too neurotic. He stood up and walked to the door, saying as he walked: "Wu Mengqin, you are not young anymore. I think you should be able to distinguish between what kind of actions are ill-intentioned towards you and what kind of actions are just an expression of goodwill. I Let¡¯s go, what you said is not only meaningless but will also hurt Teacher Tian.¡±
She rushed to the door and blocked his way, and said angrily: "What I said is true. Although he didn't continue to do anything to me, I could feel what he meant. There were several times when it was just the two of us. "Every time, he would stare at my breasts lustfully, as if a hungry beast was about to eat me."
He listened and said very calmly: "Everyone is the incarnation of the devil and the angel. As long as he has not shown the face of the devil, you must learn to protect yourself instead of letting him really become a devil. Your mother goes everywhere outside Saying this will not only be bad for you, but will also affect Teacher Tian's reputation. Doing so will harm others and not benefit yourself."
She said with a sad face and a cry: "Hanwen, I called you here just because I want you to help me give me some advice. Come on, come to my room and you can tell me what to do?"
He walked to the sofa and sat down, crossed his legs and said in a sly manner: "Come on, little girl, I won't go to your room. Sit across from me and listen to me slowly give you something." Face-to-face instruction is appropriate.¡±
She was amused by his pretentiousness, and sat down on the sofa opposite him in an orderly manner, urging him: "Tell me, what should I do?"
He bent down facing her and said: "First of all, ask your mother to stop talking about this outside immediately. It didn't happen at all, and let her talk like this and make the whole city uproar. Secondly, when Teacher Tian comes to your house again, You'd better find a female classmate to accompany you. Remember, the best way to dispel any male's bad intentions is not to be alone with him."
She said a little confused: "Why? If Teacher Tian wants to give me tutoring alone, what should I do? If I know he has bad intentions, can't I blame him?"
He showed an impatient look and said: "I usually think you are very smart, but how come you act like an idiot on this issue. Have you ever heard of the term 'slander'?"
She shook her head and said, "Don't be so mean in front of me. I know you know a lot. I just want to know what should I do?"
When he saw that she was anxious, he still said calmly and calmly: "Don't be anxious. For a person like you who reacts slowly, I have to explain it slowly to you. The 'crime of slander' refers to telling others Inner thoughts condemn you. In fact, each of us has many bad thoughts, but there is no sin in thinking about it. Just like Teacher Tian wants to do to you in his heart, but he doesn¡¯t take any extraordinary actions, you can¡¯t give him Convicted of being a hooligan. So, you must learn to say 'no' to him. That is, when he wants you to be alone with him, you must clearly refuse. Do you understand?"
She seemed to suddenly realize and said: "I understand, just don't give him a chance to be alone with me. Thank you, Hanwen, I understand. Is this what you do? You never give me a chance to be alone with you." Chance."
He admitted calmly: "You are right, we can be classmates and good friends, but I don't want to go any further. Do you understand?"
"I don't understand, how am I worse than Yu He?"
"The only difference is that you only consider your own feelings and never consider the feelings of others. Most importantly, I don't believe that a person who doesn't even love his own father will love other people. You can do it for yourself! I'm leaving , otherwise Yuhe will have to wait impatiently."
He didn¡¯t wait for her to speak, he stood up and walked out the door. Her father stood tremblingly at the door and stopped him: "Hanwen, if you sit down for a while, I heard everything you said. There are a few words I want to say to Mengqin in front of you."
He supported her father's body due to cerebral thrombosis, slowly moved to the sofa and sat down. He took two deep breaths and said, "Mengqin, it's been more than two years, and you still refuse to forgive me. I don't blame you either." You, at that time, I had a little crooked thought, but it was just a momentary thought. I have not done and will not do anything to you that you think is worse than a beast. But your mother and you will seize that matter. Making a fuss. This time around Teacher Tian, ??you did it again. Isn't it a shame?"
She lowered her head and shed tears without saying a word. He felt that nothing he said was good. He stood up and said to her father: "Uncle, Wu Mengqin will understand gradually. You two have a good chat. After all, we are father and daughter. What can't be solved?" If you have any problems, they will be solved if you communicate more."
When I got home and finished eating, I didn¡¯t expect Teacher Tian to come. He let the teacher into the dark room. When the two younger brothers saw the guests, they all went to the hall to do their homework.
Teacher Tian¡¯s already melancholy face became a little bitter. After he sat down, he said to Hanwen: "I saw Wu Mengqin looking for you when school was over in the afternoon. You must have heard the rumors about me touching her, right?"
Just as he was about to speak, his mother poured the teacher a cup of hot tea and walked into the room. She said enthusiastically to Teacher Tian: "Did our eldest son get into trouble at school? The teacher was alerted and came to visit our home. If you need anything, just tell me." Come on! His dad is sick, so don¡¯t make him angry."
Teacher Tian stood up politely, took the hot tea with both hands and said, "Huang Hanwen did not cause any trouble and performed very well in school. He is a child who is more mature than his peers. He is very smart and thoughtful. It is all because of your good education. ah!"
The mother smiled happily and said: "It's good that we didn't get into trouble. How we educate our children is all the result of the boss's own efforts. Since the boss didn't get into trouble, I won't bother you. Let's talk slowly."
He asked the teacher to sit down and said: "Wu Mengqin came to me today because of rumors. I have already advised her. Let her tell her mother to stop talking nonsense outside."
Teacher Tian sighed and said, "I am also the father of three children. The eldest is twelve years old, no less than two years younger than you. How could he slander me like that? Hanwen, do you believe that a teacher would do such a thing?" "
He shook his head and said, "I definitely don't believe it, but there is something wrong with you, teacher. I told you not to be angry. You must have read more than me in terms of reading, and you must know more than me in terms of understanding the truth." But teacher, you have made the mistake of 'taking care of yourself'."
Teacher Tian pondered for a while and said: "Hanwen, teacher really didn't think that much. If he had thought about it, he wouldn't have gone."
He smiled slightly and said: "Teacher, the aphorism of 'I can't bear to be in a melon field, I can't keep my head straight' is about making unintentional mistakes, but being unreasonably suspected of making mistakes. You understand this truth better than me. If you are not If you tutor Wu Mengqin alone, you won't be suspected by others. If you don't go to her house but at school, then the chance of being suspected by others is even smaller."
After hearing this, Teacher Tian burst into laughter and said, "Hanwen, you are right. As a teacher, I was taught a lesson by a student today. I am very happy to congratulate you."
He said embarrassedly: "Teacher, how dare I educate you? I just like to ponder these principles after reading the book. The ancient principles of how to deal with people will never be out of date."
Teacher Tian asked curiously: "Listening to your speech and looking at your composition, I can see that you have read many books. Where did you get those books?"
When he was asked where he could read the book, he shyly said, "I borrowed it from my classmates and friends, the factory library, and I picked it up."
Teacher Tian said in surprise: "Before I came to your house, I thought your family must be a scholarly family. There are countless books in the collection. How else could you have read so many books. But when I came here, I saw that there were almost no books in the collection. But this set Did you buy "Das Kapital" and "Journey to the West" by yourself?"
He added some hot water to the teacher's teacup and said calmly: "Das Kapital", "Selected Works of Marxism" and "Selected Works of Marx and Lenin" were all picked up. "Journey to the West" was given by Tan Haixia's second sister. How could I have money to buy books at that time! But I can afford books now. Teacher, when you have time, you can make a list of books for me, and I can buy them accordingly."
Teacher Tian said with great admiration: "Xiao XiaonianJi has read so many books. It's really not easy. He is much better than me. I only started reading crazily when I was in college. Thanks to going to college, I know what books to read. I will take the time to give you the book list that the university teacher gave us. You will definitely be better than me in the future. "
Since the time Teacher Tian came to his house, they have become friends every year. Teacher Tian never visited Wu Mengqin¡¯s house again. I didn't give her any extra lessons individually.
When he graduated from junior high school, Teacher Tian was transferred to the Municipal Education Bureau because he often published papers on education reform. After his father died, there was a love affair between Teacher Tian and his mother, but he broke it off.