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- 217. Carrying dowry
Some people say that the reason why people cry for marriage is sad and emotional is because they think of the hardships they have endured since childhood, and how they have finally brought up their children, and now they have to marry far away and become a member of another family. How can the mother not feel sad from this? ¡¶¡·Íø.com
No one can say clearly when the crying marriage originated, and it may be impossible to find out. But getting a daughter married is a happy event, and it is not too late for the bride's parents, relatives and friends to be happy about it. Sun Gang thinks it is appropriate and appropriate to use any number of idioms with the word "happy" to praise the wedding.
A daughter will be "overjoyed" when she finds a good family; parents will be "overjoyed" when they find out that their daughter has a boyfriend; relatives will be "overjoyed" when discussing marriage; a girl will be "overjoyed" for her bride. ; The family will be "overjoyed" for their daughter's wedding, and everyone will be "overjoyed" when relatives and friends send blessings. With such great joy, why do mother and daughter cry for a while when they get married?
The origin of crying marriage is said to have started in ancient times. In ancient times, girls did not need to get married. At that time, it was called "marriage visit", which meant that the man went to the woman's house. But going there also requires time. You can only go when the sun sets, and you have to go back in the morning before the sun comes up.
Over time, men did not want to live a life of visiting marriages in the evening and returning in the morning, so they simply snatched the women back home. Whenever they were snatched away by men, they would naturally express their failure and pain by crying. , this is the reason for crying about getting married.
Nowadays, crying in marriage is definitely no longer the reason for this. A mother sheds tears in front of her daughter, and a daughter bursts into tears in front of her mother. In fact, it is a kind of emotional catharsis and another way of expressing love. Naturally, it is also a way of expressing love. A different kind of blessing. (¡¶¡·Íø7* I wonder if this understanding is correct?
The send-off team consisted of Zhao Han¡¯s second uncle, a cousin, and a cousin. They were responsible for sending the bride to her husband¡¯s house.
After Zhao Han was taken out, all her relatives gathered around her and started to cry. Zhao Han and her mother even cried together. The people who were welcoming her were all trying to persuade and pull her away, saying something to reassure her family. if.
The people who came to move the dowry started to move the dowry. At this time, there would be children hugging the dowry and not letting go. Sun Gang would come over and give red envelopes to the children. Sometimes he would have to give several red envelopes to the children before they would let go. Those small dowries They were all put in bamboo baskets filled with new straw and loaded onto the wedding carriage.
The dowry is usually carried after breakfast, which means after 9 o'clock. After breakfast, relatives of Zhao Han's family moved all the wedding items to the edge of the living room and put them together in categories.
Then, the mother¡¯s family sets off firecrackers, which means that they are ready to distribute the dowry.
At this time, Sun Gang bowed to thank his relatives one by one according to the seniority and proximity of the relatives in Zhao Han's family. After the ceremony, he began to distribute the dowry. (¡¶¡·Íø7*
The young men who came with Sun Gang were busy carrying the dowry downstairs.
There are also things to pay attention to when planning a dowry. The people hired by Sun Gang should move the wedding items from small to large, from front to back, from light to heavy, from outside to inside. They must also move them one by one, and carry them in a targeted manner one by one. You can move away only if you say something that is more rhyming, otherwise you cannot move away.
For example: when you see a mirror, say "The mirror is round, and the child will be the number one scholar.", so that you can take the mirror away; when you see a quartz clock, make up the sentence "The clock runs often, happiness lasts the longest", and you can also take the clock away. Walk.
When you see a quilt, you can say, "The quilt is wide and wide, and the child will be a high official." You can also say, "The pillows are in pairs, and the child will be an emperor."
If you want to move a refrigerator, you must say congratulations related to the refrigerator: "If you have a refrigerator at home, you will be happy forever." and so on.
There is a time process for fortune-trading. A short-term one will take an hour, and a long-term one will take more than two hours. The key depends on whether the female guests on the mother's side are demanding, have a lot of ambitions, and have different people's hearts. Otherwise, the male guests will keep rushing to transport items until the move is completed.
The groom cannot drive his car to the door of the bride¡¯s house when he goes to the bride¡¯s house to transport the dowry. If that is the case, it will be regarded as bride-stealing, and you will be scolded.
Therefore, the wedding convoy brought by Sun Gang could only park on the roadside outside the community and wait.
When the dowry is being transported in Zhao Han¡¯s family, after all the dowry is arranged, firecrackers will be set off again, and the drum band will beat gongs and drums and blow trumpets to see the dowry off.
The dowry was first given away symbolically by Zhao Han¡¯s relatives from the door of his house, and then carried or shouldered by friends invited by Sun Gang to the roadside and boarded the car. At this point, the process of organizing the dowry is over.
Nowadays, it costs tens of thousands of dollars to marry a girl.
Of course, this has to be done within one's ability. Those with a more prosperous family will be able to do better, and those with poorer family conditions will do better.? There will be less dowries; those with wealthy families will buy more high-end dowries, while those with weaker families will have more casual dowries.
Of course, this should be done within one's ability. Those with a better family background will have better things to do, while those with poorer family conditions will have less. Those with affluent families will buy higher-end dowries, while those with a weaker family finances will be more casual. .
The general feeling is that when a daughter gets married, she lacks everything. For example: small ones such as feather dusters, large ones such as air conditioners, refrigerators, etc., they are all available.
The dowry should be purchased by the woman, but some electrical appliances are purchased by the man. When marrying a bride, the man has to pay how much money he has to give to the woman¡¯s family.
¡°The dowry that Zhao¡¯s father and Zhao¡¯s mother bought for their daughter was quite a lot.
Starting with household appliances, there are air conditioners, refrigerators, LCD TVs, laptops, washing machines, scooters, etc.
Speaking of daily necessities since childhood, there are soap dishes, slippers, shoe brushes, brooms, etc.
Looking at the bedding, it is even more comprehensive, including bed, cover, winter, summer, body warmer, hand warmer, the list goes on and on.
As for the kitchen supplies, there are a lot of knives, spatulas, pots and pans, everything is complete.
To be honest, apart from not giving away a house, the other additions are equivalent to giving her a complete heart and a fulfilling home.
Nowadays, marrying a daughter is really a love affair between sons and daughters, which makes parents feel miserable.
Although we don¡¯t need many of them and have them at home, they are still the parents¡¯ thoughts.
After leaving the county town, on the car in front, a firecracker was specially arranged to clear the way.
When Sun Gang was welcoming his bride, guests came to the yard one after another.
Wedding scene, flowers, balloons, carpets, arches
?? Neighbors who helped prepare the wedding banquet, villagers who helped greet the guests, men, women and children sitting around in their yards the lively congratulations from the villagers were endless.
When celebrating children¡¯s weddings in rural areas, it is necessary to entertain relatives, friends and neighbors. This is a custom that has been fixed for many years.
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