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Text 216. Getting married

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    216. Getting married

    The morning sun slowly climbed up the mountain, and the layer of mist that shrouded the village gradually dissipated.  ¡¶¡·Íø.com

    Sun Gang felt that the sunshine today was particularly warm, and that warm feeling made people feel like a spring breeze.

    Sun Gang just made some supplies in the morning and went to the county town with the wedding car to pick up the bride.  There were five cars and a truck accompanying them. The truck was used to carry the dowry.

    The welcoming team consisted of Sun Gang¡¯s cousin Sun Lanlan, cousin Sun Xiao, cousin Sun Wuyi, and Sun Gang¡¯s sister-in-law.  The two are married and each has a son and a daughter. The younger brother and younger sister are unmarried.

    At this time, Zhao Han was sitting in front of the dressing table, and Zhao's mother was combing her hair.

    "Hanhan, mom also wants to say that today you have found your favorite, and you must also understand that everything with life will change. This is the most natural and normal state, please accept it calmly."

    Zhao Han listened silently and said nothing.

    "Love is also alive, so it will also change - on the one hand, it may wither, deteriorate or even die; on the other hand, it may transform into family affection, similar to blood relations: dependence on each other in life and death, sharing weal and woe."

    "Love gains new life in this form. (¡¶¡·Íø7*In fact, passion is the expression of sex, and family affection is the sublimation of love. Perhaps, it is more real and closer to the essence of love  , isn¡¯t it?¡±

    "After all, marriage is a matter between two people and requires two people to work together to maintain it. Therefore, you cannot be as willful as you are at home."

    "Every marriage has love, pain, tears, and smiles. Marriage is like the "Besieged City" written by Mr. Qian Zhongshu. Inside and outside the "Besieged City", touching or thought-provoking stories happen every day  "

    "Here, mommy wishes you the best." Mother Zhao shed tears as she spoke.

    "Mom, don't cry" Zhao Han's eyes were also red.

    Relatives from Zhao Han¡¯s family came to the door one after another. Father Zhao was entertaining male guests in the living room, and women all entered Zhao Han¡¯s room to chat with her.

    Soon, firecrackers rang out in front, and everyone sitting in the living room knew that the groom was coming to pick up the bride.  Everyone gathered around to greet him.

    The wedding team all got off the bus at the entrance of Zhao Han's community. The gongs, drums, and suonas were blaring, and firecrackers were played all the way to the downstairs of Zhao Han's home. Behind them were a group of residents watching, which was very lively.

    There were 6 wedding cars lined up at the entrance of the community. The one at the front was a float decorated with bright red, which was very festive.  ¡¶¡·Íø.com

    Sun just got off the float, and several laborers came out of the cars behind them. They were here to pull the dowry. The group of people walked straight upstairs under the watch of others.

    The waist drum troupe invited by Sun Gang's family began to perform, while Zhao Han's relatives helped serve sugar, tea and cigarettes to the guests.

    When he came to the living room, Sun Gang went to meet his father-in-law and mother-in-law. They also offered tea and cigarettes. Sun Gang personally lit a cigarette for his father-in-law, and then his parents-in-law had to explain to their son-in-law, which was regarded as handing over their precious daughter to him.  .

    Sun Gang took a pair of new shoes and started knocking on Zhao Han's door. The door opened. The bridesmaid helped Zhao Han take off the shoes she was wearing and put on the new shoes Sun Gang had brought. This was done to avoid damaging her mother's family's shoes.  The wealth and aura was taken away.

    Zhao Han has already come out surrounded by a group of women.

    Zhao Han, who was wearing a bright red Jifu, looked bright and charming, and his shy face made Sun Gang look straight at him.

    Beforehand, Zhao Han planned to wear a wedding dress, but was persuaded by Sun Gang.  Although it is spring now, the temperature is still relatively low.

    When Sun Yang and Wang Yan got married the year before last, they wore wedding dresses. However, during the wedding, their lips turned blue from the cold, their words trembled, and they both caught colds the next day.  Sun Gang didn't want Zhao Han to suffer this.

    Zhao Han¡¯s best friends and sisters all made fun of Zhao Han, causing her face to blush all the time, and her bright red Jifu became even more red.

    Although young people today are doing new things and doing new things, some etiquette still cannot be omitted.

    Zhao¡¯s parents and Zhao¡¯s mother were sitting at the table. Sun Gang and Zhao Han were kneeling in front of them, each holding a cup of tea in their hands.

    When her daughter and son-in-law knelt down to serve tea, a brief blank suddenly appeared in Zhao¡¯s head, and her tears were like an open faucet.

    While handing over the red envelope, he burst into tears and spoke incoherently: "The small red envelope contains the love and blessings of your parents for you. I am so happy today, I want to cry with joy, and I want to cry with excitement. Our darlings  My baby girl has finally grown up and become the most beautiful bride. In addition to mom and dad, there are also grandparents, grandma, uncles, aunts, and aunts. From childhood to adulthood, their love for you is as great and selfless as mom and dad.??Ask nothing in return.  Our common expectation is that you work hard and live well.  And your younger brothers and sisters, their love for you is quite touching. Although you are not the same as yours, it is better than the love between your siblings. You must care about, cherish, and take good care of this strong family relationship"

    Dad Zhao took over the words: "From now on, you two must respect and love each other, be considerate to each other, and work together to manage your marriage well. Mom's biggest wish is that you will love each other, grow old together, and have a safe and healthy life.  happiness!"

    "Thank you, dad, thank you, mom." Sun Gang and Zhao Han said in unison, took the red envelope and kowtowed three times.

    "Get up quickly, get up quickly." Zhao's mother hurriedly wiped her tears while helping her daughter and son-in-law to get up.

    When Sun Gang and Zhao Han kowtow to Zhao¡¯s parents and Zhao¡¯s mother, this is often the time when the bride¡¯s parents, relatives, and the bride shed tears.

    This is the most unique crying wedding in my hometown. As the folk saying goes, "If you don't cry, you won't cry. The more you cry, the more you cry." The bride must cry when she gets married. The bride's mother, female relatives and female companions must also cry with them, and follow the procedures of the wedding ceremony.  , crying step by step.

    Nowadays, there are still people who cry when marrying a girl.  Sun Gang saw this not once or twice.  Zhao's mother started crying when everyone else was busy organizing the dowry. She cried very emotionally. Zhao Han's aunts and uncles also cried, and several male guests couldn't help but burst into tears.

    After crying for a few minutes, several female guests came up to persuade her while crying, saying that it was a happy event and a good thing for her daughter to get married, and asked Ma Zhao not to be too sad.

    "Crying to get married only lasts seven or eight minutes, ten minutes or so."

    Sun Gang did not listen carefully to what he was crying about, sometimes because he could not hear clearly, sometimes because he had to take into account other scenes.

    However, after asking about it later, when people cry for marriage, they usually tell their daughters to "honor their parents-in-law, obey their husbands and sons-in-law, be harmonious to their neighbors, treat their uncles well, don't talk nonsense, get up early or stay late, and be diligent and thrifty in running the house." When they arrive at their husband's house, they say  Don¡¯t be coquettish, don¡¯t be lazy, don¡¯t be coddled like you do around your mother¡± and so on.
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