Zhang Chengyuan smiled and said: "Love often starts from this situation. If it continues like this, you will probably fall in love with him. However, you don't need to tell me this, this is your private matter." Cui Shirley said : "Oppa, I heard that you once asked Sister Taeyeon and Sister Pani that if they like someone, they must report to you in advance, and if they make any progress, they must also tell you." "Yeah. , I did ask them that. " "Then I am your sister, should I also report this situation to you? " " Well if you really want to tell me, I think I will be patient. What I¡¯m listening to is, why do you want to talk to me about this matter in detail?¡± Cui Xueli said: ¡°Because I haven¡¯t been in love much, and I don¡¯t understand many aspects. I want to find someone to give me some guidance, but most of the people around me don¡¯t. No matter how suitable it is, maybe you are more suitable. " Zhang Chengyuan couldn't help but feel a little funny, and said: "What guidance can I give you as a grown man? You should find a close sister to guide you, such as your sister Song Qian. But Sister Song Qian doesn¡¯t have much experience in relationships, right? Even if she does, it may not be suitable for my current situation. Oppa, you are not only experienced in relationships, but you are also very accurate in seeing people and things. You can definitely give me some good advice. "It's hard to say. But since you insist on it, I'll try to do it. If you have any questions, just ask." Cui Xueli thought for a while and asked: "Oppa, do you think Choi Jae-ho and I are suitable?" "We are very different in age." In fact, she herself was a little conflicted about the age difference between her and Cui Zaihao, otherwise she might have officially been in love with him long ago. Zhang Chengyuan thought about it for a while. Trying to be as objective as possible, he said: "In terms of love, the age gap has never been a problem. There are many examples in the world of couples who can get along well even when they are in their teens. The real question is, can you two withstand the pressure of society?" If you can bear the pressure from public opinion, parents, relatives and friends, then don't worry about anything and just fall in love boldly; but if you can't bear it, then give it some serious thought before you really fall in love with him. "Cui Xueli thought for a while, nodded and said: "Oppa, I will keep your words in mind and seriously consider them. Do you have any other suggestions?" Zhang Chengyuan continued: "Compared with the age difference, you should probably do it. Pay more attention to the personality issues of the two of you. If the personalities are not suitable, that is the most fatal. Many couples break up because of personality incompatibility. " "I am not worried about this. Our personalities should match well. It has never happened. We had a quarrel." Zhang Chengyuan shook his head and said with a smile: "Shirley, you made a mistake. The behavior, demeanor, personality, etc. that a man shows when pursuing a woman may not be his true situation. Now you think you are. The personality is quite suitable, but it may not be true after we get together in the future. Of course, I am not saying that Cui Zaihao must be like this. Maybe what he shows in front of you is his true appearance. " Cui Xueli suddenly said: "Oppa, I am a little curious. , is the face you showed when you were pursuing Sister Yuli and other sisters your true face?" She has always been puzzled as to how a man as carefree as Zhang Chengyuan could pursue so many beautiful and wise women, so I couldn't help but ask this question. Zhang Chengyuan smiled lightly and said: "You don't think that I use deception to make them fall in love with me, do you? This method is not a good method. It can only succeed for a while at most, but it cannot last long, so I have alwayswell, I don¡¯t dare to say that this is 100% true, but in most cases I don¡¯t use this method. Okay, let¡¯s not talk about my affairs and continue the previous topic about you.¡± Cui Xueli nodded and then asked: "Oppa, I want to know how to really understand a man's character?" Zhang Chengyuan said: "It is not easy to fully understand a man's character, but it is easier to have a general understanding. I suggest you usually do more Observe the details of his life. A person's true character is often reflected in the details of his behavior, speech, clothing, preferences, etc. In addition, you should also pay more attention to how he gets along with others, especially when he is not in front of you. Of course, it's easier said than done. I can't give you much advice on specific aspects. You have to think more and make more judgments. " Cui Shirley said: "I understand, thank you for your advice. I have another question to ask you. If you were in the same situation as Crystal, or if my status in your mind was almost comparable to Crystal, what would you do? " Zhang Chengyuan let out a breath, He said somewhat coldly: "If this is the case, I may send someone to break Cui Zaihao's legs and warn her not to approach you, because I will not allow my cherished sister to be with an uncle.Come on, he doesn't deserve it! Of course, I only look at this matter from the perspective of my parents and relatives. If your father knew about the incident between you and Cui Zaihao, he might have a similar attitude to me, but this attitude may not be correct, and you don¡¯t need to care about it. . Cui Xueli smiled and said: "This attitude is indeed your character. You can treat other people's affairs very calmly and objectively, but once it involves the people you really care about, you become a little fiery." , a little extreme. "There was a hint of bitterness in her smile, and she didn't know if she felt that Zhang Chengyuan didn't treat her as a truly close person. "I don't deny this, my character is indeed like this. " Zhang Chengyuan said with a faint smile. " Then Cui Xueli asked several questions one after another, all related to her relationship. Zhang Chengyuan answered them one by one, which made her feel a lot. Then they saw that they had been chatting for a long time, and he took her with him They went back to the living room and continued talking with others. After about half an hour, Song Qian and others said goodbye. Zhang Chengyuan did not insist on staying and let them leave. Of course, Xiao Jingshu, the clingy person, stayed again. Come down. Ten minutes later, Xiao Jingyuan was next to Zhang Chengyuan on his bed and asked him about his previous conversation with Cui Xueli. Naturally, Zhang Chengyuan would not hide such a thing from her, so he told him everything in detail. I told her. After listening, Xiao Jingshu couldn't help but ask: "Brother, I found that since Shirley got involved with Cui Zaihao last year, you have become somewhat alienated and repulsive towards Shirley. In the past two years, you have been with her Instead of progressing, the relationship has become distant. "When Zhang Chengyuan gets along with the sisters he cares about, the longer they know each other, the deeper the relationship becomes. However, in the past two years, there have been exceptions with Cui Xueli, which makes her feel very strange. You must know that he originally had a crush on the beautiful and lovely Cui Xueli. Shirley also likes it. ¡°Maybe. " Zhang Chengyuan responded casually. If Cui Zaihao hadn't been involved in this matter, his relationship with Cui Xueli might have been much closer, but he didn't feel any regret. Anyway, he already had enough sisters he loved, and Cui Xueli was missing. Li is fine. ¡°Why? "Little Crystal asked with some confusion, "Is it because you think she betrayed you? Well, no, she never liked you, she just respected you. Then it should be that you feel that she already has a more important man in her heart and is no longer worthy of your liking. Brother, is that right? ¡± Zhang Chengyuan is very possessive. He will not allow his woman to like other men, and he does not like his sisters to regard the men they like as more important than him, at least as important as him, just like many people who do The father doesn't like his daughter to love her husband or boyfriend more than him. The reason may be because Zhang Chengyuan has given a lot of sincerity to every woman and sister he has, and he hopes that the people he loves can give it. He reciprocated equally. And when he found out that Cui Xueli had a boyfriend and was no longer likely to be like this to him, he felt that there was no need to get too close to her. After all, feelings always come first, and love often takes precedence over family ties. So, when the brother-sister relationship between him and Cui Xueli has not reached a relatively close level, how can he compete with the relationship between men and women? Zhang Chengyuan smiled lightly and said: "Crystal, you really understand me, I may not be able to fully understand it myself? You have spoken out my thoughts, but there is one thing I want to correct. It's not that Shirley is 'unworthy' of my liking, but that I don't think it's necessary to like her too much. I just like her as the sister next door. " "Brother, I think your idea is very bad. " "Well, I feel bad too, but my mental state is only at this level, and I can't be too tolerant of others, so I have to do this. " "I'm not saying that, I think it's a shame for you to be like this. You have to know that you have known Shirley for a long time, and you have regarded her as your sister for a long time. Why should you give her up to that old uncle? Choi Jae Ho? "Little Crystal said angrily. "What is this? Crystal, do you think Choi Jae-ho and I are love rivals? I don't like Shirley. " Little Crystal said: "Although we are not love rivals, it's almost the same. It's all competition anyway. Brother, I don't want you to lose to that Cui Zaihao. How can he compare with you? In addition, I feel uncomfortable when I think of Sulli and Choi Jae-ho together. He is not good enough for Sulli, and he may not really like Sulli. He may just want Sulli to be beautiful. Well, some old men just like to attack young women. Well, maybe he is like this too. Brother, I think Sulli should be with you instead of being with Choi Jae-ho? Although you have many women, you treat each one of them sincerely. Shirley will not suffer from you. " "What's your logic? Crystal, I know you think I am the best man in the world, but others may not think so, no, they definitely won¡¯t think so, so don¡¯t say this again in the future.?. Also, didn't I tell you that although Shirley is your good sister, you have no right to stop her from being with anyone, so you don't have to worry about her relationship in the future. " Zhang Chengyuan scolded lightly. (To be continued, please search Piaotian Literature. The novels are better and updated faster!